NFP and contraception

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This position is fine and good (except for the part where you say that, if the bishops decide something, it is necessarily the truth), but then you are in a personal dilemma: because your view of things is basically anti-argumentative. You don’t care about the rational arguments that convinced the bishops; you just assent to whatever position they teach. Well, then why do you keep on debating these positions with others? Your only argument can be “the bishops teach it”, as it is only thing that convinces you. But if the fact that the bishops teach something is not enough to convince someone else, the discussion is over, you’ll have nothing else to provide.

My suspicion is that your own position is not quite so simple: you do care about the rational arguments behind any given position taught by the bishops.

Finally, the single greatest waste of time that I see in Catholic discussions is that concerning which pronouncements are infallible and which aren’t. How about, for the purposes of discussion, this question is left aside and more focus is given to the questions themselves?
I am talking about encyclicals, councils, etc. Where the bishops discuss these issues. I don’t need anything proven to me at all. You shouldn’t assume. Of course a Bishops opinion is not infallible but that doesn’t pertain to this topic because this is not just an opinion.
 
razredge (#174)
Well it can’t be intrinsically evil if a commitee expressly formed to investigate the issue resulted in 60 to 4 laypeople and 9 of 15 clergy voting in favour of contraception.
Catholics will see that this is a mockery of reason and faith! A Commission never can have any authority in Christ’s Church, and the absurdity is gross – Our Lord expressly gave His authority to Peter as Supreme Vicar to teach infallibly on faith and morals. See Vatican II, Gaudium et Spes, 51, which specifically rules out any possibility of changing the infallible doctrine against contraception in *Casti Connubii *of Pope Pius XI, 1930. (Post #168).

Readers will find a treasure trove in Why Humanae Vitae Was Right, Ignatius, 1993, edited by Janet E Smith.
 
You go too far. If you say that no-one spoke of the unitive aspect of the sexual act itself, then you might be right. This may well have been a later development.
Well, I’m glad you see that unitive aspect of sexuality was a product of later development. But honestly, do you really think it had to be “developed”? Isn’t it obvious from the act itself what it is? And that this was obvious to people long before Christianity took place?
Not to mention that this was obvious to “dissidents” during 1900 years of bishops teaching otherwise?
As I said, St. Thomas viewed the pleasure of sex as a good. In fact, in the state of original justice, sex would have been even MORE pleasurable, because man’s sensible faculties would be purer: ccel.org/ccel/aquinas/summa.FP_Q98_A2.html (reply to objection 3)
Thomas here counters theological idea that sexual intercourse before original sin didn’t include pleasure. This was error of certain theologians (it seems, from link, St. Gregory of Nyssa). Because of stoic philosophy, they concluded that every pleasure is sinful, and since there is no sexual act without pleasure, sex must be sinful too. Now, before the fall of Adam and Eve, there was no sin- and therefore, no pleasure. But how was human kind to procreate? There were many explanations: one was that sex simply didn’t create pleasure, and was act of rational decision (“Let’s make another child next year”). The other, gregorian, that there was some other mean of procreation.

After the fall, Thomas says, people have this urge for pleasure in sexual intercourse which is “lust”. They are often victims of “immoderate intercourse”. However, what he really means by “immoderate intercourse” stays mysterious. It is quite possible that he follows the logic of Augustine, claiming each sexual act without intent of procreation is an act of excess.

