Woah.
Wow.
All-righty-then.
The police comment is odd – I have never, ever had police show up in my house on a noise complaint and ask why I was “sensitive.” I have never heard of such a thing. I don’t know where you live – or if you possibly abused the calling the police for noise scenario – but this isn’t even reality. Maybe if you call fifty times a month – sure. But once? The cops will show up and tell them to turn off the bikes.
People like this are clueless and have self-image problems? Wow, did you meet her neighbors? That’s a pretty big judgement on people we don’t know. Bold, intrusive, and overtly-trusting maybe…but self image problems? That’s a leap. Oh yeah…
the tattoos. Of course.
"If you are not a psychiatrist, then don’t bother trying to make them change."
Psychiatrists can’t change people. People change themselves. Sometimes a psychiatrist can help instigate or encourage change, but they don’t literally do it for people – so even if she were a psychiatrist she couldn’t change them – and I don’t think she wants to change them. She just wants them to know she needs her sleep and ask them not to rev those bikes at 3AM.
BeeSweet you don’t have to move – that’s silly.
Follow Kage’s advice and have your hubby go chat with the fellow across the street.
We have Harley riders in our neighborhood. A couple of them. The guy across the street has his biker buddies over first thing in the morning for coffee. I’m already up so I don’t care – and they are the nicest guys. There is a guy who lives around the corner who goes to work at about 5AM, and his bike is uber loud. I completely tune him out now – can’t even hear it – but boy do my over-night guests get irked! LOL
If it is 3AM and he does it again after the talk – just call the police.