I’ve seen a lot of hatred and bile directed at Muslims by Christians in the past 5 months. My high school age daughters have been in tears over some of the vicious things they’ve read on facebook directed at Muslims. Since grade school the Muslim girls were were part of the group that coalesced organically. A group whose parents were not that much into sports, who were low key in kids activities, who we would run into at local museums, nature centers, zoos and local things like music in the park or at the library. Parent who didn’t clothe their kids in the latest trendy clothing with Disney characters be they cartoon or teeny bopper. In high school these girls have been the ones they’ve remained friends with, working on projects in AP and honors classes, socializing in clubs like DECA, Math Team, chess club and NHS.
I’ve talked to my girls long and hard about this, it is an on going conversation that pits the hateful, mocking and dismissive views of distant relatives who are Catholic against the girls they know, girls they hang with, girls who comfort them in trying situations at school. Girls who have sat in my kitchen, family room and in whose eyes I have seen hurt because of what they see on TV and read on the internet.