Not arguing here, but isn’t this exactly how all sorts of things start? And all, of course, such ‘little things’. Such petty things. Oh, the Church has so many more important things to worry about than rigid old rules. Haven’t you understood that we needed to change? That diversity is the way to go? But now we don’t take things that are dear to a group or community and show how they demonstrate some great Christian truth, as we once did –we take our Christian truth and either ignore it, hide it, or twist it round so that we can have things that are dear to the group or community.
For many, we don’t come as a community to worship God so much as we come to celebrate ‘the god within us, the wonderful holy community’.
It’s all about choice, you know? Choice is built into the liturgy, choice is built into the participant. If it isn’t written in, that doesn’t mean it can’t be done. If it IS written in, that doesn’t mean it mustbe done. You wear what you want, show up when you want, say what you want, provided it’s not "the old way/words/actions’. Those you can’t do.
Want to wear a suit (men) or dress/hat (ladies?) Oh no, that’s part of the snobbish, affected, rigid old ways. You can wear hoodies, profanity-laden sweats, crop tops, leggings, etc and people will fall over backward praising you for just showing up --but wear the ‘old style’ and the judgmental attitude will place you in the dock, sentenced as a rigid hypocrite and an elitist.
Want to sing or help start up a chant group or play the organ? Oh no, that’s again snobby, elitist, etc. Amp up the electric guitars, bring out the Hagen-Daas, mike everybody right up around the altar, but don’t even think about starting a fund to restore the beautiful organ in the choir loft, even though you’ve already found through the grapevine you have enough donors and to spare, even though there are half a dozen organists who would love to play and cost no more than the cantor or the LifeTeen musicians. Diversity rules. . .as long as it isn’t ‘that old stuff’.
Customs? Hey, we’ll hold hands at the Our Father or do a Church wide orans, Free for alls with the sign of peace, added in prayers scattered through (A prayer for Mother Earth, a prayer for the Parish phone ap program, a prayer for our brothers and sisters who are being hurt by unfair practices). . .
But if people want to fold their hands at the Our Father, or bow their heads and smile and say peace be with you at the sign of peace –all hell breaks loose as these unfriendly, rigid, hateful people are ‘disrespecting’ their fellow Catholics and hurting feelings left and right, acting as if they don’t want to TOUCH others. How hateful!
Yep, as long as it’s a new(ish) gesture, action, posture, etc., it’s a legitimate choice. But a person choosing an ‘older’ gesture, action, posture etc, is not permitted to exercise his or her choice, as it’s ‘hateful’ or ‘unwelcoming.’