Yes, we know about the repentance of Peter because God chose to reveal it to us, it is used as a teaching tool of Godās mercy and a blueprint for how to show remorse and be forgiven. God chose to not tell us about any possible repentance of Judas, he is used as the example of what not to do all the way up until he Chose to Kill himself. There is no clue of redemption. None. Period.
Sure it might be perfectly fine, but it is in NO WAY taught by the Church, not is it even HINTED at anywhere in scripture. You might as well just say that Joseph Smith is a prophet. It would have the same backing, none.
That idea is often misunderstood. I agree that "there but for the grace of God go I, but I am hopeful and confident in my own forgiveness and I feel quite ok putting myself up against the great betrayer even on my worst day. The difference of Course is my love for God expressed by my absolution in His Church. Judas never had that. And God took much care to tell us exactly what Judas thought several times.
This is just not true. It is the Catholic view to understand that Justice dictates that Evil cannot be in heaven, and that some people choose Evil. And that not everyone will be saved. And it is certainly Catholic to understand the scriptures and the story of Judas as one of evil and good. And siding with Godās Justice is never anti Catholic. So, yes, I hope that my understanding of Good and Evil is such that Justice is served. The redemption of some of the worst criminals against God is told in the Bible. Adam, Peter, Paul, And the Good thief. Funny how the man who betrayed our Lord and about whom much ink was spilled was never concluded with the hope you wish to haveā¦

To me, the hope for Judas is the position that denies key elements of Catholicism and the History of Salvation.
Yes, this unites us with God who wishes the Salvation of every single person ever born. In my mind, Judas is already judged. And I hold that that judgement was Holy and Fair. And that He is in Hell. This does not put me at odds with the Church, with Christ, or with the quote above.
In my heart of hearts I believe he is in hell, and I find comfort and happiness in knowing that if that is true, then my sense of God and Justice and Love and Mercy is correct. And that it is a good thing if he is in hell, it is good because God ordained it. And I hope for that!
That is interesting that you think that. I wonder if that somehow makes sense in your mind, and I am sure for some, it could be true. But it is not the case. actually I am not that disgusted by Judas. He is a character in my salvation story and he lived 2000 years ago. He betrayed our Lord but Our Lord knew this, and not only allowed it but conquered it and used it to save you and I (but not Judas) More accurately, what disgusts me is not the character of Judas, but of those who refuse to see evil for what it is. I am more disgusted by the attitude that Judas would be in heaven given only what we know about him and the economy of Salvation. It does not offend me that he betrayed God as much as it would offend me that God would abandon Justice for false Mercy. To me that is offensive. So, going only by what we know about Judas from the Church and scripture. I indeed hope that he is in hell. I pray he is in Hell. And I do so because there is so much injustice in the world that if he is not, and his redemption is left out of the salvation story of our faith, then I would have serious doubts about what or who God really is. What is offensive is to suggest to the history of the world and even people suffering injustices today of rape, or poverty, or death, or war that the Church cannot say that anyone will be held accountable. That is a slap in the face to those who suffer like Christ. And that is weak theology and used only to make ourselves feel comfortable in our own failings and our own betrayals of Our Lord.
If we are to wish that the fallen angels are in Hell, like you said, then certainly, we should wish and hope for the fallen and unrepentant of us to be in Hell.
I feel justified and confident in saying, "God, judge me by the standard you Judge all your betrayers and even Judas Himself, because I know how to repent, be forgiven and turn back to Christ, using my life and my forgiveness to further the Kingdom. Judas never did that. There is just no indication of it at all.