To summarize, Thomas still sees pleasure as an issue, even in marriage. It is not evil in itself, as some before claimed, but from the fact it *always *comes from lust. To illustrate how differs from our present teaching, take into account that Thomas forbid “marital” kisses even when they don’t hinder the procreation. Since they can’t beget the child, the only reason why they are performed is to give pleasure to the couple- and such pleasure is mortal sin. Article 4:
newadvent.org/summa/3154.htm
Plus, sex was seen as good and just, even pure. For instance, St. Bernard: "They [bride and groom] share one inheritance, one table, one house, one bed, one flesh. For this she leaves her father and her mother and clings to her husband, and the two are one flesh. She is also commanded to forget her people and her father’s house so that he may desire her beauty.
This simply stresses marriage, and not marital act- as good. Even explanations such as “one bed” and “one flesh” can be used by stoic, since sharing the bed and becoming one flesh doesn’t interfere with the idea sex is only for procreation.
Again, the marriage bed is seen as a protection against lust, as you say, but it is seen as pure, a positive good, not as a tolerated lesser evil.
You have to understand, stoic philosopher can use the same sentence to defend his claims. Marriage bed is pure and positive, as long as people have sex only for procreation or in order to provide marriage debt.
Furthermore, I think it is possible to see in the view of sex as being an antidote to concupiscence, out of which arose the concept of the marriage debt, as a first step towards the proper understanding of sex: as good and virtuous not only in the purely negative way of controlling lust, but also as an expression and celebration of the couple’s love.
Only in context that their love becomes stronger if they “carry the burden of sex” together. Desire for marital embrace is seen as “problem in marriage” and spouses must be “happy to endure” this burden because of their love, which grows stronger in tolerance 🙂
The reality of the Church’s doctrine is development.
Certainly saying sex was only for procreation was not part of any true Christian development.
 
Please, share these many, non-theological reasons for Catholic teacing on contraception.
One is certain level of “sexophobia.” We always searched for rational reason to have sex. We always searched for excuse to preform the act. And this excuse was procreation, as the only stable natural point of sex.

We never accepted the real reason we have sex. That it is a God-given pleasure to mankind- a small gift compared to salvation and ration- whose sensual intensity is the true reason for each intercourse.
 
If you wouldn’t mind going easy on me, I’m not a catechism or encyclical quoter, just a mother taking care of a large family…
Bless you. You are so more then me in eyes of God.
So where does scripture fit into the equation? How about the Song of Songs? This book is dripping with the imagery of sexual pleasure. Where is Augustine’s (or any ECF’s) condemnation?
This part of the Bible was interpreted as love between God and Church until 19th Century. Sexual imagery was overlooked in that interpretation.
Also, please consider that the unitive aspect of the marital embrace comes from its procreative aspect. We can still say that the procreative aspect is essential to the marital embrace, just as the ECFs taught.
What do you mean? Procreation and unitive aspect are two different ends of embrace.
For what it’s worth Chrono13, I find you and Joel PF to be honest, insightful and charitable. I may not agree with everything you say, but you say it well and I hope you both keep posting in these threads.
Thank you. If you feel that way, I will stay. Godwilling, for construction of faith, not it’s lacking.
 
I can’t believe I’m sticking my head back in here 🙂

Anyway, I was wasting time on here a few weeks ago and came across links to Jewish ideas about marital sexuality. Not that I could reproduce those links (pun intended), but the rabbi who was writing made it very clear that Jewish spouses knew all about and accepted the unitive end of marriage long before Christ. So I can’t help wondering if sometimes it isn’t talked about as thoroughly as we would like by our Christian writers because they had a cultural mindset that assumed things already.
 
One is certain level of “sexophobia.” We always searched for rational reason to have sex. We always searched for excuse to preform the act. And this excuse was procreation, as the only stable natural point of sex.

We never accepted the real reason we have sex. That it is a God-given pleasure to mankind- a small gift compared to salvation and ration- whose sensual intensity is the true reason for each intercourse.
Respectfully, I disagree. Our faith teaches us that we have sex not because it feels good, but because it is good.
Bless you. You are so more then me in eyes of God.
I think of myself as “chief of sinners”, but thanks for your kind words.
This part of the Bible was interpreted as love between God and Church until 19th Century. Sexual imagery was overlooked in that interpretation.
*Song of Songs *can still be interpreted as love between God and Church. How do we know the sexual imagery was overlooked and not approved? Did the ECFs also overlook God’s use of the “one flesh” imagery?
What do you mean? Procreation and unitive aspect are two different ends of embrace.
Physically, sex is only unitive when it is first procreative. By procreative, I mean “favouring creation”, or uncontracepted. We can separate the procreative and unitive aspects for discussion purposes but they are, in reality, inseparable.
Thank you. If you feel that way, I will stay. Godwilling, for construction of faith, not it’s lacking.
I’m glad to hear that.
 
