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MissMichal
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Praying for the reconciliation of your marriage, through Christ our Lord.
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Myhouse
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I will be praying for you and your marriage. I am sorry for your pain Know that Jesus will never leave your side!
po18guy
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Father, in giving You thanks and praise, we turn to You in supplication on behalf of this marriage. Graciously reunite them in love - the love which they swore to honor and uphold on that day of union. Grant this through our Lord Jesus Christ, by the power of Your Holy Spirit. Amen! Alleluia!
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Gertabelle
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We pray for families that are suffering or in crisis everyday. Know that you will be especially remembered in our prayers.
Holy Spirit, infuse the hearts of this couple with your Light and Wisdom. Work in the hearts of the women tempted to commit adultery – keep them from sin. And inspire those who know this couple with the knowledge of how they can support them in following God’s plan.
Be united with Christ in His passion, dear one, and keep offering your suffering for the conversion of your husband’s soul. This life is so, so short compared to the eternity of Heaven.
God bless you.
Gertie (who’s been there…)
Holy Spirit, infuse the hearts of this couple with your Light and Wisdom. Work in the hearts of the women tempted to commit adultery – keep them from sin. And inspire those who know this couple with the knowledge of how they can support them in following God’s plan.
Be united with Christ in His passion, dear one, and keep offering your suffering for the conversion of your husband’s soul. This life is so, so short compared to the eternity of Heaven.
God bless you.
Gertie (who’s been there…)
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violeta7
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I just want to thank everyone for their prayers. I am really worried about my husband since he is now living with a family who is a relative of a relative. I saw my husband yesterday since we had to go do our taxes and he seemed very distant and short of words. It broke my heart to see him so sad about his work situation. I really miss him and want him back home but I also want him to realize that our marriage is sacred. Please pray for him.
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the_phoenix
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Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the fruit
of thy womb, Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen.
po18guy
Well-known member
Father in Heaven, grant a softening of heart to this prodigal husband, causing him to reflect on his actions, and to consider the promise he made on the day of his wedding. Graciously appeal to his heart and to his spirit so that Your will be done. We ask this through Christ Jesus, our Lord, Who lives and reigns with You, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, God for ever and ever. Amen! Alleluia!
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Katholikos77
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I will pray for you. God Bless you.
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mary1173
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Violeta,
God knows your pain, and we are here to be a leaning post for all who come seeking comfort from pain, loss and all of life’s problems. God help this woman to find comfort in your bosom of love, kindness and mercy, that she may know You and love You. Find peace and solace in the aid of others and others aid to her. We ask this through Christ Our Lord, Amen :hug1:
Mary1173
God knows your pain, and we are here to be a leaning post for all who come seeking comfort from pain, loss and all of life’s problems. God help this woman to find comfort in your bosom of love, kindness and mercy, that she may know You and love You. Find peace and solace in the aid of others and others aid to her. We ask this through Christ Our Lord, Amen :hug1:
Mary1173
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erazo
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Violeta7
I hear you! I understand your pain. And it breaks your heart to know that although they do not see it now…they are making a HUGE mistake. I have come to realize that it is a spiritual warefare they are experiencing. God wants them to look to Him.
I strongly recommend you pray to St. Monica and St. Rita. They both prayed for their husbands conversions.
I will include you in my prayers, that the Lord see our sufferings and shed some light.
Hugs to you!
I hear you! I understand your pain. And it breaks your heart to know that although they do not see it now…they are making a HUGE mistake. I have come to realize that it is a spiritual warefare they are experiencing. God wants them to look to Him.
I strongly recommend you pray to St. Monica and St. Rita. They both prayed for their husbands conversions.
I will include you in my prayers, that the Lord see our sufferings and shed some light.
Hugs to you!
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NFrancis
Guest
Praying for you.
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St_Gabriel
Guest
Hail Mary,
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the Fruit of Thy Womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen
Full of Grace,
The Lord is with thee.
Blessed art thou among women,
and blessed is the Fruit of Thy Womb,
Jesus.
Holy Mary,
Mother of God,
pray for us sinners now,
and at the hour of our death.
