Need God's Help and Guidance from this addiction

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Yes, I have been going into work and trying to keep forward motion.

He doesn’t know EXACTLY where my friend lives–
and I honestly think he’s done with me again. I left. He said if I ever left again – that he would never speak to me again.

He’s done with me. He knows that I’ve been a mess for awhile, I suppose.

And now I am back in my son’s city and that is where my main company’s home base is. So, I’ve been going into the office this week.

Before, I have been working remotely a lot to be near my ex fiance. So we are now hours apart.
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There you go then. Problem solved.

Mend your relationships with your mom and your son and move on.
 
OP,

Cherish you son. Love your mom and concentrate on them because they love you!
 
needguidance99 said:
Yes, I have been going into work and trying to keep forward motion.

He doesn’t know EXACTLY where my friend lives–
and I honestly think he’s done with me again. I left. He said if I ever left again – that he would never speak to me again.

He’s done with me. He knows that I’ve been a mess for awhile, I suppose.

And now I am back in my son’s city and that is where my main company’s home base is. So, I’ve been going into the office this week.

Before, I have been working remotely a lot to be near my ex fiance. So we are now hours apart.
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He’s not done with you, you are done with him. I know you would love him to come after you, promise to be good and make it up to you etc, but it’s never going to happen, and even if he did do that, you know it would be a lie and things would go back to how they were very quickly. Be glad, you need to be thinking of yourself now and finding some time to heal. You are going to have to do everything you can to not see this person you have left. Every form of contact with him will put you back in your healing. Definitely block him on facebook, delete facebook - do everything in your power to avoid him and distract yourself from these silly thoughts about how he is “done with you”. You are done with him. That is why you came here. Don’t forget it, read that first post you made here and remember what he has done to you. You are the one who is done with him, and I have absolutely no doubt from what you have told us, that you made the right choice.
 
Giggle,

Good point! And important point! OP needs to know she is in control.
 
Need guidance99.

I have been thinking of you and praying for you.

How are things?
 
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