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LaMar
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Seeing bitterness is simple projection in your case.But at least I have been honest with who I am. Your posts are disrespectful toward not only the mormon church but toward mormons in general when you generalize conspiracy theories among the lds and its missionaries. You show no ‘collective guilt’ at all but you do show a tinge of bitterness toward the lds and their religion.
As for myself, I take a middle ground. I do not defend the lds faith unless people show disrespect for it and let loose false accusations and interpretations. I seek no respect but I do appreciate christian kindness and understanding.
As one women on NPR stated: religions are like lampshades, all are different and yet, they contain a similiar light inside.
I enjoy the structure of the church, despite its flaws. I’m the guy who never attends sunday school or priesthood, but is always first to show up for service projects. I refuse all my callings, but pay my fast offerings. I donate to Deseret Industries, despite the fact that there isn’t a DI within 500 miles of where I now live.
At the same time, I think we have much to improve upon. The idea that we are somehow better than other people is one. It’s an idea that will cause us a lot of problems in the future if we don’t come back down to earth.
If I were bitter, I’d simply leave. It’d save me money and I’d volunteer at a secular charity. I choose not to, because I like the church. I like going home and seeing my mother and going to church with her. I’d like to think that I can work from the inside and make a meaningful difference, both in the church and for the greater community.
You are in the church because it gives you a false sense of superiority. In that regard, you and I are on opposite ends of the spectrum, no doubt about it. I have known many people of your type, who have little in the way of real-world achievement, but much hubris and arrogance due to a fancy calling or a pedigree. Most amusing is the fact that I’ve turned down much higher callings than are ever offered to your kind, and I have a much longer family history in the church than you likely do. Despite this, I usually let your type continue with your predictable delusions of grandeur and persecution. All of us do. You can rant and squeal and act like a jerk until the cows come home. We pretend to sympathize and sometimes give you a bit of encouragement, if only because your antics are amusing. Whether you know it or not: You and your type are of no significance. Not to the church, not to society, not to yourselves. That’s the brutal truth of the matter.