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Ah yes…the eyeroll. Very uncharitable. Perhaps you should take the whip to your back to curb such sinful leanings.If you say so![]()
Ah yes…the eyeroll. Very uncharitable. Perhaps you should take the whip to your back to curb such sinful leanings.If you say so![]()
Why do you call flagellation disgusting behavior? That’s not that charitable as sone people on this board probably use the discipline. There is light flagellation abs there is drawing blood. Moderate ca extreme.Ah yes…the eyeroll. Very uncharitable. Perhaps you should take the whip to your back to curb such sinful leanings.
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You’ll note a few things:Ah yes…the eyeroll. Very uncharitable. Perhaps you should take the whip to your back to curb such sinful leanings.
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I think it could be… I think for myself, I don’t really have other symptoms of OCD. Maybe very very mild. There are certain traits that I have, like overthinking things, analyzing, etc, which encourages scrupulosity so I shouldn’t focus on my thoughts/feelings so much. But regarding scrupulosity in general, - it’s helped me to try and trust more, - trust God, the Church, my confessor… I don’t know about others with scrupulosity.Isn’t scrupulosity OCD expressed in a religious context?
Are there any people who are scrupulous and not obsessive-compulsive in other areas of their life?
I’m asking because that would be an example of a mental condition affecting your spiritual life.
that is interestingSt. Alphone de Ligori wrote about scrupulosity. In fact, he spoke about his own struggles with it. He acknowledged that he was mental condition. St. Alphonse did not know the term OCD or Anxiety Disorder.
He said one thing that is very important. He said that it helped him get started on the right path. Had it not been for this “mental condition” he would not have stopped to ask himself the hard questions that he faced regarding the practice of law. He was a lawyer. He realized that not everything in law and in politics was right. That in itself is not scrupulosity. That’s just common sense.
The scrupulosity came in when he felt compelled to get out of the legal profession as one feels compelled to wash and wash to rid themselves of germs. Had it not been for scrupples, he might have remained in law and been another Thomas More.
However, God had other plans. As we know, “Grace builds on nature.” God used his condition to lead him where he wanted him to be. He entered the seminary and became an Oratorian. From there, he went on to found the Congregation of the Most Holy Redeemer (CSSR), also known as the Redemptorists. They educated and preached to the poor.
But Alphonse’s struggles with scrupulosity did not end when he entered the seminary. He was still scrupulous. The fact that the poor did not have teachers and preachers bothered him to the point that he felt personally responsible. He moved out of the Oratorians and became a consecrated religious That’s how the Holy Spirit called to life the Redemptorists.
Scrupulosity did not stop there. Alphonse was so scrupulous that he was irascible, to the point that his Redemptorist brothers left him and a new congregation was founded, The Congregation of the Blessed Sacrament.
On October 3, 1731, during the Transitus of St. Francis of Assisi, Alphonse had a vision. He saw Christ with Holy Father Francis seated at his right. To Christ’s left, he saw a priest seated. As he looked closely, he realized that that it was him. Christ said to him, “This is he whom I have chosen to be head of My Institute, the Prefect General of a new Congregation of men who shall work for My glory.”
Alphonse was humble and he acknowledge his struggle, but he also trusted the words of Christ. He pushed himself.
Fast forward, the Congregation of the Most Holy Redeemer came to be. In this wonderful priest, bishop and religious, we see how God can use our condition to build the Kingdom and suffering becomes redemptive love. It is no coincidence that the congregation founded by this man who suffered so much from scrupulosity should be named after the suffering Redeemer
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF![]()
yea I don’t think it’s disgusting… it’s something many of the Saints have done.Why do you call flagellation disgusting behavior? That’s not that charitable as sone people on this board probably use the discipline. There is light flagellation abs there is drawing blood. Moderate ca extreme.
No my friend. We do not recommend flagellation or chains. Those of us who do this ministry day in and day out do not encourage people to use the discipline or the chains of any kind. This is not necessary.You’ll note a few things:
As for the eyeroll being uncharitable, it is and I apologise. I should have taken the time to point out why I took exception to what you said, but I couldn’t be bothered. I am now.
- I did not say everyone should do what those saints do, thats obviously a little extreme and its not suitable for everyone
- The discipline is still used amongst both laity and clergy, even to the point of drawing blood in some cases. Further it has been used by innumerable saints, so condemning it is condemning them something I do not count myself worthy as doing
- Wearing chains, i.e ‘The little chain of Mary’, is recommended by numerous saints and religious directors, an obvious example would St Louis-Marie Grignion de Montfort
- Lesser mortification, which would be considered extreme, such as numerous days of fasting and extremely strict fasting has been encouraged by numerous saints and enforced by the church for centuries. One thinks of the total fast from midnight that one had to follow in order to receive communion for centuries if not at least a millenia.
