My protestant best friend

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Whenever my best friend and I discuss religion (which is often) she always brings up her misinformed idea that the Catholic Church is just another denomination. That all churches are the truth and that is why she does not belong to any particular church. I try to correct her but I am just not that good at it. Can anyone help me to provide a convincing argument that the Catholic Church is NOT just another denom and that it TRUELY is the ONE TRUE Church?
 
Please consider obtaining and reading a copy of Catholicism for Dummies, then giving it to her. It is an excellent reference that accurately describes Catholic beliefs, the reasoning behind them and the origin of the Church.
 
Please consider obtaining and reading a copy of Catholicism for Dummies, then giving it to her. It is an excellent reference that accurately describes Catholic beliefs, the reasoning behind them and the origin of the Church.
Well than I am in luck. I do have a copy of said book which I am currently rereading for my own benefit. I also have a book titled: Why Do Catholics Do That? By Kevin Orlin Johnson, that I have considered lending to her.
 
Well than I am in luck. I do have a copy of said book which I am currently rereading for my own benefit. I also have a book titled: Why Do Catholics Do That? By Kevin Orlin Johnson, that I have considered lending to her.
Give her the “said” book first! My opinion. Why do Catholics do that is a great book as well.
Peace in Christ

Mary.
 
Well than I am in luck. I do have a copy of said book which I am currently rereading for my own benefit. I also have a book titled: Why Do Catholics Do That? By Kevin Orlin Johnson, that I have considered lending to her.
Give her the “said” book first! My opinion. Why do Catholics do that is a great book as well.
Peace in Christ

Mary.
Even better, take her with you to Eucharistic adoration. Let her sit and ponder Christ in His true presence for the very first time. She can read the book there. Sooner or later, she will desire to step from the wading pool into the ocean.
 
Whenever my best friend and I discuss religion (which is often) she always brings up her misinformed idea that the Catholic Church is just another denomination. That all churches are the truth and that is why she does not belong to any particular church. I try to correct her but I am just not that good at it. Can anyone help me to provide a convincing argument that the Catholic Church is NOT just another denom and that it TRUELY is the ONE TRUE Church?
Tell your friend that there is " ONLY ONE TRUTH, NOT TWO". And that all the churches cannot have the truth as they understand the Bible differently. According to her there will be at least 30,000 truths. One for each one of them, this is quite impossible as the Holy Spirit cannot contradict Himself.
 
Whenever my best friend and I discuss religion (which is often) she always brings up her misinformed idea that the Catholic Church is just another denomination. That all churches are the truth and that is why she does not belong to any particular church. I try to correct her but I am just not that good at it. Can anyone help me to provide a convincing argument that the Catholic Church is NOT just another denom and that it TRUELY is the ONE TRUE Church?
Ask her if truth is relative or absolute and whether mutually contradicting creeds (Lutheran, Baptist, Catholic, etc.) can all be true in such a case. You’ll either steer her to be an anti-Christian skeptic or to reconsider her entire worldview.
 
I want to thank you all for your wonderful suggestions and advice. I will be seeing my friend this afternoon and plan on giving her Catholicism for dummies to read first. When she finishes that I will give her Why Do Catholics Do That. We will be sending a lot of time together this week as well and I plan on attending adoration and bring her along with me even if its only for a few minutes.
 
You’ll either steer her to be an anti-Christian skeptic or to reconsider her entire worldview.
So Joseph, taking your two possibilities, what if the first is the outcome? Why do you think your advice is good advice?
 
Your friend believes that because that is what she is taught. All churches have part of the truth. They teach bits and pieces and they usually don’t teach the parts that are inconvenient for their brand of faith. Catholicism teaches the whole truth. It’s hard for a lot of protestants to wrap their head around the fact that their faith is either incorrect or is incomplete.

I really don’t have a problem if someone becomes a anti-Christian skeptic because skeptics ask questions and try to find out the truth. A lot of people are skeptics because they find that the Christians they know are hypocrites when it comes to their faith. They talk a good game about faith, but they don’t live up to their own ideals (or don’t even try). I’ve also found that a lot of skeptics want to believe, but just can’t step out in faith and just do it.

OP: What are your friend’s “hang-ups” w/Catholicism? Why would it be a bad thing for the Catholic church to be the one true church? What beliefs would she have to give up to conform to Catholicism? Does she even go to church? Why or Why Not?

It’s really in answering those questions that you will reveal how to show that Catholicism is the true faith.

It is important why Catholics do what we do, but I don’t know if those are the questions that she’s really asking at this point.

