I happen to think that arrogance closes the mind and humility opens it. When you think you know it all, what more is there to learn?
So, here is something for you to learn about arrogance. Or, probably not.
You mistakenly assume that the word arrogant is a synonym for know-it-all. I’m not going to look this up, and in modern dictionaries, know-it-all may well have become an accepted secondary definition. I find that honesty comes from narrow definitions.
An example of arrogance:
Wherever I go,I carry a firearm. I’m not an enthusiast, but there was once a time when if I had one handy and knew how to use it, an innocent person might not have been murdered. After that event I acquired an old .45 semi-auto for $20 at a yard sale, bought a book and some bullets, and did some practice.
Some years later on a business trip in a distant city, my client (ex-U.S. Navy) noticed the pistol butt, and suggested that we visit his favorite mid-city shooting range. I’m a country boy and had never tried shooting indoors before, but why not?
He was well known at the range, and I’d not fired a shot in 10 years. The range manager insisted upon inspecting my firearm and found that it had not been cleaned in 10 years and was unfit for his range. (I bought it with a rotted-out barrel, and never figured that cleaning it would make the corrosion go away.) So before I could shoot, they nicked me for a gun cleaning charge. I was very humble. These guys were experts. I let them sell me a new grip and some internal modifications for $60.
By the time I got to a gallery, my client and three buddies were all lined up behind me, behind the plexiglass, ready to laugh at the nerd (which I was and am) in their shooting range. The range manager set the man-target at 20 yards before getting out of the way for fear of being shot.
So I loaded my newly cleaned and modified pistol (with WW II ammo), put the first shot almost centered at an inch above the eyes, then emptied the clip into the chest area of the target in about two or three seconds (very slow) with a 2" group.
After reloading, the experts had disappeared, and the manager was behind his desk doing paperwork. My client (who shot 6" groups at 10 yards) did not purchase my product. As I later discovered, he felt that I had embarrassed him in front of his friends.
Before going into this, I knew that I could shoot, then did some minor shooting. I told these people aforehand that I was a moderately competently shooter. Who was arrogant?
I’ve had the pleasure of working with many arrogant individuals who knew what they were doing. (Einstein, who I’d not have been qualified to work with had we been contemporaries, was notably arrogant about the things he knew, and humble about the things he did not know.) I’ve never learned a thing from anyone “humble.” I figure that this is because those who are humble, are so because they have accomplished nothing, never will accomplish anything, and don’t want to take the personal responsibility of doing anything outside the ordinary.
I’d always wanted to learn to dance, despite my incompetence. So I took dance lessons from a variety of studios staffed by nice, gentle, humble teachers. Didn’t learn squat. Finally I found a very serious dance teacher who taught out of her garage, which had a rack of #1 trophies mounted on shelves, charged twice as much as anyone else, and never complimented a single move I ever made. Two years later, I won 50 bucks at a pickup country bar dance contest with a partner I’d taught, not because I’m a great dancer (tough to do with screws in one foot and a titanium hip joint), but because that expert, arrogant teacher taught me to love dance.
Jesus said, blessed are the meek,for they will inherit the earth. I figure, good place for them. I imagine that they’ll inherit it after the sun goes nova, because it wlll be full of people like you until then. In the meantime, I’d prefer to explore the galaxy, maybe graduate to the universe.
You might ask yourself why you resent someone who knows more than you do. Would it not be of value to you to actively seek out those who know more than you, and learn from them? Why are you more comfortable attaching denigrating labels to people who actually have working minds, than acquiring a mind of your own?
Instead of attaching labels to me, you could check out my CAF posting history, perhaps reply to or comment upon ideas I’ve submitted.
Of course, that would require mental activity. Easier to sit on your backside and attach labels. Why don’t you join the Democratic Party and the SEIU? Or get a government job? You could grow old and retire wealthy without ever having an original thought. They will support you in putting down anyone who has potentially useful ideas, so that you can feel useful yourself.