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Now I see…your parents are afraid you will follow in your brother’s footsteps, and are trying to stop you in the only way they know how…by micromanaging your life!
You did say you had little interest in marriage. But, you are still very Young, and that may change. But, if it doesn’t you can still live a life just as moral! They just don’t see it yet!
But, it does seem as if they won’t trust or respect your decisions until you have done something to declare your independence. What do you really want? Is it the military? Can you go away to college, without their help? They didn’t see your brother’s lifestyle choice until he chose to change it. It’s not fair that they expect the same from you…but it is an understandable fear.
But they won’t respect you, until you do something on your own. So, see a military recruiter, look into scholarships or look into another way of being able to support yourself without their help!
Oh…and God bless you and yours, of course!
You did say you had little interest in marriage. But, you are still very Young, and that may change. But, if it doesn’t you can still live a life just as moral! They just don’t see it yet!
But, it does seem as if they won’t trust or respect your decisions until you have done something to declare your independence. What do you really want? Is it the military? Can you go away to college, without their help? They didn’t see your brother’s lifestyle choice until he chose to change it. It’s not fair that they expect the same from you…but it is an understandable fear.
But they won’t respect you, until you do something on your own. So, see a military recruiter, look into scholarships or look into another way of being able to support yourself without their help!
Oh…and God bless you and yours, of course!
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