Accusing the saints of disgusting practices and claiming it demostrates ‘a sure sign of mental instability’ is however ignorant, imprudent and arrogant. Flaggelation for example has been practiced for a millenia or more and is still practiced today, as are many more of the practices you claim are ‘disgusting’. As a good man said ‘Some people naturally derive more pleasure and profit from such external things than others. To some they are a great help to piety, whilst to others they are not. This much is certain, that you may be an extremely devout Catholic, without making any considerable use of them. You must, however, take greatest care of one thing, that is, never to allow yourself the least thought of contempt for such things, or the devout people who delight in using them. You may be quite sure that any practice that the Church encourages must be good, and if you cannot appreciate it, it is a misfortune, probably arising from some deficiency in your own mind.’ Rev John B Bagshawe, The Threshold of the Catholic Church, p161.
Of course he was talking about sacramentals but his message very much applies to this situation.
Br. Jay,No my friend. We do not recommend flagellation or chains. Those of us who do this ministry day in and day out do not encourage people to use the discipline or the chains of any kind. This is not necessary.
Is it really that stringent or only among the Franciscans?Today, you cannot be a spiritual director unless you have been certified. You must have either a Master of Spiritual Theology or the equivalent in CEUs. You can’t get such a degree until you have completed a four-year Master of Divinity, then you go for a two-year Master of Theology with a major in Spiritual Theology. The program is very rigorous. A great deal of time is spent not only on theology, but also on Christian psychology and pastoral counseling. We spend a great deal of time separating what comes from God and what comes from the pscyhe. Spiritual Directors 100 years ago did not know much about the psyche.
Give me an FThe spiritual goals remain the same, but the means have to adjust according to the knowledge and the means that we have today.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF![]()
Ha ha. Love it!Give me an F
Give me an A
Give me an S
Give me a T
Give me an I
Give me an N
Give me a G
What does that spell? :extrahappy:FASTING!:extrahappy:
That’s right Catholics, fasting is one of the best mortifications we have to help you climb that spiritual ladder to perfection. But wait there’s more! For the low low price of $0.00 you too can fast all day long! That’s right were giving away a $0.00 mortification for absolutely FREE!
Plenary indulgence sold separately:
In order to obtain a plenary indulgence once must first complete the following norms.
a.) Sacramental confession. A single sacramental confession suffices for gaining several plenary indulgences; but Communion must be received and prayer for the intention of the Sovereign Pontiff must be recited for the gaining of each plenary indulgence. b.) Eucharistic Communion. c.) Prayer for the intention of the Sovereign Pontiff. The condition of praying for the intention of the Sovereign Pontiff is fully satisfied by reciting one Our Father and one Hail Mary; nevertheless, each one is free to recite any other prayer according to his piety and devotion. d.) It is further required that all attachment to sin, even venial sin, be absent. If the latter disposition is in any way less than perfect or if the prescribed three conditions are not fulfilled, the indulgence will be partial only, Please see link for fruther info. God bless.
http://www.ourladyswarriors.org/indulge/norms.htm#norm
Has human nature improved? Have we somehow become less subject to sin and our passions? Has someone discovered a better method of controlling our passions and strengthening our will than punishing the flesh?No my friend. We do not recommend flagellation or chains. Those of us who do this ministry day in and day out do not encourage people to use the discipline or the chains of any kind. This is not necessary.
Yes there were many saints who did it. However, this does not mean that it is necessary or that they were right for doing it. They were the product of their time. Spiritual directors of those times had very little formation in human behavior and mental health. That’s not the case today.
Today, you cannot be a spiritual director unless you have been certified. You must have either a Master of Spiritual Theology or the equivalent in CEUs. You can’t get such a degree until you have completed a four-year Master of Divinity, then you go for a two-year Master of Theology with a major in Spiritual Theology. The program is very rigorous. A great deal of time is spent not only on theology, but also on Christian psychology and pastoral counseling. We spend a great deal of time separating what comes from God and what comes from the pscyhe. Spiritual Directors 100 years ago did not know much about the psyche.
We cannot apply to today’s man every religious discipline and every form of asceticism from yesterday. This does not mean that we’re judging or minimizing the saints of the past. The problem that you’re having is that you’re afraid that if we say that this should not be done by today’s man, we’re somehow trivializing or dismmissing the saints of the past. That’s not the case. The spiritual goals remain the same, but the means have to adjust according to the knowledge and the means that we have today.
