I think I already explained that I think it should work the same as a psychiatrist. Are you going to answer my question?
Here’s why it can’t be like a psychiatrist.
When child abuser, rapist, murder, etc comes into that confessional, the priest’s number one job is to help that sinner heal AND AVOID HELL. As harsh as it might sound to people who don’t understand, the priest’s main concern is saving the soul of sinner/criminal, not helping the victim.
There was a video (fictional, but accurate) I saw recently about a priest who heard the confession of the man who killed his father. When the priest realized that the man who was confessing to him was the same driver who killed his father years ago in a hit & run, he was furious… stormed out of the confessional, etc. He starts praying the Our Father slowly and can’t finish it for several tries… then he finally is able to slowly say “and help us to forgive those who trespasses against us.” Finally, he’s able to continue hearing this man’s confession and absolves him. It was a very powerful short film.
There was also an episode of the BCC’s “Father Brown” where a criminal confessed to Father that he was going to kill him. In the show, Father Brown could not tell a soul and didn’t (though in the show he did do what he could to link the criminal to another crime).
In real life, if someone entered the Confessional and told the priest that he was planning on killing a member of the clergy, the priest couldn’t do anything about it. Even if the person told the priest that he was the priest who was going to be killed. The priest would have to go about his day as he normally would, without changing anything or acting on the information he has. Even if that meant he was going to die.
That’s how serious the Seal of Confession is. A priest not only has to be willing to accept prison, but if necessary, death to preserve the seal.
Priests who break the seal of confession are not brave, they are cowards.
God Bless