Also, realize that some people have the attitude that “if they are worshiping with us, then they should be able to receive.” The communion taker in question may have been given some slack because he is in RCIA and intends to be a Catholic. For some people, intention is just as good as “being”.
Given how much I fought with some of the issues surrounding taking the Eucharist, I find that kind of insulting and really negates the purpose of having to go through the process of RCIA.
When the RDE told us her views in a RCIA session, I seriously asked myself why I’m bothering to take the classes and “be Catholic”, if I could just take the Eucharist due to the fact that I’m a consistent participant in the Mass at that particular parish.
Ironically, the (new) parish priest wondered why more people weren’t participating in RCIA, but then when you have the Religious Ed Director telling people that it was okay to take communion and not “technically” be Catholic. It’s kind of obvious what the answer is. The situation is kind of messed up.