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legaleagle
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First, I will explain that I’m a fairly new Catholic so I don’t know all the rules for stuff like vestments (I’ll explain in a second). And I also want to point out that I am the last person to criticize priests - - I stood up for my former priest several times when people were criticizing him behind his back.
The first time I went to a Mass presided over by the new parish priest, I noticed that he was wearing his robe and the stole but no colored poncho-type thing over all that (sorry I don’t know the term). Last year, I recall a young seminarian criticizing the local priests who don’t wear the “poncho”. Also, in one of the prayers during Communion where we (the congregation) participate, the priest replaces “He” and “His” for God and God’s (ie. " . . . for our good and all of God’s church . . ." etc.). I have some friends who do that and it always irritates me when I sit the same pew because I know their views and they talk about God supposedly having a feminine side. It always offends me and I’m a woman! The first homily I heard from him was about how we need to be inclusive of others and he mentioned it in the context of other religions. Then this week, he mentioned we should pray for all the people who lost loved ones from Sept. 11th and then he added we should pray for the terrorists too!!!???
I can’t wrap my head around that. Shouldn’t I be praying for our troops’ safety and praying for them to win their battles which would actually mean that I’m actually praying for the terrorists to be killed???
Thanks for your help with this difficult issue - - as a new Catholic I just don’t know if I’m making a big deal over nothing or what. If I were still a Protestant, I’d just leave and find a new church but I don’t know if that’s what Catholics ought to do. There is a very orthodox parish in another neighborhood that I attend sometimes on weekdays and the priests there are so different and unafraid to speak the truth about things like abortion, homosexuality and morals. If I do leave and go to that parish, there’s a complication that I slated to teach catechism at my home parish.
The first time I went to a Mass presided over by the new parish priest, I noticed that he was wearing his robe and the stole but no colored poncho-type thing over all that (sorry I don’t know the term). Last year, I recall a young seminarian criticizing the local priests who don’t wear the “poncho”. Also, in one of the prayers during Communion where we (the congregation) participate, the priest replaces “He” and “His” for God and God’s (ie. " . . . for our good and all of God’s church . . ." etc.). I have some friends who do that and it always irritates me when I sit the same pew because I know their views and they talk about God supposedly having a feminine side. It always offends me and I’m a woman! The first homily I heard from him was about how we need to be inclusive of others and he mentioned it in the context of other religions. Then this week, he mentioned we should pray for all the people who lost loved ones from Sept. 11th and then he added we should pray for the terrorists too!!!???
Thanks for your help with this difficult issue - - as a new Catholic I just don’t know if I’m making a big deal over nothing or what. If I were still a Protestant, I’d just leave and find a new church but I don’t know if that’s what Catholics ought to do. There is a very orthodox parish in another neighborhood that I attend sometimes on weekdays and the priests there are so different and unafraid to speak the truth about things like abortion, homosexuality and morals. If I do leave and go to that parish, there’s a complication that I slated to teach catechism at my home parish.