Met a girl online last Friday she wants to meet

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I don’t think I’m the first she has done this to I had completely forgot about wire services and she had me do walmart 2 walmart transfer so she does live in Louisiana.
 
Why are you telling us this when we are telling you it is a scam, and people are giving you advice? It’s like you are totally ignoring what we say and doing what you want. So the question is, John, do you want our help or not? You seem to make a lot of excuses for the scammers, and honestly, for yourself as well. We don’t need to hear anymore details, you just need to stop repeating the pattern.

Just stop using that “service.” Stop talking in chat room, groups or whatever you want to call them.
Get some real life, honest to goodness friends through a support group.
 
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Off and on I started in 2005.
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Ok, so you started in 2005. It is now 2018. In 2018, you stop using the chat lines and stop sending these people you’re never going to meet money. 2018 is the year you stop falling for the scams and go out and meet real people.
 
I can’t get out I have no car and all I would find in a club are drunks.
 
I didn’t send people money for 13 years just met a lot of bad people including the one I relocated for in 06 so it’s just hard to find someone who will be real.
 
Lack of transportation is no excuse not to get out. There are taxis, Uber, Lyft, the MTA. There is plenty of transportation for the disabled.

Call your local MTA and they’ll refer you to the right department. Where I live, the service for the disabled is called Access Ride. If your disability requires a wheelchair, you can also take the regular bus if it’s wheelchair accessible.

Stay out of bars and nightclubs. Go to church. Go to the local library. Go to the park. You don’t have to go out and get drunk. Getting drunk is one thing that leads to the kind of problems you’ve had with women.

You need something constructive to do with your time. Have you thought of volunteering your services at a homeless shelter or a soup kitchen? You will meet plenty of nice people there as well as see that there are those who are far worse off than you.

Start counting your blessings instead of focusing on the gloom and doom. You have much to contribute to society. Now go out and start contributing.

And remember, there is nothing wrong with being single. Not everyone is meant to be in a relationship. The greatest relationship you can have is with Jesus Christ, your Lord and Savior.
 
I have read it and its good advice I shouldn’t even be on this forum glad I found it.
 
People are difficult everywhere look at how some of the responses are like I am hard of hearing or something I was always at a disadvantage @irishmom2 you know what we talked about in pm.
 
I do know John. But people are repeating advice to you (as happens on all threads, btw) because it did seem like you weren’t listening because we all told you not to send money and you did it anyway.
 
Find some way to meet people in person, please! Before you are physically harmed or your bank account drained! Please! Go to the library, Starbucks, Panera, church groups, Bible study, etc. Volunteer in a hospital - you meet lots of people there. Just give up online dating! And don’t wire any more money!
 
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Still never showed up and I won’t give up online just don’t send money to anyone @Cecilia what do you mean worry you all? I don’t bother anyone.
 
John, what do you mean you won’t give up online? Do you mean looking for love? You aren’t going to find it online. At least, not the romantic kind of love.

The kind of love you’ll find online is the kind that we here have for you. We don’t want to see you get hurt or taken advantage of. We care about you, John.

And definitely don’t send anyone money. Do not give them money either. Someone who truly wants to meet and get to know you won’t ask for money and won’t expect money. They will want to know you for you.
 
I been taken advantage of since I was 1 year old my mom took money from me for 18 years to support her habits.
 
Then it’s high time you stop the cycle. Just because you’ve been taken advantage of in the past doesn’t mean you have to let it continue.
 
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