Br JR, what about spiritual directors today who allow corporal mortification? and the religious orders where this is still done…No my friend. We do not recommend flagellation or chains. Those of us who do this ministry day in and day out do not encourage people to use the discipline or the chains of any kind. This is not necessary.
Yes there were many saints who did it. However, this does not mean that it is necessary or that they were right for doing it. They were the product of their time. Spiritual directors of those times had very little formation in human behavior and mental health. That’s not the case today.
Today, you cannot be a spiritual director unless you have been certified. You must have either a Master of Spiritual Theology or the equivalent in CEUs. You can’t get such a degree until you have completed a four-year Master of Divinity, then you go for a two-year Master of Theology with a major in Spiritual Theology. The program is very rigorous. A great deal of time is spent not only on theology, but also on Christian psychology and pastoral counseling. We spend a great deal of time separating what comes from God and what comes from the pscyhe. Spiritual Directors 100 years ago did not know much about the psyche.
We cannot apply to today’s man every religious discipline and every form of asceticism from yesterday. This does not mean that we’re judging or minimizing the saints of the past. The problem that you’re having is that you’re afraid that if we say that this should not be done by today’s man, we’re somehow trivializing or dismmissing the saints of the past. That’s not the case. The spiritual goals remain the same, but the means have to adjust according to the knowledge and the means that we have today.
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF![]()
Br. Jay,
Did not Blessed John Paul II practice self flagellation? Is this article a lie?
Is it really that stringent or only among the Franciscans?
Why do I get the sense that there are spiritual directors who don’t have those qualifications?
This is hilarious. However, Luther would see the line about indulgence and have an apoplexy since he was so scrupulous. But I love it.Give me an F
Give me an A
Give me an S
Give me a T
Give me an I
Give me an N
Give me a G
What does that spell? :extrahappy:FASTING!:extrahappy:
That’s right Catholics, fasting is one of the best mortifications we have to help you climb that spiritual ladder to perfection. But wait there’s more! For the low low price of $0.00 you too can fast all day long! That’s right were giving away a $0.00 mortification for absolutely FREE!
Plenary indulgence sold separately:
In order to obtain a plenary indulgence once must first complete the following norms.
a.) Sacramental confession. A single sacramental confession suffices for gaining several plenary indulgences; but Communion must be received and prayer for the intention of the Sovereign Pontiff must be recited for the gaining of each plenary indulgence. b.) Eucharistic Communion. c.) Prayer for the intention of the Sovereign Pontiff. The condition of praying for the intention of the Sovereign Pontiff is fully satisfied by reciting one Our Father and one Hail Mary; nevertheless, each one is free to recite any other prayer according to his piety and devotion. d.) It is further required that all attachment to sin, even venial sin, be absent. If the latter disposition is in any way less than perfect or if the prescribed three conditions are not fulfilled, the indulgence will be partial only, Please see link for fruther info. God bless.
http://www.ourladyswarriors.org/indulge/norms.htm#norm
No. Human beings continue to be human beings. But we also understand that there is a grave potential here for abuse and this must be guarded. Therefore, we do not endorse these types of penances. There are penances that are less dangerous and are still effective and very much part of Christian tradition.Has human nature improved? Have we somehow become less subject to sin and our passions? Has someone discovered a better method of controlling our passions and strengthening our will than punishing the flesh?
What the Opus Dei and Franciscans practice is not the same as what many of these individuals did. We both have the dscipline. However, the rules are very strict. You may never cause yourself pain or do harm to when using it. You must always remember that it is only a symbol. Too much or too little are extremes to be avoided. The superior or the spiritual director have the authority to command that you stop using it, they observe that you hurt yourself. By that, we mean drawing blood or leaving welts on your skin.As for no one practicing flagellation or recommending it, we both know thats patently false. Numerous religious and laity still practice it, most famously Opus Dei but there are others.
St. Francis de Sales was an excellent spiritual director with a great deal of knowledge about the mind, as was Ignatius of Loyola. They were not the norm for their time. Together they are master teachers for all spiritual directors today.As for spiritual directors not having knowledge of the psyche thats an oversimplification of matters, St Francis de la Sales to name but one saint has been described as ‘A master Pyschologist’ One should also not forget that psychology is ‘new science’, it is mostly unproven, there are many conflicting theories about almost everything and there are some who argue that it is not even a science.
