Movie: Its a Wonderful Life. Fantasy Romance?

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In the Movie Its a Wonderful Life, we have this single man named George Bailey who keeps the one business banking loan institution to save the town from a hostile takeover by Mr. Potter. All the people come to love him for his generosity and saving peoples’ homes.

George always has this crush on Mary whom he known since High School Days. He is shy, but manly in business. His brother, who was supposed to takeover the business once he returned from college, made other plans and married a girl named Ruth. So, George more or less becomes married to the business, and never goes to college or sees the world.

He never really pursues anyone in the manly fashion, and hearing Mary had been associating with Sam Wainwright, lets that be the deciding factor in calling on Mary. He doesn’t.

His mother calls Mary, without telling George, and tells her he is coming by to call on her (matchmaker).

As he reluctantly walks by her house, she notices him and invites him in. He acts aloof and insists “He was just walking by” and they have an interesting emotional spat once he goes inside. She had made a picture of him and put on some music they remembered.

She loses her cool and tells him to go home. Mary’s mother is there the whole time keeping the EYE on them. Embarrassed and angry, he begins to leave.
He returns for a brief moment, cause he forgot his hat, when the phone rings. It is Sam Wainwright. He comes to the phone where both he and Mary have to share the receiver. He offers him a business proposition over the phone if he will but leave the business. George and Mary lose it and George, for only a couple sentences, insists he wants to do want he wants to do, wants to travel around the world, and never marry ever. They both cry, and she cries more when he insists he doesn’t want to marry ever. She didn’t want to be an old maid and acts like its the end of the world. He then melts, and they both melt into each others arms, and the rest is history. They get married.

Hhmmm…The man was not manly, and it took two ladies to talk him into marriage, to get the nerve so to speak. Hollywood. Not sure anything like this would really happen. Maybe she saw enough good qualities in him that made up for his lack of manliness so to speak.

I don’t think something like this would ever really happen, would it?

Your thoughts?
 
I think George Bailey resisted marriage (and the pursuit of Mary) because he wanted to travel and see the world, unencumbered. He was trying to stay out of her way. And while he may in fact have had a crush on Mary, the way the story is told, it’s Mary that’s had her eye on him since childhood, while he’s had his head up in the clouds.

In real life, a man like George might have found himself the object of a very domineering woman…as it is in fantasy land, Mary is a sweet, gentle Christian woman who adores George for all the right reasons. She looks up to him and encourages him and ultimately, even with the life and death crisis, is key to his returning to his life stronger than before.
 
The romance part could happen, I think. Mary, for whatever reason, was in love with George, while George was in love with becoming a Great Man of the World.

The real fantasy is how all the low income townspeople take up a collection among themselves to raise the money that was misplaced by George’s uncle (and picked up by Old Man Potter and not returned).

In real life, people would have just watched as George Bailey was hauled off to prison. George and his father helped lots of low income people with their Building and Loan, and they were liked. But people just don’t bail out businesses like that.
 
This is a wonderful movie that has kindled hope in many hearts.

My favorite quote follows.
What is it you want, Mary? What do you want? You want the moon? Just say the word and I’ll throw a lasso around it and pull it down. Hey. That’s a pretty good idea. I’ll give you the moon, Mary. Then you can swallow it, and it’ll all dissolve, see… and the moonbeams would shoot out of your fingers and your toes and the ends of your hair!
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It’s a wonderful movie, and realistic. No business ever got bailed out by friends and strangers? I personally know of one. Yes, George and Mary start out awkwardly but they get married, have lots of kids, are obviously Christian and evil Mr. Potter steals the money, leaving George suicidal for a time. I think it was a really great movie.

In today’s all too often selfish world, as portrayed by the media, I personally know people like George. Heck, when people found out I was ill last year, I received money from total strangers and acquaintances. When it came time to file my income tax, I told the lady how much I’d gotten. She told me such gifts are not taxable.

Mary was a wonderful wife and mother. I admire that character to this day.

Peace,
Ed
 
It doesn’t matter whether we can conceive of this plot as ever becoming real. It makes us think of our own situations, and just possibly the reflection is enough to encourage us to make some needed changes. It was that way for me. Like many, I couldn’t see where my life was noteworthy. Did I make a difference along the years? Looking back, I was able see several instances where God had placed me in places where someone was in need, and I was able to give the help that made the needed difference. That made me realize that, even though there was nothing spectacular in my life, to those I helped, the help was significant. That’s good enough to satisfy any dissatisfaction with my life that I had been entertaining. It’s a Wonderful Life is one of my favorite movies.
 
Are you asking this because there is a man you are either interested in or involved with, but he seems to be afraid of commitment? The way you zero in on this passage makes me think the question you ask is not really the question you are asking?

I think in the movie George Bailey is indeed “manly”, but still just young. His manliness is indicated in how he saves the chemist as a child, and keeps his deeds to himself, how he takes over his father’s business, how he respects his mother, and puts his brother before himself. The behavior we see with Mary, and later in the movie, is still that restlessness and carefree spirit that is part of his character no matter his age.

I think in application to real life, men know what they want and act on it. If a guy is over 30 and still acting non-committal, it’s because he either doesn’t want commitment to anyone, or he’s not with the girl he wants to commit to. I don’t think there are magic words that will life the veil from his eyes, like GB. Though it would be nice in some instances!
 
I didn’t get to see it this year. It’s usually on every channel and one can’t miss it. Not sure what happened to it this year. I was disappointed.

