As St. Augustine says, “Do not allow yourselves to be offended by the imperfect as you strive for the perfect.”
The reality of the situation is that we all have to do the best we can. There are charitable ways to support the music ministry and express the need for songs during Mass that are theologically sound, etc. There are always ways to express your opinion, or educate or even chastise, in ways that are much more charitable than a knee-jerk reaction and a tarring of all NO liturgy as being “liberal.”
I don’t mean to suggest that any of you in particular are saying this; rather, I hear it in other threads.
Personally, I think that as Church we’re getting better at navigating through the “Novus Ordo” liturgy. I keep thinking about all the craziness that was going on between the Jews and the Hellenists in the Acts of the Apostles. The Apostles were really trying to smooth things out and knit two traditions together. This is much the same, except that we’re hopefully not trying to kill each other. I also speculate how hodge-podge the first liturgies must have been, with no rubrics to refer to and held in people’s homes in secret. I think what kept people coming back, in addition to the presence of Christ, was a true thirst for community and a hope for Christ’s return.
In a way, the current standard liturgy of the Church is in a state of transition, just like the early Church before rubrics. Did people make bone-headed mistakes? They must have! Did people use twisted theology from time to time? I can almost guarantee it. But somehow, our Mandatum to come together as Church and celebrate Christ’s sacrifice has carried us through. We’ll get this right eventually…I have hope.
If we can deal with each other with patience and charity, we can figure this out. Besides, when was the last time any of us remembered to thank our music ministers for their service to the parish? Even I, as a choir director, forget to thank the members of the music ministry!
Seems to me that if they feel supported, they will be more open to hearing suggestions.
Just a thought.