The Church adapts by making use of new knowledge that it did not have. That’s not modernism. That’s common sense. Look at great spiritual masters such as Bl. John Paul II or older ones such as Francis de Sales who adopted to the local culture and taught that Christianity had to be separated from Europeanism. Do you see what I’m saying?If I may say so with all due respect your last paragraph sounds like Modernism, the idea that the church must change and adapt to the modern world, or that modern man is somehow different fron ‘old man’.
If you and your spiritual director agree that such punishment is good for you, go for it. But let’s not present it as what the Church encourages today. That’s not the case. We admire and respect these holy men and women, but we also see the dangers involved if this type of penance is put out there for people to do without any kind of supervision and guidance.I stand by what I quoted earlier ‘Some people naturally derive more pleasure and profit from such external things than others. To some they are a great help to piety, whilst to others they are not. This much is certain, that you may be an extremely devout Catholic, without making any considerable use of them. You must, however, take greatest care of one thing, that is, never to allow yourself the least thought of contempt for such things, or the devout people who delight in using them. You may be quite sure that any practice that the Church encourages must be good, and if you cannot appreciate it, it is a misfortune, probably arising from some deficiency in your own mind.’ Rev John B Bagshawe, The Threshold of the Catholic Church, p161.
This is not accurate. The spiritual director and the confessor can be the same person, but they are not the same ministry. Spiritual Theology is not a requried area of study for the priesthood. Therefore, most priests are not trained to be spiritual directors. Those who are have trained for it. There are people who are naturally gifted. In the end, a spiritual director is a teacher. There are many people who are natural teaches.As for the qualifications needed to be a spiritual director, surely one could ask a priest to be your spiritual director and confessor? Ultimately a spiritual director is nothing more than your permanent confessor, so surely every priest should be able to be a spiritual director? At least I’ve never seen anything to the contrary.
Yes, as I said above, there are. However, it is very carefully guided. In the past, it was less controlled. Experience has proven that people did harm to themselves. Today, we tend to be very careful as to who we encourage to use things such as the discipline or extreme fasting. We do not discourage asceticism, but we do encourage that it be done under supervision. It is very hard to be objective with oneself. We can think that we’re doing enough and are not or that we’re not doing enough and go too far, as was the case with St. Francis. At the end of his life he comes to terms with the fact that he has abused his body. This was the final act of penance that he needed to do before he died. He needed to ask forgiveness of his body for the abuse.Br JR, what about spiritual directors today who allow corporal mortification? and the religious orders where this is still done…
God bless!
This article came out a while ago. From the responses given to the article, including the author of the book itself, it seems that the reporter does not understand what the writer is talking about.
Is it really that stringent or only among the Franciscans?
This is pretty standard. The problem is that there are not enough of us trained in this field. Most priests have no one to whom they can refer people for spiritual direction, so they fly by the seat of their pants. Some of them are actually very good at it, because it comes naturally to them. As I said above, some people are natural teachers.Why do I get the sense that there are spiritual directors who don’t have those qualifications?
(I want one, too. So many explanations to questions/concerns/skepticisms I have had for several years)If CAF ever puts out a book with all of Brother JR’s posts, I want to be the first one to buy a copy.
-Tim-
First off…An early Happy Birthday!!For what it’s worth, my only hope is to do some good for the Church. Thank you for your kindness. Forget the book and just pray for me.
Now, we can get back to moritication instead of mortifying Br. Jay?
Fraternally,
Br. JR, OSF![]()
Br Jr, I think this talk of spiritual directors and psychology is fundamentally a red herring. As I have stated before psychology is a very new field of science with numerous conflicting theories about almost everything, remains mostly unproven and unlike other sciences does not have any definite or even particularly probable outcome. Whereas for example in chemistery we know that if you x and y together you will get z, in psychology this simply isn’t possible due to the complexities of the human mind and our lack of knowledge about it.The Church adapts by making use of new knowledge that it did not have. That’s not modernism. That’s common sense. Look at great spiritual masters such as Bl. John Paul II or older ones such as Francis de Sales who adopted to the local culture and taught that Christianity had to be separated from Europeanism. Do you see what I’m saying?
If you and your spiritual director agree that such punishment is good for you, go for it. But let’s not present it as what the Church encourages today. That’s not the case. We admire and respect these holy men and women, but we also see the dangers involved if this type of penance is put out there for people to do without any kind of supervision and guidance.
This is not accurate. The spiritual director and the confessor can be the same person, but they are not the same ministry. Spiritual Theology is not a requried area of study for the priesthood. Therefore, most priests are not trained to be spiritual directors. Those who are have trained for it. There are people who are naturally gifted. In the end, a spiritual director is a teacher. There are many people who are natural teaches.
