Not dependent on a church, only on Christ

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Most of these people also say they can be spiritual without being religious. I would propose that generally these are people who have problems with authority. They don’t want anyone (including God) telling them how to behave.

In my experience, many people dislike churches because churches require them to a higher level of behavior. The Catholic Church is the worst of these because it expects even more from it’s members than other christian churches do.
Someone who claims that they are “spiritual” is, without thinking, is merely telling you that they are alive. I heard that exact phrase from a man who was an altar server in his youth. Just where did God go, and what has happened to Him, one then wonders. I think the authority issues are correct. Indeed, why give event part of one day up to something or Someone whom you no longer believe in - or no longer desire to serve?
 
Pray unceasingly, Love the Lord your God with all your heart , Treat others the way you know God would want you to, Behave each day as if the Jesus was standing right next to you watching (since He is watching anyway!).
Basic requirements, yet is that all? Is that enough? Jesus commanded more from us. We are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 3:16). If we keep all of His commands (Matthew 28:20, John 15:1), if we eat His Body and drink His Blood (Matthew 26 and John 6 cannot be excluded), we then remain in Him and He in us (John 15:4). Now, that is personal. A good part of this involves our interrelationship by making His Church into His living, breathing Body on earth - His highest authority on earth (Matthew 18:17). That is clear from scripture. Yet, there is more.
They talk about “personal” because while the Church has a big part in things, the “Church” as a whole is not how we are judged. On Judgment day. Each “Person” gets judged.
Each part of the body is judged even as the entire body is judged (Matthew 5:29, Mark 9:47). Christ is personal, and there is no such thing as an impersonal relationship with Him. Yet, this obsession with solely the personal aspect of the relationship can cheat the Body, which is included in the entire being. In recent centuries, particularly in America, Jesus’ reality of Church has been greatly dumbed down, resulting in this nebulous and fragmentary concept of a “personal relationship”. Jesus would not have said “Church” if He did not mean the entire body of believers. Paul says we are all parts of Christ’s Body, which is the Church (Ephesians 5:23, Colossians 1:18, 1:24)

Those who seem to think that Catholics do not have this “personal relationship” do not know what they speak of - do not know the intense, incomprehensible personal relationship that we have with our Lord. If only they could experience that - but that is where unceasing prayer enters in.
 
A year and a half ago, my wife and I left the church we had attended for several years and have been de-programming. The church we went to pushed being ‘plugged in’ to various and sundry weekly activities that keep you bouncing from pillar to post and leave you exhausted and burnt out. Since leaving, the Lord has drawn me to study the Sermon on the Mount, and to apply Jesus’ teachings to my life. During this time, a hunger has grown in us- the need for a community of like-minded believers. Trying to live a Christian life without the support of other believers is like trying to exist in a vacuum. We were both raised Protestant, but some of our support came from Catholic friends who didn’t judge us, just loved us unconditionally. Rather than berating us to ‘get into a church and get busy’, they invited us to attend Mass with them-which we did, and were floored! I believe the Mass is the most beautiful, Christ-centered celebration either of us have ever been in. Anyone who tells you they are independent of any church is deluding themselves-take it from someone who has been there!
Dependence on Christ is a given, but we all need the support of our brothers and sisters in Christ as well.
So happy for you and your wife!! :extrahappy::dancing::clapping:

I just love hearing stories of people coming “home”…:love:
 
Some people, who I know, like to tout the “personal relationship” mantra. I believe that we all need a personal relationship with Christ.👍 I see nothing in the Catholic Church that discourages that relationship, I feel closer in His Church.

The problem starts when “personal relationship” means “you can’t tell me how to do it”. This can become another rejection of authority, rather than a closer walk. Not everyone uses the phrase this way, but I know a couple of people who do.

The other problem that comes from the “me and Jesus” idea, suddenly anything that involves tradition seems to block the “personal” aspect. They may no longer need to seek out others in church, or may reject church traditions altogether. In my parents lives, it became “I don’t need a church to be a Christian”.😦 OTOH, it can become license to judge traditions as “empty”. We must always be careful not to judge what we do not know. Even if some traditions may seem “empty”, we do not know how it moves in other peoples’ hearts.

I believe that the attitude of " Not dependent on a church, only on Christ" stems from rebellion. We want our own way, so we rationalize our ideas. When we stop trying to submit to Christ, we can fall into many traps that let us have our “own way”. Many people are raised in this “do it your own way” church philosophy, so they are blind to the beauty of the Church and Tradition. This may explain why we see so many “independent churches”. The whole idea of “independent” churches would have seemed ridiculous to the early Christians.
 
Some people, who I know, like to tout the “personal relationship” mantra. I believe that we all need a personal relationship with Christ.👍 I see nothing in the Catholic Church that discourages that relationship, I feel closer in His Church.

The problem starts when “personal relationship” means “you can’t tell me how to do it”. This can become another rejection of authority, rather than a closer walk. Not everyone uses the phrase this way, but I know a couple of people who do.

The other problem that comes from the “me and Jesus” idea, suddenly anything that involves tradition seems to block the “personal” aspect. They may no longer need to seek out others in church, or may reject church traditions altogether. In my parents lives, it became “I don’t need a church to be a Christian”.😦 OTOH, it can become license to judge traditions as “empty”. We must always be careful not to judge what we do not know. Even if some traditions may seem “empty”, we do not know how it moves in other peoples’ hearts.

I believe that the attitude of " Not dependent on a church, only on Christ" stems from rebellion. We want our own way, so we rationalize our ideas. When we stop trying to submit to Christ, we can fall into many traps that let us have our “own way”. Many people are raised in this “do it your own way” church philosophy, so they are blind to the beauty of the Church and Tradition. This may explain why we see so many “independent churches”. The whole idea of “independent” churches would have seemed ridiculous to the early Christians.
Indeed! A relationship, especially a personal one, requires sacrifice. If they are not sacrificing - if they are not denying themselves, taking up their crosses, and only then, following Jesus, it cannot be a relationship at all. It is fandom, and little more. For those who are not even baptized, as C.A.R.M. (and others) teaches, it can be the road to perdition.
 
Indeed! A relationship, especially a personal one, requires sacrifice. If they are not sacrificing - if they are not denying themselves, taking up their crosses, and only then, following Jesus, it cannot be a relationship at all. It is fandom, and little more. For those who are not even baptized, as C.A.R.M. (and others) teaches, it can be the road to perdition.
I do not question their sincerity, nor their love of Jesus. I am certain that they are God loving people, just a little misdirected.

Pray for Unity!
Pray for Conversions!

St. Paul pray for us!
 
Someone who claims that they are “spiritual” is, without thinking, is merely telling you that they are alive. I heard that exact phrase from a man who was an altar server in his youth. Just where did God go, and what has happened to Him, one then wonders. I think the authority issues are correct. Indeed, why give event part of one day up to something or Someone whom you no longer believe in - or no longer desire to serve?
I used to say I was more spiritual than religious and it had nothing to do with authority. It had to do with who was asking the question.
 
hi,
reading the posts on this Thread, I get the feeling that you are
right in saying that the Catholic Church is the medium in which
Christianity would florish.
That being said, if ANY of us lose connection with the Head,
Christ, we would be in trouble!
Thoughtfully, we MUST love each other with the love of Christ,
“Leave no wounded behind”!
in Christ,
GLam
 
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