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I DO think it’s delusional for people to think they’re going to be therapeautically reprogrammed to not have same sex attraction. So do all legitimate mental health authorities. The bit about sex addiction is guesswork and inference from what you say about these men having some sort of fear of getting caught up in an unhealthy “gay lifestyle.” That’s usually a veiled reference to real or imagined subcultures of extreme promiscuity. There is nothing unhealthy in the mere fact of same sex attraction or consenting adult relationships. Nor is there any monolithic “gay culture.”Did you just call these well meaning people delusional? Wow! You’re not going to get much sympathy if you take that attitude.
Where did the sexual addiction aspect of this come into play? Are you saying that the people I’m talking about with SSA are suffering from a sexual addiction now? You don’t even know these people and your labeling them as sex addicts? You’re the one being judgmental now.
In fact everything you’ve said is based on a position of ignorance. These are not people who want to be cured of their SSA. To say so is to admit you know nothing about these people. So, why make statements based on ignorance? To win an argument online.
You talk about honor. You could have pointed out the weakness to the position. Did you really have to say the things you did to make your point?
If I’m still off base, what exactly is it these guys are trying to achieve with themselves that warrants something as twisted and dishonorable as DADT? If they mean to live in celibacy, bully for them, but they need to learn to do that on healthy terms. It’s not the military’s problem to try to sterilize the ranks of any temptations for them.