My former classmate came out as bisexual

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Lots of women go crazy at college and drink their professors’ marxist kool aid with alacrity. It happened to my high school oneitis. Don’t worry about it. She wasn’t meant for you.
What does this have to do with culture war mentality? Not everything is reducible to left wing vs right ir conservative vs liberal. The whole issue for the friend was probably something she has been dealing with for a long time and I would recommend her reading spiritualfriendship.org
 
I agree, people sometimes want to stir up something in threads like this.

OP, just know that you should not tell LGBT people that they should not be proud of their sexuality as it sounds quite tone deaf. You would come across as homophobic, as opposed to someone trying to defend their faith. Most of these people struggled a lot and comments like that will turn them away from you (if they are not receptive to religion, differing views). To them it seems like you are condemning them, not loving them. Remember, you cannot expect someone to magically become a Catholic just by telling them that they are doing something wrong. You wouldn’t convert if a Muslim told you that you should not be proud of your faith because worshipping Jesus is wrong, right? Because to you, your faith is the truth. Likewise, they are very proud of accepting a part of them (that was probably the target of hateful people) and they sincerely believe that they are not doing anything wrong.

Again, Catholic teaching does not condemn the attraction, but the behavior. A practicing Catholic can be openly gay and chaste. And he isn’t ashamed about his attraction and he can easily talk about his struggles. Nothing wrong with that 🙂 I know you probably know this but it doesn’t hurt to reiterate this.

And with other controversial issues, social media is a terrible place to discuss them. Screenshots can ruin you. And because you cannot easily detect the tone of others you could ruin someone too.
Great post 🙂 👍
 
I’m sorry for causing a ruckus. Thought I needed some advice. Thanks again for all the suggestions and the cold hard truth.
I won’t confront her on the internet
And since I haven’t seen her in about four or five years, I won’t confront her where she is. If anything, I’ll just leave it to God. Like a poster said: I’ll pray for them. Again, sorry for barging into personal lives and asking advice on how to barge. I’m really, really sorry. I tend to be really, really talkative. I’ll be sure to keep my mouth shut from now on. Again, Thanks. God bless all!

PS I think this thread should be closed before it gets way out of hand. To any Moderators: I apologize and take full responsibility for it getting out of hand. I am sorry. I’ll try not to make this stupid decision again.
Putting myself in your shoes I’d say this, Take a deep breathe and bear in mind that other posters are doing the best they can just as you are.
 
I agree, people sometimes want to stir up something in threads like this.

OP, just know that you should not tell LGBT people that they should not be proud of their sexuality as it sounds quite tone deaf.
I can understand where you’re coming from. In a way it would be better to say “Don’t be prideful” but even that could come across and presumptuous, and indeed prideful.

I would suggest instead to either give her a link to the USCCB’s document Always Our Children, or simply hold off on confronting the issue.
 
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