Well, in one sense you are correct. We all attempt to apprehend God and grasp an understanding of His Revelation. And we look to join a community which best matches our theology.
This approach is understandable, but upon further scrutiny, we can see that it is nothing more than creating a god in our own image.
We ought to find the Church that Christ established, and then join it…and conform our views to Christ’s.
And logic dictates that if we can’t say, “I believe [A] but God said ** so I have to, regretfully, let go of [A]” then we have been worshipping at the altar of the Almight Self rather than the Almighty.
And with full disclosure, I will give an example from my own life: I would love it if divorce and re-marriage were NOT adultery. If I were Ruler of the World, I would celebrate when my friends, who had once been married to losers, found a new love and attempted marriage with this new honey.
Sadly, God has said differently.
So I don’t go and recreate a new god that says, “Divorce and re-marriage is not only NOT adultery, it’s a sacrament!”
If your god doesn’t disagree with you, you’re probably worshipping an idealized version of yourself, paraphrasing Pastor Tim Keller.**
Yes I know you keep saying that. But you miss the part about how people can search for the one God established and end up with a different belief and faith than you have about it. The main part of the equation, which by your posts you seem to overlook, is the faith and belief part. You can search for what God established all you want. But it still in the end comes down to having faith and belief.