Nicolas Coppola, gay catholic who married, is banned from church duties, was this right?

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You are wrong again, he has made a public commitment to disobey God’s law by civil marriage. If he would legally end it, confess and be a public witness to the truth by openly rejecting the homosexual lifestyle he had chosen, he would be an incredible witness to the truth, and could be once again placed in a leadership role. It is his choice, as it is yours, to remain obstinate to truth.

We have a lady in RCIA right now who is being an inspirational witness to the faith. She is going through the painful process of getting her life in order, three past marriages and was in a cohabitation relationship which has now ended. She had no place for her and her son to live but walked out of the sin she was living in, now that is an example!

She knows it matters, do you?
I don’t think I’m wrong about this because people seem its implicitly wrong for a priest to be homosexual. Some commenters also seem to dislike the idea of any homosexual being a member in a church leadership role.
 
But you have not specified how he disobeyed Church doctrine…
How?

As per my other post, for some people it is important to tell the truth. Isn’t LYING a sin?
If so, then the priest most likely did not want to sin by lying to his parishioners anymore, and that is admirable.

I understand he’s supposed to listen to his boss…but…why would the Bishop not be on his side about being truthful to his congregation?
Why?
Why would the Bishop not want his priest to be an honest, truthful person?

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I’m not going to continue this discussion, it is and will continue to be fruitless. You are trying to defend a man whom you do not know, in so doing you are criticizing a bishop who has served my diocese for the last ten years quite well and the Church for over 40 years.

Being a gay celibate man and making a proclamation of “truth” is one thing, for a priest todo it against the direct order of his bishop is quite different.

PS. The wrong teachings he was teaching teens was about sexuality. He affirmed young people, many young people, in improper beliefs in truth regarding same sex attraction andhomosexuality in general. There is a scripture passage which directly addresses this, “woe to the one who causes my little ones to sin…”
 
I see your point, but equating homosexuality with being a felon is quite laughable equivilocation.

In any case, it seems the majority of people on this thread would still say Mr. Coppola should not be allowed a leadership position even if he strived for 100% simply based on the fact that he would still be homosexual. It wouldn’t matter if he got legally divorced, confessed his sin of homosexual acts, and became a celibate man he would still be considered “disordered” by the church. Although, perhaps closer to God, but still not close enough to be in a leadership position.
Being homosexual does not make you a sinner any more than having the temptation to steal makes you a felon. You have to actually commit the act or teach that it is morally permissible, not just feel a temptation to do it. The Church does consider that someone with deep inclinations to particular grave sins is not capable of a leadership position, but does not go so far as to say that someone has to be free of any organic inclination towards serious sin at all. If a candidate for a leadership position had a history of alcoholism, for instance, it would depend on whether or not just whether the person could admit he was an alcoholic, but whether or not he had a long history of sobriety, as well. Still, even if he were a teetotaler, I think we can all understand that if he taught that some people had an excuse to indulge in drunkenness that the Church would have a problem with that. That is not negotiable.

At any rate, the thread is not about celibate men with some amount of inclination towards homosexuality. The thread is about a gay man who thinks the Church should get out of his way and let him “marry”. That is not an acceptable expectation on his part. It is not the Church that I being unfair; he is being unfair.
 
I don’t think I’m wrong about this because people seem its implicitly wrong for a priest to be homosexual. Some commenters also seem to dislike the idea of any homosexual being a member in a church leadership role.
as long as you continue to rely on your own knowledge and trust only your own beliefs you will continue to see nothing wrong.

It is implicitly wrong for a priest to declare his sexuality, he is a celibate man by promise or vow, live it and all will be good. How many priests do you hear inform their congregations of being heterosexual in the name of honesty???

All people are welcome, but not living in their own little world of rules. Jesus built His Church on the rock, Peter. He gave him the keys to the kingdom and the authority to bind and loose. These issues have been bound in divine revelation and dogme and doctrine and cannot and never will change. To teach and preach otherwise is heresy.
 
It doesn’t surprise me that conservative Catholics would deem me a “Cafeteria Catholic” it’s the perjorative term for Catholics that disagree with certain doctrines, but at least you acknowledge I’m Catholic, even if so grudgingly so thank you for that. While no doubt you think we are termites on the faith I think varied opinions enrich our faith and strengthen our bonds. The only one thing I would say is that I don’t accept some of the teachings of he Church I accept at worst like 90% of what the church teaches so overall I think that’s a pretty good number.
You would be a “cafeteria Catholic” because you want to pick and choose what you want the Catholic church to teach. Catholics have Faith that Jesus won’t let His Church fall into error and believe everything the Church teaches. In other words, if what I say and do disagrees with what the Church teaches, I’m smart enough to know that I am wrong and not the Church.
 
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