My husband just left me 10 minutes ago

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Hello friends, I have not been able to post since my laptop crashed so I am writing from the library at my old school. I am feeling really, really blue. My husband left to New York for a family reunion and I am not sure if he is coming back. I know he has been telling people that I kicked him out of the house and that is not entirely true. I am so sad and disappointed that he stopped by our house before he left and asked me if I wanted to work things out. You are probably thinking, GREAT!!! trust me, he did not appear to be very genuine. I have found more “evidence” that he is still unfaithful to me. I am confused and am not really sure if God wants me to be with this man. I love him but he has changed a lot, is acting very immature therefore sometimes I feel I am better off without him. I only hope he did not want to come back home 'cause he is still unemployed and needed a place to stay. I would appreciate some advise from people who have been through something similar. tks.:confused:
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Hm,m…though one…
I can only say what I would do…not what you should do…

Of course, you are better off without THIS man, however, I don’t mean your husband, I mean the jerk he is being at this point in time…which may or may not be who he really is…that’s the catch…

Sometimes great people do the wrong thing, and they get “trapped” in that they don’t know how to get out of it…happens with addictions…including sex/porn/substances/whatever takes control…

These people should be given a second chance & helped…they are worth the effort!

Then, sometimes, not-so-good people pretend for a while to be good, while keeping a second life hidden until they can’t hide it anymore, they lie again about wanting to change when they need something, and the problem is that they become SO GOOD at lying that it’s hard to know when they are & when they aren’t! Even these people have “some” good in them, but NOT worth keeping around because they are VERY dangerous, in many ways, including health…

These people should be kept FAR away! No good comes from them!

Now, the goal is to find out which one is your hubby…and believe me, YOU WILL FIND OUT! IN TIME…when you are ready…

And, it will cost you, but once you find out for sure, THEN make your decision, NOT BEFORE! Makes sense?

Be at peace, and become better everyday, for yourself…and for God…and if there are kids…

It is better to err on the side of caution of not being unfair, even if afterwards you feel like a fool for having trusted too much…
However, don’t trust “all the way” either until things turned around for good…because if he is out of control of his OWN life, how can you allow him control of yours? Since you DO have a head on your shoulders, that would not be responsible…

Careful with becoming too emotional, too caught up with the “finding out” though some “keeping an eye open” is necessary…just avoid the horrible poison that will grow inside…keep close to God, pray lots, go to Church & stay when it’s empty & let God clear your heart…
Be careful…sometimes people get “sick” emotionally or physically from these situations…NOT worth it! :nope:

There isn’t a mortal alive that is worthy of losing your sanity or your soul for!

In time, you will know everything you need to know to make the right decision. God will reveal as you are able to take it…and that’s why I keep telling you to strengthen yourself by getting positive things into your life, your mind, and your heart…so He can work better and faster in your situation…

And, if it’s better to not be with him because he decided to turn the wrong way…you cannot change that! But, know that whatever happens to you, happens for your good…

God IS with you! :yup:
 
Lord…please strenghten your daughter. She needs help to commit to her vocation as a wife. Please Lord, she needs your help …

We trust in you.
 
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– O Lord, make haste to help me.
Glory be to the Father and to the Son and to the Holy Spirit,
as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be,
world without end.
Amen. Alleluia.
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tchtax said:
I am so sorry for what’s happening to you now, Violeta. My prayers are with your and your family.

Oh God Almighty, please comfort your child, Violeta, with your everlasting love and grace. Give her the strength to see this through in this time of difficulty. Wipe away her tears and despair, with Your love and knowing that her strength and perserverance lies with You. Please make her husband see that the only true love and comfort is with her and return him to the vows he made in Your presence.

We ask this in the name of Your only Beloved Son and our Lord, Jesus Christ.

Amen.
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Amen. Still praying for you and your husband Violeta
Mary1173
 
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Happy moments, PRAISE GOD.

Difficult moments, SEEK GOD.

Quiet moments, WORSHIP GOD.

Painful moments, TRUST GOD.

Every moment, THANK GOD.
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violeta7 said:
Hello friends, I have not been able to post since my laptop crashed so I am writing from the library at my old school. I am feeling really, really blue. My husband left to New York for a family reunion and I am not sure if he is coming back. I know he has been telling people that I kicked him out of the house and that is not entirely true. I am so sad and disappointed that he stopped by our house before he left and asked me if I wanted to work things out. You are probably thinking, GREAT!!! trust me, he did not appear to be very genuine. I have found more “evidence” that he is still unfaithful to me. I am confused and am not really sure if God wants me to be with this man. I love him but he has changed a lot, is acting very immature therefore sometimes I feel I am better off without him. I only hope he did not want to come back home 'cause he is still unemployed and needed a place to stay. I would appreciate some advise from people who have been through something similar. tks.:confused:
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Lord God in your great mercy, please shine your light of TRUTH on this marraige and reveal your truth and guide this dear one to do that which pleases you!
Keep close to the Lord and those that know Him!
mlz
 
Blessed Virgen Mary…please keep her in your arms. Like I have requested for me.
 
Lord, may the false freedom which Violeta7’s husband feels turn to emptiness. May any and all infidelity cause him to fear the bottomless pit of sin. Graciously draw them back together, and soften their hearts, so that the love that existed will be rekindled by the breath of the Holy Spirit. Grant that true forgiveness will rise up in their hearts, as it did with the father of the prodigal son. We ask this through our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ,Your Son, Who lives and reigns with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, One God for ever and ever. Amen! Alleluia!
 
po18guy said:
Lord, may the false freedom which Violeta7’s husband feels turn to emptiness. May any and all infidelity cause him to fear the bottomless pit of sin. Graciously draw them back together, and soften their hearts, so that the love that existed will be rekindled by the breath of the Holy Spirit. Grant that true forgiveness will rise up in their hearts, as it did with the father of the prodigal son. We ask this through our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ,Your Son, Who lives and reigns with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, One God for ever and ever. Amen! Alleluia!
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We ask this for our sister. I offer my morning fasting for these intensions.

Lord hear our prayer.
 
I am so sorry hon. I can’t imagine what you must be going through. I will pray for you both.
 
My dear friends, I felt the need to get online and express the pain in my heart today. My stepfaher passed away today at 2 pm from a sudden heart attack. He was a wonderful man and gave my mother the best 15 years of her life. My mother has not really cried yet, she is still in shock. I ask please that you pray for my family.
 
violeta7 said:
My dear friends, I felt the need to get online and express the pain in my heart today. My stepfaher passed away today at 2 pm from a sudden heart attack. He was a wonderful man and gave my mother the best 15 years of her life. My mother has not really cried yet, she is still in shock. I ask please that you pray for my family.
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Praying for you & your mom…pray the Divine Mercy Chaplet for your stepdad…Jesus promised He would stand by the deceased if someone were to pray that Chaplet at death for that person.
 
Lord have mercy. Christ have mercy. Lord have mercy. May the Lord show him the kindness and mercy in judgment that he showed to your mother in life. Amen!
 
Our Father, Who art in Heaven, hallowed be Thy Name.
Thy Kingdom come.
Thy Will be done, on earth, as it is in Heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread,
And forgive us our trespasses,
As we forgive those who trespass against us.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
Amen.

Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
 
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