This begs a very big question: who gets to determine the definitions? Words mean what the people who use them think they mean, and very few, if any, words mean the same thing to two people. For instance…define ‘people.’
Have fun with that.
The problem comes with this idea you seem to have that YOU get the final word on the definition of something, and that anyone who has a different view of it is, necessarily, decieved or deliberately deceitful.
I solve the problem by going to a dictionary (except when you want to define phrases to your liking), figuring that the dictionary generally gives the definition the MOST people agree upon. If yours is different, then it is your responsibility to let us know what you mean. Insisting that, when we use a word, that we are being deceitful, or are ‘really’ claiming to believe something we do not if our definition doesn’t march with yours is a particularly biased way to go…
especially if your definition has elements that are not in the dictionary (
like your definitions of revelation, scripture and oh apostasy). A wonderful example of this is “Christian.”
Nobody can argue that Mormons do not fit the dictionary definition of “Christian.” It is only when different Christians add things to the definition that the problems come in…and then y’all expect us to agree that YOU are correct in defining the word. Why in the name of all that his holy should we do that? We don’t believe you are as correct in your beliefs ABOUT Christ as we are–can you give me one logical reason why we should tamely accept your definition of a word that excludes us?
Isn’t that a little like asking Catholics to accept Islam’s version of the catechism? C’mon.
The best way to do this is to be kind to one another; realize that (for instance) ‘excommunication’ to a Catholic doesn’t mean quite the same thing as it does to a Mormon, but that once both know what the OTHER means, a meaningful conversation can ensue anyway.
A snooty dismissal of all definitions of concepts other than one’s own won’t get you anywhere at all. It especially won’t get you listened to.