We never accepted the real reason we have sex. That it is a God-given pleasure to mankind- a small gift compared to salvation and ration- whose sensual intensity is the true reason for each intercourse.
I disagree with this, sex is not ‘sacred’, anymore than eating or breathing are, it too is a simple biological drive - sex is pleasurable simply to motivate people to mate and reproduce thus ensuring the propagation of the species.

This is something we share with numerous animals, it is definitely not a special attribute of humanity - unlike say the faculties of our mind.

The Church Fathers were right - It’s intended purpose is for reproduction - however we humans are able to repurpose our biological drives for other purposes such as how we eat mainly for pleasure than for sustenance.

When we repurpose sex in this way it is misguided to call it a gift from God, sacred etc. - as Jesus clearly pointed out himself, sex is a thing of this world, completely alien and unnecessary to the divine.
 
You have to understand something. We are not called to convince anyone of the truth. It is the duty of all of us to accept what the Church teaches (meaning the college of cardinals, bishops, Pope, etc.) They argue and discuss and do what they do. They come to the conclusions of things, we must follow those teachings. If we don’t, then we are in the wrong. It is as simple as that. You can question, if you like. You can disagree, if you like. You can do anything you well please as is your given right of free will, but the choices you make have consequences that are far reaching. It is the job of the Church to preach the good news, not to convince others of the truth of it. They provide truths and reasons and research and all of that as part of the preaching of the good news, but we must accept those as truth despite what we may think about it. This is the reality of Faith. If you are unwilling, or unable to accept that truth, that is your own responsibility.
Well, I certainly disagree with this. Not in a dissent way, but in more objective one. People seeking truth will ask questions and will question your preaching. They will meditate upon the weight of each teaching, and how it reflects nature, life, experience and spirituality. If bishops insist on this “natural law”, and call this term universal (meaning, you don’t even have to be Catholic in order to see that something is moral to nature or not) people will compare it to what nature is, and how it is supposed to work.

In questions regarding contraception, bishops are bypassing important facts regarding Church history- and that is the influence of stoic school to Catholic moral teaching. They are doing so most likely to avoid controversy regarding some aspects of their authority. However, they simply can’t do that anymore. To continue ignoring these facts means constructing the tradition which never existed as it is presented.

They can name you dissident if you are disloyal to their authority. But not if they build their authority on the expanse of loyalty to Catholic moral tradition.
 
I can’t believe I’m sticking my head back in here 🙂

Anyway, I was wasting time on here a few weeks ago and came across links to Jewish ideas about marital sexuality. Not that I could reproduce those links (pun intended), but the rabbi who was writing made it very clear that Jewish spouses knew all about and accepted the unitive end of marriage long before Christ. So I can’t help wondering if sometimes it isn’t talked about as thoroughly as we would like by our Christian writers because they had a cultural mindset that assumed things already.
Indeed. I mean, they were polygamists afterall.
 
Respectfully, I disagree. Our faith teaches us that we have sex not because it feels good, but because it is good.
Thank God and 19th century modernists for that. 🙂
I think of myself as “chief of sinners”, but thanks for your kind words.*Song of Songs *can still be interpreted as love between God and Church. How do we know the sexual imagery was overlooked and not approved?
Since religious passion is not carnal.
Physically, sex is only unitive when it is first procreative. By procreative, I mean “favouring creation”, or uncontracepted. We can separate the procreative and unitive aspects for discussion purposes but they are, in reality, inseparable.
I simply disagree. People tend to separate procreation from sexuality using NFP, and still offer unitive dimension of the act.
 
