Yes. It doesn’t invalidate what I have been saying, because it approaches the matter from exactly the opposite way around.
One can’t (or at least shouldn’t be) coerced by law
into doing something - as long as not doing it doesn’t constitute harming anyone else (something like not educating one’s kids represents real harm to them, therefore education to some level should be compulsory). Similarly I don’t think it’s right for a court/legislature to force a bakeshop owner to bake a cake, or to decorate it in a particular way - which, if I understood SavannahGal correctly, was her point. (?)
However,
refusing to provide a service or product for some people, when that same service or product is provided to others, is tangible unequal treatment and that, to my mind at least, is wrong.
Sweet Cakes in Portland OR refused to provide equal service (to take an instance we’re all fairly well aware of). While if I was one of the offended couples I’d simply go find a bakery that was willing to make my wedding cake, I don’t think it was illegitimate to ask for redress. And while I think the sum currently ordered for redress seems extortionately and ridiculously high (which perhaps calls into question the motives of the couples concerned; asking for a token $5 in damages would have been more appropriate), it is not the same thing as a court ordering a bakery to make a cake with a slogan or decoration they (the owners) find to be at odds with their beliefs.
I work for a counselling service. I would offer that counselling equally to anyone here or anywhere else, even if they were in the KKK, for instance. I might find almost everything about their beliefs abhorrent, but given I provide that service it should be provided regardless of any qualms I may have about the person I’m interacting with. If Congress passed a law saying counsellors had to go socialize out with their clients, I would have an issue with that (and professional ethical concerns

). But that’s very much the opposite thing from providing the original service to them.