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Gordon_Sims
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One of my first exposures to just how nasty Facebook can be came about when I volunteered to be on the music committee for my 20-year high school reunion. There was a DJ for one of the events and we were putting together a playlist for the other one. Every band that came up, the one lady would gush about how she was their biggest fan and had all their albums. Even the one hit wonders. When the other lady said we had to have “True” by Spandau Ballet and the first one started in about how she was their number one fan, I’d had enough. Like essentially everyone outside of the UK, I liked “True” and had heard “Gold” but back in the 80s knew nothing else about them. In college I picked up 3-4 of their tapes at the used record store for something like 50 cents apiece, so I could at least say I had more than just the Sixteen Candles soundtrack. I told the fan that there’s no way she was actually their biggest fan and that she only knew one of their songs. She said that wasn’t true and again professed her love for them. I challenged her to name just one of their songs other than “True.” She couldn’t do it. I told her that, just like everyone else, she loved the soundtracks these songs were on and remembered the videos from MTV, but outside of that one oddball in our class who really was Modern English’s biggest fan (he even had posters all over his locker), nobody who loved those songs back then were really fans of those bands in the traditional sense, and certainly not their number one fans. I tried to put it as facetiously as possible because I thought the whole thing was rather silly, but I woke up the next day to find that a big chunk of my high school class had unfriended me (really just her and her friends, a dozen or so total) and that I had been kicked out of the private groups for the reunion planning committees. Had I known she was going to do that I would have told her to relax, don’t do it, and not to worry, be happy.I recall running into people like that a lot in college. They’d go on and on about a band as though they were their number one fan. But then, as the conversation progressed, I’d discover they only had the band’s one or two most popular albums.Lightweights!
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