Keep in mind is that non-denominational Christians vary in their beliefs and still see themselves as Christians. Even though there are divisions w/in Catholicism, there are still basic ideas that everyone is supposed to agree with. (Like the Host isn’t a cracker or just a symbol!) They tend think that labels are divisive so they don’t necessarily want to attach themselves to a specific brand of Christianity.
 
I really don’t have a problem if someone becomes a anti-Christian skeptic because skeptics ask questions and try to find out the truth. A lot of people are skeptics because they find that the Christians they know are hypocrites when it comes to their faith. They talk a good game about faith, but they don’t live up to their own ideals (or don’t even try). I’ve also found that a lot of skeptics want to believe, but just can’t step out in faith and just do it.
But Kal2012, based on the thread title, the OP’s best friend is already a Christian. Hence, my question to Joseph.
 
So Joseph, taking your two possibilities, what if the first is the outcome? Why do you think your advice is good advice?
I didn’t say it was good advice or bad advice. As a former follower of the Reformation to be honest I’m kinda hostile to the whole Protestant denominational relativism. I never realized it when I was taught it, but now that I see the un-reason it really does help the cause of atheism and skepticism. Emotionally I’m becoming an apostate anyway.
 
Refer her to the history of the Catholic Church. It is hard to discredit the Church when all of the evidence points to the Catholic Church.
 
Tell your friend that there is " ONLY ONE TRUTH, NOT TWO". And that all the churches cannot have the truth as they understand the Bible differently. According to her there will be at least 30,000 truths. One for each one of them, this is quite impossible as the Holy Spirit cannot contradict Himself.
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Whenever my best friend and I discuss religion (which is often) she always brings up her misinformed idea that the Catholic Church is just another denomination. That all churches are the truth and that is why she does not belong to any particular church. I try to correct her but I am just not that good at it. Can anyone help me to provide a convincing argument that the Catholic Church is NOT just another denom and that it TRUELY is the ONE TRUE Church?
Even the denominations do not dispute that the Catholic Church was first and is not a denomination, so your friend is way out on the fringe. What would Luther have protested in the first place, if it weren’t for the Church already in place for 1600 years? They’d have no Bible from which to proclaim Sola Scriptura, if our Church hadn’t existed. The various denominations might say that we are wrong on whatever doctrine, but they don’t deny that we were first and founded by Jesus.
 
Tell your friend that there is " ONLY ONE TRUTH, NOT TWO". And that all the churches cannot have the truth as they understand the Bible differently. According to her there will be at least 30,000 truths. One for each one of them, this is quite impossible as the Holy Spirit cannot contradict Himself.
This is not possible. She is not open to hearing that her choice in religion is wrong at least not in such a frank way. I have to approach this in a delicate manner and feed her these things in small doses lest I turn her away from the Churches view forever.
 
Even the denominations do not dispute that the Catholic Church was first and is not a denomination, so your friend is way out on the fringe. What would Luther have protested in the first place, if it weren’t for the Church already in place for 1600 years? They’d have no Bible from which to proclaim Sola Scriptura, if our Church hadn’t existed. The various denominations might say that we are wrong on whatever doctrine, but they don’t deny that we were first and founded by Jesus.
She does understand and agrees that the Catholic Church was THE first church but she still views it as just another denomination. I don’t understand how she can come to such a contradictory conclusion myself. 🤷
 
She does understand and agrees that the Catholic Church was THE first church but she still views it as just another denomination. I don’t understand how she can come to such a contradictory conclusion myself. 🤷
Not very smart? 😊

I see that Wikipedia, that bastion of truth, says that the Church IS a denomination…:mad:

The Catholic Church is the largest denomination with over 1.1 billion members, over half of all Christians worldwide, making it the largest denomination for any religion worldwide (although the church does not view itself as a denomination, but as the original pre-denominational church).[1]

Sigh…
 
Whenever my best friend and I discuss religion (which is often) she always brings up her misinformed idea that the Catholic Church is just another denomination. That all churches are the truth and that is why she does not belong to any particular church. I try to correct her but I am just not that good at it. Can anyone help me to provide a convincing argument that the Catholic Church is NOT just another denom and that it TRUELY is the ONE TRUE Church?
Print out a page with bible versus that show one visible church and quotes from early church fathers backing it up. Use quotes before the edict of Milan many baptist belive that is where comstantine started the catholic church. But before you do this ask them to give you a report on an invisible church along with ecf quotes to back it up they won’t be able to.

Eph. 4:5
One lord, one faith, one baptism
 
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