After many years of listening to pianos at Mass, I have come to despise them. Trying to discern why, I have concluded that it is their percussive nature and the way they are used to accompany. The percussive attack of every note & chord tends to obscure the syllables, making it very difficult to understand the words being sung. And most piano-playing I have heard at Masses is just too danged busy, swarming over the singing like gnats. I would not have said this years ago, but I would prefer guitar to piano now. Of course, organ is better than either.
You havenāt heard me play the piano at Mass.
Do you realize that many people reading this thread are pianists who volunteer their time and face down their ānervesā to substitute for the music minister and play at Mass, knowing that there are people like you out in the congregation hating what we are doing?
It hurts to read this. It makes me feel like doing what most of the other pianists in our parish of several thousand people doāsay, āNo,ā when they are asked to play for Mass. Just stick with playing for community theater and secular choirs and accompanying kids at contests and auditions.
Two weekends ago, I played for three different Masses at my parish on a Sunday. Thatās a lot of time out of my Sunday, and I work full time in a hospital and put in double shifts, too. I also had to spend a couple of hours during the week preparing the music (mainly making sure I had all of it), and I had to be at Masses 45 minutes early to get my music set up and run through the Psalm with the cantor.
Of course, that time given to the Lord and His Church will be more than repaid in eternity when My Lord smiles and tells me, āWell done, good and faithful servant!ā (At least, thatās my hope!)
I would like to suggest to those of you who ādespiseā any instrument used in your parishās Mass that you please consider that real people, your fellow parishioners, are doing the work of playing those instruments, and weāre doing the very best that we are capable of doing as part-time musicians who also work at other jobs and/or are raising families. I would like to suggest that you implore the Lord to soften your heart and help you to get to a place where you can recognize that music done for the Lordās Glory is not something that should be despised, but appreciated.
And if you canāt get to that place, then try thisāgo up to the pianist after Mass and tell him/her, āI despise the piano,ā and watch their face. Then tell them again, although Iām betting that when you see those tears, you wonāt be able to ever say that again either to their face or in the privacy of your own mind.
I would rather you tell me to my face than sit out in the pews and hate my music. Do you think I canāt sense it? Itās awful to sit up there on the piano bench and know that there are people like you out there. I try very hard to play in such a way that even the hardest heart is touched , but I leave every Mass wondering if I am just a crazy nutcase for agreeing to substitute for the music ministerāand do it WITHOUT PAY!!!
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