I’ve read through most of the posts and i’d just like to make a point which i don’t think has already been made:

Statistically most men are physiologically attracted to women who have child bearing features: round hips, large breasts, general healthy appearance, and aged around 24. Also, a ‘baby face’ is supposed to be more attrective than a long,pointy face for example. [Ladies, please don’t get offended, i’m only going on research].

Women are generally more attracted to men with fatherly features: physically strong, broad shoulders, square jaw, tall, and apparently a sense of humour is a key factor they’d make the children laugh].

I think where contraception comes in is that whereas the IDEA of a baby is lovely and romantic, the reality is that babies cry, wake you up 6 times a night, poo at inconvenient times, need feeding upto 6 times a day and basically turn your life upside down.

Also, many women suffer badly from post-natal depression which can last upto 3 years and can get progressively worse with each subsequent child. A baby can also put added strain on the marriage if both are stressed and tired. Dad might have to work longer hours to support the expanded family.

That’s not even to mention the horrendous pain of childbirth. OOOOOUUUUCCCHHHHH.

But, remember what God said to Adam and Eve? Adam would have to work harder and Eve would suffer terrible pain. We could just blame them.

Or, we could do things God’s way and accept the hardships as part of his Divine large plan and stick to his Laws.
  • God gave us Jesus
    *Jesus gave us the Church
    *The Church gave us the Magisterium
    *The Magisterium [guided by the Holy Spirit] gave us rules.
We can choose which way to go. 🙂
 
Interesting, thanks, but I think an abortion-rights organization has an inherent anti-Catholic bias. I have difficulty trusting their take on anything Catholic. Besides, infalibility* is *a theological issue.

If it’s not too personal a question, do you trust abortion promoters for your theology?
Sigh, I knew someone would bring this up. Firstly it is an ad hominem circumstantial to simply reject an argument/view because of the motives of the person making them.

Secondly, he’s not making it all up, he cites sources for his claims down the bottom.

Do you mean Casti Connubii? Would you please provide a reference for your last statement, I’d like to read about it.

Yes, Casti Connubii - that comes from page 76 of:
Murphy, Paul I. and Arlington, R. Rene. (1983) La Popessa: The Controversial Biography of Sister Pasqualina, the Most Powerful Woman in Vatican History.

I came across it on this article:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bernardino_Nogara (under the Pius XI section)
Catholics will see that this is a mockery of reason and faith! A Commission never can have any authority in Christ’s Church, and the absurdity is gross – Our Lord expressly gave His authority to Peter as Supreme Vicar to teach infallibly on faith and morals. See Vatican II, Gaudium et Spes, 51, which specifically rules out any possibility of changing the infallible doctrine against contraception in *Casti Connubii *of Pope Pius XI, 1930. (Post #168).

Readers will find a treasure trove in Why Humanae Vitae Was Right, Ignatius, 1993, edited by Janet E Smith.
Ahem, the whole point of the commission was to investigate matters relating to birth control and the Church - it was formed by Pope John XXIII himself and expanded by Paul VI and spend three years looking into the matter.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pontifical_Commission_on_Birth_Control

The commission produced a majority report recommending that birth control was not intrinsically evil and that use of contraceptives should be regarded as an extension of the already accepted cycle method:

They made this very cogent argument why:
The acceptance of a lawful application of the calculated sterile periods of the woman–that the application is legitimate presupposes right motives–makes a separation between the sexual act which is explicitly intended and its reproductive effect which is intentionally excluded. The tradition has always rejected seeking this separation with a contraceptive intention for motives spoiled by egoism and hedonism, and such seeking can never be admitted. The true opposition is not to be sought between some material conformity to the physiological processes of nature and some artificial intervention. For it is natural to man to use his skill in order to put under human control what is given by physical nature. The opposition is really to be sought between one way of acting which is contraceptive and opposed to a prudent and generous fruitfulness, and another way which is, in an ordered relationship to responsible fruitfulness and which has a concern for education and all the essential, human and Christian values.
However a small minority of the commission led by the archconservative Cardinal Ottaviani (who also opposed separation of Church & State and religious liberty at Vatican II) dissented from the majority view stating that the Church could not change it’s teaching without damaging papal infallibility.

