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faithfulservant
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boy, am i steamed
or am i just over-reacting
…i await feedback from my learned board brethren
i have been taking communion and leading the Rosary at an assisted living home…no problems there because i make sure those that receive communion are Catholic… but a deacon comes in the 2nd wednesday of every month to conduct a communion service…the format is that of the Mass…w/o the consecration of course
i had been told that anyone that showed up at the communion service received … Catholic or not … i decided i could not in good conscience be a part of that… so i have declined to attend the previous 2 services… today i had to, because the other lady that goes was going to a funeral service and couldn’t make it and someone who knew the people had to be there to let them know the service was going on…and bring them if necessary … she told me it would be no problem , because the people i would bring would be Catholic… all well and good… made sense to me
problem was , of the 8 people that showed up, 4 of them were not Catholic…and 3 received Holy Communion… one lady came and asked if this was a Catholic service and i told her it was…she told me she would not attend because she was episcopalian… the problem manifested itself when the deacon told me “that’s ok…episcopalians can come to our service” … well IMO, its one thing to “assume” everyone there is Catholic and to offer them Communion…it’s quite another to know there are those there of separated denoms and to give them communion anyway
so, what say you… do i write a note to my priest informing him of my decision to not take part in an ecumenical communion service or should i just suck it up and be a part of something that i know should not be taking place
i have been taking communion and leading the Rosary at an assisted living home…no problems there because i make sure those that receive communion are Catholic… but a deacon comes in the 2nd wednesday of every month to conduct a communion service…the format is that of the Mass…w/o the consecration of course
i had been told that anyone that showed up at the communion service received … Catholic or not … i decided i could not in good conscience be a part of that… so i have declined to attend the previous 2 services… today i had to, because the other lady that goes was going to a funeral service and couldn’t make it and someone who knew the people had to be there to let them know the service was going on…and bring them if necessary … she told me it would be no problem , because the people i would bring would be Catholic… all well and good… made sense to me
problem was , of the 8 people that showed up, 4 of them were not Catholic…and 3 received Holy Communion… one lady came and asked if this was a Catholic service and i told her it was…she told me she would not attend because she was episcopalian… the problem manifested itself when the deacon told me “that’s ok…episcopalians can come to our service” … well IMO, its one thing to “assume” everyone there is Catholic and to offer them Communion…it’s quite another to know there are those there of separated denoms and to give them communion anyway
so, what say you… do i write a note to my priest informing him of my decision to not take part in an ecumenical communion service or should i just suck it up and be a part of something that i know should not be taking place