It was interesting.
The way they triggered the personality to come out was to talk about it in front of it, knowing it could hear us… and finally, it couldn’t stand it anymore, and wanted to come out and correct us on a few points. That particular personality was the most boss-like personality, one of the ones who knew all the others and generally took charge in coordinating things between them. The other personalities were a bit more specialized? if that makes sense? in terms of the situations where one of them would come forward and take over during a period.
Abandonment was one recurring theme. One personality, a 5 or 6-year-old child, had been developed when she was (all alone during a storm?) when she herself had been five or six years old. It didn’t really seem like the sort of thing that would normally trigger a separate personality to develop— but that’s the explanation we were given. Another one came when she was married to her first husband, who was a trucker, and who left her alone for extended periods of time. A third personality was developed to deal with unpleasant sexual situations. So basically, it was the equivalent of the personalities seeing that the Main Person was in an unpleasant situation, and wanting to protect her from it. So they bundle her consciousness to the back of her head, where she can go off and be somewhere else while Whatever happens, and one of them would take over her body to allow her to function through it— whether it’s dealing with other people’s aggression, or sexual abuse, or whatever. Then, when the episode was over, they’d relinquish control back to her-- and she would have a blank period in her memory. Other times, the personalities would come out, just for the heck of it. I think one of them might not have been used for years.
But people who knew her who had seen her during one of those periods would be left confused about why she was acting in an uncharacteristic manner. Which was why the “coming out” thing had happened— because certain friends had bumped into her when the 5-year-old personality was in charge, and they wondered why she was acting so weird. As well as other instances, etc.
Each of the personalities had a name. I’m rotten with names, so I don’t remember any of their “real” names.
The experience made me respect the personalities as entities distinct from my friend, but it was also close enough to the border to not want to look closely to see if it was “real” possession or just its next-door neighbor. Because you bet the thought occurred to me---- but it’s hardly polite to ask directly, especially when you’re just a friend-of-a-friend.