In this minority report the then Karol Wojtyla stated:
If it should be declared that contraception is not evil in itself, then we should have to concede frankly that the Holy Spirit had been on the side of the Protestant churches in 1930 (when the encyclical Casti Connubii was promulgated), in 1951 (Pius XII’s address to the midwives), and in 1958 (the address delivered before the Society of Hematologists in the year the pope died). It should likewise have to be admitted that for a half century the Spirit failed to protect Pius XI, Pius XII, and a large part of the Catholic hierarchy from a very serious error.
This would mean that the leaders of the Church, acting with extreme imprudence, had condemned thousands of innocent human acts, forbidding, under pain of eternal damnation, a practice which would now be sanctioned. The fact can neither be denied nor ignored that these same acts would now be declared licit on the grounds of principles cited by the Protestants, which popes and bishops have either condemned or at least not approved.
And thus contraception became a matter of theology and politics rather than morality and Paul VI had to reject the majority report and promulgate Humanae Vitae.
 
Thank God and 19th century modernists for that. 🙂
Catholicism has always taught that sex is good. You haven’t shown otherwise.
Since religious passion is not carnal.
You mentioned the ‘God and Church’ alIegory earlier. I still wonder how you know for certain that the ECFs appreciated only the religious passion in Song of Songs while disapproving of or ignoring the sexual passion of the narrative.
I simply disagree. People tend to separate procreation from sexuality using NFP, and still offer unitive dimension of the act.
Procreation (meaning strictly reproduction) is usually separate from sexuality. Women are naturally infertile most of the time. The Catholic requirement for procreative sex involves keeping a specific physical form in the embrace. To keep this procreative form, couples must accomodate the potential union of sperm and egg in every sexual act. Accomodating this unity, through use of the procreative form, is what makes the act ‘unitive’.
 
Catholicism has always taught that sex is good. You haven’t shown otherwise.
Clergy simply stated that there is nothing evil in nature of sexuality. However, if not done with exclusive desire for begetting, sex is selfish and evil.
You mentioned the ‘God and Church’ alIegory earlier. I still wonder how you know for certain that the ECFs appreciated only the religious passion in Song of Songs while disapproving of or ignoring the sexual passion of the narrative.
Easy. There is no other interpretation until 19th Century.
Procreation (meaning strictly reproduction) is usually separate from sexuality. Women are naturally infertile most of the time.
That is like saying sleeping is not part of everyday life, since most of the time we are not in bed.
The Catholic requirement for procreative sex involves keeping a specific physical form in the embrace. To keep this procreative form, couples must accomodate the potential union of sperm and egg in every sexual act. Accomodating this unity, through use of the procreative form, is what makes the act ‘unitve’.
Which is a) not the teaching of the Church Fathers b) absurd in case of NFP since the union of sperm and egg occurs only in case of failure of technique. Since failure is not what technique is used for, the whole idea of NFP is negation of procreative aspect of sexuality.
 