Amen
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Sunflower15
Guest
We are praying for you and for him…
For now, don’t feel “alone” …you are NOT alone!
Is there an Adoration Chapel near you? If not, any Church, before or after Mass, when it gets quiet…will comfort you…just be there, talk to Jesus in the Tabernacle…HE IS with YOU! Go EVERY day, at the same hour, if possible…you can also go any additional time…it will do you SO much good!
Use the Sacraments…even Confession [confess Your sins, NOT his, that is HIS problem!] Said anything harsh? thought anything uncharitable? felt abandoned by God because of allowing hubby his free will? feel like life isn’t worth living because of a mere mortal’s bad choices? Confess…this has an incredible healing power!
Things sometimes take time to get better, but for now at least, keep yourself in prayer and in knowledge that you are loved and not alone!
Do you guys have children? If so, they should be the focus…
It is normal to be and not to be in love throughout a marriage, but some people don’t understand this. He admits he loves you, but is SO horribly confused…he just doesn’t know what to do with himself…
Give him time…in the meantime, work on YOURSELF in becoming a better person each and every day…because husband or no husband, that is what you are supposed to do! right?
Use your mind in creative, mind-consuming ways, that are NOT negative to yourself NOR anyone else!
Remember: We are NOT responsible for what Others do to US; We ARE responsible for what WE do to Others and to Ourselves!
Do NOT do to yourself, over and over, whatever he has done to you…sometimes we re-hash the bad times so many times that we do to ourselves a hundred times what someone did maybe twice… Our re-hashing does to our bodies /minds/ emotions the same as the initial act!
And, do NOT make things worse in ANY way…concentrate on that!
There is SO much “work” to do [spiritually speaking] that there is NO time to waste! PRAY, PRAY…just for a solution, God has the best one, not You or Us…
It really doesn’t matter what he said or didn’t say…he’s confused…it doesn’t even matter if he felt it or not…his mind is beyond reason at this time…just make sure YOU keep your mind to avoid bad choices that will bring even more pain down the road!
I assure you, whatever he feels, will die a “natural death” pretty soon, without any interference from you…your intervention is NOT needed…stay away from the whole thing! Don’t allow yourself to get “addicted” to trying to “find out” things…these things do NOT matter, will disappear soon by themselves!
If YOU don’t work on yourself, then even if hubby decides to come back [he will see the light…] you won’t be able to accept him back…not really…you will both make each other miserable…that’s NOT the point of marriage! WORK on YOURSELF…your inner peace, courage to forgive, building on God’s love and graces for your marriage, feeling positive about life in general and about your future together, etc…
Try to consciously take 3 deep breaths often throughout the day… For me, it’s better to not tell everyone, because the re-hashing syndrome and because when things get “patched up” other people do NOT forget!
Our Lord’s Peace be with you!
For now, don’t feel “alone” …you are NOT alone!
Is there an Adoration Chapel near you? If not, any Church, before or after Mass, when it gets quiet…will comfort you…just be there, talk to Jesus in the Tabernacle…HE IS with YOU! Go EVERY day, at the same hour, if possible…you can also go any additional time…it will do you SO much good!
Use the Sacraments…even Confession [confess Your sins, NOT his, that is HIS problem!] Said anything harsh? thought anything uncharitable? felt abandoned by God because of allowing hubby his free will? feel like life isn’t worth living because of a mere mortal’s bad choices? Confess…this has an incredible healing power!
Things sometimes take time to get better, but for now at least, keep yourself in prayer and in knowledge that you are loved and not alone!
Do you guys have children? If so, they should be the focus…
It is normal to be and not to be in love throughout a marriage, but some people don’t understand this. He admits he loves you, but is SO horribly confused…he just doesn’t know what to do with himself…
Give him time…in the meantime, work on YOURSELF in becoming a better person each and every day…because husband or no husband, that is what you are supposed to do! right?
Use your mind in creative, mind-consuming ways, that are NOT negative to yourself NOR anyone else!
Remember: We are NOT responsible for what Others do to US; We ARE responsible for what WE do to Others and to Ourselves!