Don’t confuse the advise that you get in the confessional with spiritual direction. Confession, spiritual direction and pastoral counseling are different from each other. Not every spiritual director is a priest. Many are sisters, brothers, deacons and laymen. He or she guides your spiritual journey and discerns with you. The confessor deals with your sins. Most of the time, unless it’s by appointment, confessors do not have the time to do spiritual direction, because there are others on line.
We can see someone like Mother Teresa who was a very penitential person, but does not allow her sisters to engagte in any form of corporal penance other than what the entire Church is bound to do. She see the sacrifice of daily following the Gospel and the poverty of her sisters as enough penance. This is what I mean by adapting. Mother Teresa is no Modenist, but she adapts to the circumstances. There was no need for her sisters to do more, considering the harsh conditions in which they live and work. Anything more would render them ineffective.
Br Jr, If I may add an observation here.Bl. John Paul had great admiration for St. Francis, but it was not Francis’ penance that imrpessed him, but his ecumenism. That’s why he chose Assisi for the Assisi gathering. Francis of Assisi is considered to be the father of ecumenism, even though Francis never used the word.
You may want to read the works of Fr. Benedict Groeschel, CFR. We writes very well on this subject and is considered one of the world’s experts on the subject. He is so highly respected in the area of Christian Psychology that Church sought his professional opinion for the beatification of Bl. Teresa of Calcutta and Bl. John Paul II.Br Jr, I think this talk of spiritual directors and psychology is fundamentally a red herring.
That is not what is being said.Frankly in many cases they probably knew more about a persons soul than someone trained in psychology would. I believe it is misleading to suggest that somehow our so called new knowledge regarding psychology means that spiritual directors can be more effective.
Opus Dei has very strict rules on how corporal discipline is to be used. They are not allowed to do harm to the body. This includes drawing blood or damaging the skin in any way. That there are people out there who still go to these extremes is no surprise. It does not make it right.As for encouraging flagellation, lets be clear ultimately what you are putting forward is nothing more than your educated opinion and the educated opinion of others. Many others disagree with you and still practice such extreme flagellation to this day in particular on feast days in Spanish speaking countries and in religious orders such as Opus Dei.
This is the Traditionalists downfall. We have to be very careful here. The Vatican does not make its job to write official pronouncements on every detail of the Christian life. It’s role is not to micromanage. That’s what the Principle of Subsidiarity and Collegiality are about. These things are addressed on the scene.This is not an opinion, rather it is a fact. Further there have been no documents coming out of the Vatican Condemning the practice,
When the Church canonizes she is holding up the person’s life of faith, virtue and charity, not the means.rather we see nothing but implicit praise for it through the canonisation of hundreds of saints that practiced it and the approval of their works where they recommend it.
I am very familiar with those writings. The Rule of St. Benedict also encourages the monks to beat the boys under their care to bring them into submission, something which we condemn as child abuse today and which no Benedictine does. Here again, we take these writings in their cultural context and separate what was part of the time from what is part of the faith.Fundamentally what you are saying is that those of your opinion or modern man knows better than the testimony of countless saints, the advice they gave and spiritual classics such as The Rule of St Benedict and The Imitation of Christ to name but a few.
This is not accurate. They have always been separated, even if the spiritual director is a priest. Spiritual directors do hear many confessions. They don’t grant absolution, only the priest can do that. But they do walk through the consciences of those whom they guide and they often prepare them for a good confession. They hear the same sins as the priest in the confessional. That’s how they come to know the state of a person’s soul.Regarding spiritual directors you will note that I said ‘Permanent Confessors’, these are clearly different from just going to a confessor in a confessional, you simply cannot seperate the confessional from spiritual direction.
There have been these claims, yet history tells us differently. Francis negotiated a treaty with the Sultan at Dalmietta that is still in effect today. The sultan would allow the friars safe passage to the Holy Land and allow them to open houses in Jerusalem and Francis promised that the friars would not proselytize to the Muslims or the Jews. Pope Gregory IX ratified this agreement creating the Custody of the Holy Land and gave it to the Franciscans to run.Br Jr, If I may add an observation here.
The Assisi gatherings were and remain extremely controversial within the church, numerous theologians, several bishops and traditionalist movements openly or implicitly condemned the gatherings. Indeed Cardinal Ratzinger did not attend them exactly because he was not at all happy with the way they were being carried out and was not happy attending them.
As regards St Francis being the father of ecumenicism, several theoligians and esteemed persons have critcised this and claimed that if anything people were misusing his name.