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Hi ib,BDawg, I think you’ve hit the nail on the head - for some cases. The flip side of the coin is that certain people, and certain faiths, will be dishonest in their attempts to convert. Speaking candidly, it is the experience of many that the Mormons can be less than forthcoming with potential converts, and can try to avoid talking about the LDS church is really all about. “Milk before meat” and all that, you know?
In my experience, you are right that some Mormons will avoid certain topics, but usually that is because they don’t know much about it, and they feel uncomfortable with it. In other words, they are marginally in the same boat as those people who are uncomfortable with ANY religious back-and-forth. We all tend to circle the wagons when we don’t have a ready answer, wouldn’t you agree?
On the other hand, part of the problem is that we don’t want to give enemies of our faith free rein to define “what the LDS church is really all about.” If I were to ask some people “what the LDS church is really all about,” they would make a list that would include things like 1) billions of gods, 2) men becoming gods, 3) polygamy, 4) “celestial sex,” 5) the Adam-God theory, and 6) the Danites. There’s some kernel of truth in all of those, but they would typically be taken FAR out of context, and they really aren’t the things that are at the core of our faith. The problem is that people can’t even begin to understand the far-out stuff until they understand what is REALLY at the core of the faith. So yes, even though I’m comfortable discussing most anything about Mormonism, I recognize that many people who don’t understand the basics won’t understand a thing I say about the weirder stuff.
Let me give you an example. Suppose I were to start a thread on a board inhabited mainly by people who don’t know much about Catholicism. The title of the thread is “What the Catholic Church Is Really All About.” My list would include, 1) Cannibalism in Communion, 2) Pedophile Priests, 3) Weird Stuff About Mary, 4) The Inquisition, 5) Rotten Popes, 6) Simony, and 7) Selling Indulgences. How would you address those topics? There’s a kernel of truth in all of them, but if you just jumped right in to explain all of them, wouldn’t it be hard to get your readers up to speed without backing up to explain what YOU think of as the basics of your faith?
You guys seem to be fond of accusing Mormons of wanting to give “milk before meat,” but you seem to forget where that phrase comes from–the New Testament.
“I have fed you with milk%between%, and not with meat: for hitherto ye were not able to bear it, neither yet now are ye able.” (1 Cor. 3:2)
“For when for the time ye ought to be teachers, ye have need that one teach you again which be the first principles of the oracles of God; and are become such as have need of milk%between%, and not of strong meat.” (Hebrews 5:12)