Do NOT do to yourself, over and over, whatever he has done to you…sometimes we re-hash the bad times so many times that we do to ourselves a hundred times what someone did maybe twice… Our re-hashing does to our bodies /minds/ emotions the same as the initial act!
And, do NOT make things worse in ANY way…concentrate on that!
There is SO much “work” to do [spiritually speaking] that there is NO time to waste! PRAY, PRAY…just for a solution, God has the best one, not You or Us…
It really doesn’t matter what he said or didn’t say…he’s confused…it doesn’t even matter if he felt it or not…his mind is beyond reason at this time…just make sure YOU keep your mind to avoid bad choices that will bring even more pain down the road!
I assure you, whatever he feels, will die a “natural death” pretty soon, without any interference from you…your intervention is NOT needed…stay away from the whole thing! Don’t allow yourself to get “addicted” to trying to “find out” things…these things do NOT matter, will disappear soon by themselves!
If YOU don’t work on yourself, then even if hubby decides to come back [he will see the light…] you won’t be able to accept him back…not really…you will both make each other miserable…that’s NOT the point of marriage! WORK on YOURSELF…your inner peace, courage to forgive, building on God’s love and graces for your marriage, feeling positive about life in general and about your future together, etc…
Try to consciously take 3 deep breaths often throughout the day… For me, it’s better to not tell everyone, because the re-hashing syndrome and because when things get “patched up” other people do NOT forget!
Our Lord’s Peace be with you!
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244Rocket
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Still praying very hard!
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violeta7
Guest
I again just want to thank everyone for their prayers and good advice. It has been hard for me to be without my husband these past weeks. I have been in contact with him regarding pending bills, etc. but he seemed very edgy and impatient. I am praying for him and hope, please do the same. He asked me to help him out with his resume since he is unemployed to which I agree to do. he has not called me yet since last week. I am doing better since I have been praying, and going to church as much as I am able to. I really DON’T WANT TO BE ANOTHER STATISTIC OF DIVORCE.
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fishisgood
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praying for you
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mlz
Guest
Dear Lord please restore this marraige. Shine your light on what is true and what is false and bring your dear children back to you and your will. Comfort my sister in You and surround her withYour arms of love and protection from the evil one. In Jesus’ precious name, amen!I am so devastated, my chest feels really tight and the tears can’t stop. We have been having problems in our marriage. I recently found out my husband has been calling and texting another woman. Now he says he is not happy anymore, that he loves me but is not in love with me anymore. I am in pain an numb at the same time. I still love him very much but he packed his bags tonight and left.
mlz
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Trishie
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Violeta, I understand that each day has the tension of worry and of hope and I ask the Lord to help you. I’m glad that you have some contact with your husband, but understand that everything would feel strange and you feel helpless yet can’t stop hoping and praying that your husband will reconsider.
I’m glad you’re finding strength in your faith.
Violeta I ask God to help you and your husband, and that somehow or other God can change your husband’s attitude and intentions, and realise that he loves and needs you.
I’m glad you’re finding strength in your faith.
Violeta I ask God to help you and your husband, and that somehow or other God can change your husband’s attitude and intentions, and realise that he loves and needs you.
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Alkrod
Guest
I am truly very sorry for you. I will keep you in my prayers!
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tchtax
Guest
I am so sorry for what’s happening to you now, Violeta. My prayers are with your and your family.
Oh God Almighty, please comfort your child, Violeta, with your everlasting love and grace. Give her the strength to see this through in this time of difficulty. Wipe away her tears and despair, with Your love and knowing that her strength and perserverance lies with You. Please make her husband see that the only true love and comfort is with her and return him to the vows he made in Your presence.
We ask this in the name of Your only Beloved Son and our Lord, Jesus Christ.
Amen.
Oh God Almighty, please comfort your child, Violeta, with your everlasting love and grace. Give her the strength to see this through in this time of difficulty. Wipe away her tears and despair, with Your love and knowing that her strength and perserverance lies with You. Please make her husband see that the only true love and comfort is with her and return him to the vows he made in Your presence.
We ask this in the name of Your only Beloved Son and our Lord, Jesus Christ.
Amen.
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