Met a girl online last Friday she wants to meet

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These “party talk lines” prey on desperate men.

Women are not attracted to desperate men.

I can post hundreds and hundreds of links to men with disabilities who date and marry, but, when one gets in the “poor me” mindset women will run away so fast that they leave skid marks.

As a severely disabled person, I promise you that letting the disability define you is poison.

Put your best foot forward every time you leave the house. This means make sure you are well groomed

always be clean, showered, etc
take care of your skin, use moisturizer, sunscreen, if you have redness or acne use a greenstick
get your hair cut and styled, ask the stylist what cut will be best for your hair type and your face shape
regular dental teeth cleaning, brush and floss, use mouthwash and carry some breath mints/drops/strips
your hands, do not chew your nails. Keep your nails trimmed and clean. A manicure and pedicure every now and then is a good idea.
shoes, they should be the best shoes you can afford. A good pair of leather shoes that are clean and polished and kept in good repair will serve you for years.
clothes, a few quality items that fit are better than a closet of bad clothes. Find a place that will tailor clothes so they fit your body. Clean, in good repair, not wrinkled and always over dress just a little bit.
posture. Sit up straight, practice your handshake so it is firm
manners. GOOD table manners, don’t eat with your mouth open, don’t slop your food. Hold the chair for a lady, open doors, always stand when she comes to the table or steps away.
If you use assistive devices, walker, cane, wheelchair, make sure they are clean and well kept.
 
I just saw an episode of I am Innocent the other day about a woman who met someone online and began a relationship. Eventually they planned to meet up but he asked her if she could first stop in Spain to drop off some documents to his boss. They put the “documents” in the lining of her suitcase. She was stopped by airport security and as they opened up her suitcase, to her surprise, there lie millions of dollars worth of drugs. She spent two years in prison.

The online “guy” (really just a paid person apart of a drug cartel scheme) had asked her previously for money to see if she would be trusting enough to go through with the plan. Scary stuff out there!!
 
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To pay to talk to anonymous women on the phone is an act of desperation. It says “I want a female with a pulse, I have nothing to offer so I will pay you to talk to me!”

Do you honestly believe that smart, faithful Catholic women are going to go looking for their future husband on an anonymous party line?

Save the money you are spending on sketchy meet up stuff and buy a ticket to this conference:

 
But the system allows the conversation, so it’s really kinda the same thing.

Again, I suggest meeting people by going out and doing things. Not with the intention of finding someone to date, but with the intention of making some real life friends.
 
I invited her so that I have proof that I am talking to a girl picture and phone conversation is not enough we are supposed to meet today I will post later to say how it went.
 
Maybe now you will believe us, John?
You need to get out and meet people. Join a group of some sort of something that interests you. Join a bible class at church. See if whatever your disability is has any groups that meet.

Your aim should be to make friends.
 
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Yes I did she claims she is here at Wal-Mart but the lines are long this was at 430 now almost 6 still not here.
 
WHY John?? Why would you send her money at all??
There is no reason to send money to people. She is ripping you off and if you have her phone number, you should delete it and never contact her again.
 
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33 years old I am at home if she needed the money for personal items she should have just told me.
 
What don’t you understand about this, John? Everyone here told you it’s a scam, a ripoff, and not to do it. But you did it anyway. You have a serious problem of being able to know who to trust.

I really think you would benefit from a life coach and/or counseling.
 
I’m really sorry for your hopes to be dashed John,for the dissapointment .
There is so much good advice given by other posters here who truely want to help and are concerned for your happiness.Youre in my prayers. God bless.
 
I knew something was suspicious because she just kept on you send it you send it when you going to send it?
 
John, I think you should stop talking to people online like that. You are unable to tell what is true or not, even when we all warned you.
 
To see if she was about what she talks about and for my proof shes a girl.
 
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