I always wondered about the part where Mary was an old maid when she had so many admirers. I think she would have married Wainwright and been happy but that does not fit the story.

I do think the people coming with money for him is realistic though. Poor people do keep some money at home just in case of an emergency. I know of some who do that. Heck, I am tempted to do the same with our lousy economy now. If money in the bank isn’t making any interest might as well have it at home in a good hiding place.
 
Well, it’s probably a bit more dramatized than would happen in real life, but men (and women) who had grand dreams of traveling all over the place and seeing the world give that up for something better- their spouse- all the time. George was always manly, just in denial for a bit.

It’s a movie about human worth, sacrificial love, family, community…the “romance” part is really just a subplot, so I don’t think it matters whether their decision to marry would “really happen” in the manner in which it did in the movie.
 
The most unrealistic part of the movie concerns George allowing his idiot uncle to make bank deposits at all, and $8000 being enough to bankrupt even a small bank, even in the 40’s. I always felt like George was more or less trapped into marrying Mary, but it seems to work out fine. His “manliness” doesn’t seem lacking, being responsible and self sacrificing is a manly quality which he displays from childhood.

He isn’t handy, though. Some wood glue would have fixed that bannister post.
 
The romance part could happen, I think. Mary, for whatever reason, was in love with George, while George was in love with becoming a Great Man of the World.

The real fantasy is how all the low income townspeople take up a collection among themselves to raise the money that was misplaced by George’s uncle (and picked up by Old Man Potter and not returned).

In real life, people would have just watched as George Bailey was hauled off to prison. George and his father helped lots of low income people with their Building and Loan, and they were liked. But people just don’t bail out businesses like that.
No the government bails out large corporations and banks then punishes small businesses by attacking them with taxes, regulations and law suits. People aren’t likely to bail out a Savings and Loan no matter how nice the business is. Now if someone was sick or had a house fire and lost their home people might react like in the move.
 
The most unrealistic part of the movie concerns George allowing his idiot uncle to make bank deposits at all, and $8000 being enough to bankrupt even a small bank, even in the 40’s. I always felt like George was more or less trapped into marrying Mary, but it seems to work out fine. His “manliness” doesn’t seem lacking, being responsible and self sacrificing is a manly quality which he displays from childhood.

He isn’t handy, though. Some wood glue would have fixed that bannister post.
I never saw George as trapped into marrying Mary.

Remember the kiss they shared after the talk on the phone with Sam Wainwright…he was telling her all these things that he did not want(Listen to me, I don’t want any…and I don’t want to get married, ever, do you understand), not to convince her, but to convince* himself. *Then he says, “Oh, Mary …” and kisses her.

The point of the movie is not that George was unmanly but that life includes self sacrifice. George didn’t get to travel or leave Bedford falls, but without him the pharmacist would have gone to jail, the Italian family would not have gotten the restaurant, Mr. Potter would have turned Bedford falls into Time’s Square, and Violet would have been arrested for public disturbance of the peace.

The film’s point is that “It’s a Wonderful life”, so don’t feel bad about missed opportunities, and feel grateful for what you’ve done and what you have.

Someone mentioned Sam Wainwright as being Mary’s suitor. The scene right before the kiss, Sam is talking to George and says, “Are you taking my girl…” Notice Sam is not alone, he’s with a woman wearing a fur stole. He wasn’t serious about Mary.
 
The most unrealistic part of the movie concerns George allowing his idiot uncle to make bank deposits at all, and $8000 being enough to bankrupt even a small bank, even in the 40’s. I always felt like George was more or less trapped into marrying Mary, but it seems to work out fine. His “manliness” doesn’t seem lacking, being responsible and self sacrificing is a manly quality which he displays from childhood.

He isn’t handy, though. Some wood glue would have fixed that bannister post.
Well, you have to “suspend your disbelief,” or there is no plot.

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The bannister post is just a symbol for George’s ADD. 🙂 He means well, but never gets around to acting. In that way, he’s sort of a Capra version of Hamlet, without the adultery and murder.
 
To the people who scoff at the idea of “just folks” stepping up and helping out another person like George Bailey…

Read the 2nd story under “Unbridled Acts.”

Red Robin Corporate Culture

Pretty cool, huh?

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The film’s point is that “It’s a Wonderful life”, so don’t feel bad about missed opportunities, and feel grateful for what you’ve done and what you have.
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For even those of us who haven’t had a life of heroic virtue to the same extent as the main character, we have to feel good about the message contained within this movie.

God has chosen us to be living at this point in life, in this family, in this part of the world for a reason. We are an indispensible part of His plan there would be a very important piece missing from an albeit very large but also absolutely perfect puzzle. There’s no telling what kind of impact that $5.00 that we gave to the homeless person had, or that heartfealt talk we had with a family member had. These minor acts of charity could have been absolutely critical in the big picture. Heck, even our sinful acts that are allowed by God are ultimately used for His glory. Unlike the main character, we won’t know just how important we were while on this earth, but I think it’s pretty likely that if any of us were “missing” from existence, God’s plan would lack perfection and who knows the extent of the damage that would cause. 🙂
 
That is what our world is coming to. A man tries to do the right thing and help his family putting them before his own wishes and he is called a Mama’s boy.

His brother was allowed to leave since the older brother was taking care of things. I guess George should have thought of himself first like most do now a days and just taken off to pursue his dreams and the heck with everyone else.

That was not what the story was trying to teach—everyone for themselves—and now we have a wonderful Christmas story that has an eternal lesson for us all.
 
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