The attempts by razredge to replace Christ’s authority conveyed on His Supreme Vicar with a Commission, and to foist Manichean ideas, the use of contraceptive magic and drugs as acceptable, a discredited theologian like Hans Kung, and to misrepresent St Augustine, are all travesties against the teaching from the beginning of the Catholic Church, and of truth. Now he prostitutes the understanding of a person with a God-given nature designed to follow the natural moral law.(#190)

Chrono 13 still misrepresents the art of Natural Birth Regulation developing from the later 19th century with the contraceptive and abortive drugs used and magic practiced before and after the foundation of Christ’s Church, and is mired in stoic ideas.
Chrono 13, #191
In questions regarding contraception, bishops are bypassing important facts regarding Church history- and that is the influence of stoic school to Catholic moral teaching.
They can name you dissident if you are disloyal to their authority. But not if they build their authority on the expanse of loyalty to Catholic moral tradition.
As a dissenter he claims not to know that no Catholic can be faithful to Christ while rejecting the infallible teaching of the Popes. He falls for the delusion that Christ does not protect His Popes from teaching error through the Holy Spirit – and arrogantly feels
only he has the truth.

Thus both dissenters place themselves above Christ’s Supreme Vicars.

They thus subvert the purpose of this discussion which is to know what Christ teaches through the Supreme Vicars of HisChurch.
 
The attempts by razredge to replace Christ’s authority conveyed on His Supreme Vicar with a Commission, and to foist Manichean ideas, the use of contraceptive magic and drugs as acceptable, a discredited theologian like Hans Kung, and to misrepresent St Augustine, are all travesties against the teaching from the beginning of the Catholic Church, and of truth. Now he prostitutes the understanding of a person with a God-given nature designed to follow the natural moral law.(#190)
He simply stated that natural law is different in St. Augustine’s writing, and in 20th Century.
Chrono 13 still misrepresents the art of Natural Birth Regulation developing from the later 19th century with the contraceptive and abortive drugs used and magic practiced before and after the foundation of Christ’s Church, and is mired in stoic ideas.
St. Augustine of Hippo preached against Natural Birth Regulation in 4th Century. Some claim it was known even at the time of Galen. It was not seen as magic, but as an abuse of woman’s fertility circle.

If I misrepresent something, I will gladly say I am wrong. But from this moment, it seems extremely difficult to defend the idea NBR developed in late 19th Century.
As a dissenter he claims not to know that no Catholic can be faithful to Christ while rejecting the infallible teaching of the Popes. He falls for the delusion that Christ does not protect His Popes from teaching error through the Holy Spirit – and arrogantly feels
only he has the truth.
Blessed are you, Abu, for calling me arrogant and dissenter- for surely you do so with desire to defend our Church and provide worthy apologetics. And surely, that is an act of virtue. But let us not lose the discipline required for this conversation.

If I say that Church (or clergy?) taught for 19 stoic Centuries that marital sex is only for procreation, and it proves true, to what guilt am I to answer before the Magisterium? Or Church History? I tell you- none. To what I dissent? To nothing. I simply state what has been taught, nothing more, nothing less. Of course, many questions can be drawn once we accept this as a fact, but indeed, these questions should not be asked as long as you claim “NFP was developed in 19th Century” or similar inconsistances with medical science and Church doctrine.
They thus subvert the purpose of this discussion which is to know what Christ teaches through the Supreme Vicars of HisChurch.
Christ certainly wouldn’t defend His position in this matter trying to deny NFP existed prior to 19th century. He always won the pharisees stressing the truth and fact, not pretending something doesn’t exist or is not worth as an argument.
 
Chrono 13:

St. Thomas Aquinas’s morality is openly anti-stoic. St. Thomas himself mentions the errors of the stoics in morality many times (for instance, their belief that passions are evil).

The Fathers may have been more influenced by stoicism, but even in their writings on ethics there is more than stoicism. Their focus is always the love of God and the joy of deification.

Finally, there are some aspects of morality that the stoics got right: the passions ought to be subdued (well, the Epicureans could say the same thing…), morality is rooted in nature (but not in the metaphysical, and sometimes even physical, way they claimed). Plus, they did preach and develop some good virtues: self-control, rationality, generosity (much less than the Christians would do, but still, they did begin charities in Roman times).
Fine. But he still shows pattern of stoic thinking and conclusions.
 
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