Okay, so you’ve only been a member one year, so I can pretty much guarantee you that what you’ve learned is an amazingly sanitized version of LDS history. Let me address the issues you that you have countered.
Polygamy
Polygamy was not “taught” by the church. It was practiced by the church. You are taught that Jesus is God, but you practice polygamy by marring 51 wives (and having 56 children) as Brigham Young did. Other leaders had multiple wives as well, including founder Joseph Smith (33) and Heber C. Kimball (45). This practice was only stopped when the US government said that they would not annex Utah as a state unless the practice was stopped.
God’s planet
The name of the planet in question, where the Mormons have always taught that God resides, is one called Kolob. Next time you’re in church, go to your hymnal and turn to Hymn #284, “
If You Could Hie To Kolob.” Feel free to bring that to your Elders Quorum president and ask about it. If he explains that Kolob is part of the translation of Abraham, ask him about the translation of the papyrus. Then read
this web site about the truth about the translation. Long story short, once real Egyptologists evaluated Joseph’s sacred scroll, it came to be known that it was a very run-of-the-mill funeral scroll, nothing more. And nothing like Joseph Smith “translated” it to be, according to
learned egyptologists.
Catholic Jesus vs LDS Jesus
You are missing a HUGE HUGE HUGE part of the difference between Jesus and Satan. LDS scripture teaches that God is one person, a perfect person, a glorified person, but a person. And then there’s all of his creation. That’s you, me, Satan, all angels, all demons, all souls. Everyone was created at the exact same time, and all of these spirit children were equal. Then God asks, who’s got a plan. Jesus says, I’ll say follow you and give You the glory, Father. Satan says, I’ll make them follow you, and I’ll get the glory. Wackiness ensues, and 1/3 of the angels get kicked out of heaven.
Catholic/Christian Jesus, however,
is God. God is three different entities in one. God the Father, God the Son, and God the Spirit (Holy Ghost). Three things. It’s like your brain and your fingers and your breath that you breathe in and out are all you, but all separate at the same time. Kind of. If you have children, they have your DNA, but they are not you. They are them. And you are you. And you are superior over them and created them and rule over them. But they are not you, nor are they equal to you.
The point is not “free agency”. The point of salvation is not to show that you can be a good Mormon and endure to the end. Jesus did not die on the cross because he wanted you to do food storage and journal and teach young women how to iron and scripture chase. Jesus died for you because He loves you. And all Jesus wants is to love you, and for you to love Him. If you love Him, you will have a delicate conscience and would prefer death to committing even the smallest deliberate venial (small) sin.
Skin color and spirituality in the pre-existence
Here’s some quotes from prominent LDS founders about race and spirituality from a book, and an edition, that we had in our home growing up (emphasis added):
“Those who were
less valiant in pre-existence and who thereby had certain spiritual restrictions imposed upon them during mortality are known to us as the
negroes.” LDS “Apostle” Bruce R. McConkie, Mormon Doctrine, p. 527, 1966 edition
“THE NEGROES ARE NOT EQUAL WITH OTHER RACES where the receipt of certain spiritual blessings are concerned, …but this inequality is not of man’s origin. IT IS THE LORD’S DOING, is based on his eternal laws of justice, and grows out of the LACK OF SPIRITUAL VALIANCE OF THOSE CONCERNED IN THEIR FIRST ESTATE [the Mormon pre-existence].” LDS “Apostle” Bruce R. McConkie, Mormon Doctrine, p. 527 - 528, 1966 edition
“THE NEGROES ARE NOT EQUAL WITH OTHER RACES where the receipt of certain spiritual blessings are concerned, …but this inequality is not of man’s origin. IT IS THE LORD’S DOING, is based on his eternal laws of justice, and grows out of the LACK OF SPIRITUAL VALIANCE OF THOSE CONCERNED IN THEIR FIRST ESTATE [the Mormon pre-existence].” LDS “Apostle” Bruce R. McConkie, Mormon Doctrine, p. 527 - 528, 1966 edition
Sadly for new converts, you get stuck in the
double-bind of the church when it comes to your history. If you don’t research the history outside of the approved church sources, you will receive a whitewashed, cherry-picked “faith-affirming” view of the history of the church, but will live in ignorance. If you do research primary sources away from the church, you will “feel” bad, which the church will tell you is the devil and that must prove that it is false. Except it’s not. So you’re either ignorant and lied to, or “feel” bad and must be influenced by Satan. There is no way to win this.