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The OP. Your reply wasn’t up yet when I was replying.curly, are you asking me or the OP that question?
The OP. Your reply wasn’t up yet when I was replying.curly, are you asking me or the OP that question?
And yet the church interprets it that way and has such a long tradition of it.Which canon(s)? Can you be specific?
Hint: Canon 964 says *nothing *about anonymity
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Can 964 §2.Which canon(s)? Can you be specific?
Hint: Canon 964 says *nothing *about anonymity
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This quote is speaking about the priest and the penitent, not the other people who may be waiting in line or in the church for other purposes. This is the issue brought up by the OP. The question of the door to the confessional being glass, etc isn’t covered in this quote. Think of the old fashioned confessionals that were basically a big chair for the priest with kneelers on either side. Yes, there was a grille between the priest and the penitent, but nothing between the penitent and the entire rest of the church. And presumably in at least some of those churches, the priest might have been able to see you as you entered and exited the church, but probably he wasn’t paying attention. Just like today, even the priest in the reconciliation room isn’t making metal notes about exactly who came in and what they confessed.We have the right of anonymity in confession. It is our right wherever possible.
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I don’t read it that way. I think he is saying he doesn’t want to be face to face with the priest.He doesn’t want the priest to make eye contact with him or look at him. He wants an anyonymous confession. Which is explained in the quote I provided.This quote is speaking about the priest and the penitent, not the other people who may be waiting in line or in the church for other purposes. This is the issue brought up by the OP. The question of the door to the confessional being glass, etc isn’t covered in this quote. Think of the old fashioned confessionals that were basically a big chair for the priest with kneelers on either side. Yes, there was a grille between the priest and the penitent, but nothing between the penitent and the entire rest of the church. And presumably in at least some of those churches, the priest might have been able to see you as you entered and exited the church, but probably he wasn’t paying attention. Just like today, even the priest in the reconciliation room isn’t making metal notes about exactly who came in and what they confessed.
Priests hear confessions, not other lay people.If you are hearing confessions in a room where, because of the way the room is set up, you can obviously see the person coming in and going behind the screen, do not look at that person. Just look ahead or close your eyes or something. Or re-arrange the set-up. Or ask your pastor to build a confessional. I shouldn’t have to say this.
I can confess either way, but I prefer the screen.If you are hearing confessions in a room where, because of the way the room is set up, you can obviously see the person coming in and going behind the screen, do not look at that person. Just look ahead or close your eyes or something. Or re-arrange the set-up. Or ask your pastor to build a confessional. I shouldn’t have to say this.
You are correct. I don’t really care if other people can see me at confession.I don’t read it that way. I think he is saying he doesn’t want to be face to face with the priest.He doesn’t want the priest to make eye contact with him or look at him. He wants an anyonymous confession. Which is explained in the quote I provided.
I think that’s why the thread was titled, “Notice to priests reading this forum.”Priests hear confessions, not other lay people.
I see this happening with increasing frequency, and I also find it troubling.One parish where I went had confession by appointment ONLY.
amazing that some churches have confession ~15 times a week and others are “by appt only.” I guess it is a matter of priorities.I see this happening with increasing frequency, and I also find it troubling.
If my parish had confessions “by appointment only,” judging by the number of penitents in line before every weekday Mass, and considering the uncertainties of scheduling appointments, the priests would be spending even more time in the confessional than they are now.amazing that some churches have confession ~15 times a week and others are “by appt only.” I guess it is a matter of priorities.
If the safety of penitents is paramount, then go back to the old confessionals, where priest and penitent were each in their own little room. (By the way, that sounds like a bishop who has a TON of confidence in his priests.)The next, from the bishop, was that anonymity was unimportant when put against the safety of penitents.
If the safety of penitents is paramount, then go back to the old confessionals, where priest and penitent were each in their own little room. (By the way, that sounds like a bishop who has a TON of confidence in his priests.)
Actually, it sounds exactly like a bishop who’s had to deal with the fallout from historical sexual abuse messes in two dioceses back to back; a bishop who is tired of dealing with lawyers and courtrooms and insurance companies and tired of trying to sell off diocesan property, including little rural churches, to try to raise the 13 million dollars in compensation that one man’s crimes has cost.
Here’s something even more disturbing: “reconciliation rooms” with 2-inch gaps between the bottom of the door and the floor. That way, not only the priest but everybody waiting in line can listen to your confession.
These days, the spaces reserved for confessions are designed to provide a minimum of privacy. I think the safety-of-the-penitents line is a crock, and that it’s just part of an all-out assault on the sacrament and its frequent reception.
There are no scheduled confessions in our parish other than the two Penitential Services in Advent and Lent. The priests used to sit in the Reconciliation Room for 30 minutes before each Sunday Mass but the previous pastor refused to do that because “nobody ever comes”. The present pastor has not revived the tradition.
“Nobody ever comes” because you keep telling them that God loves them no matter what but you never tell them that they need to repent for their sins and confess them. When someone dies you always say they are in heaven as though it’s a given that everyone gets there regardless of how they live their life. No mention that their soul needs to be prayed for. That’s what accounts for 21 people (in a parish of 1500) showing up for the penitential service last week (the only confessions in Lent this year) and 98% heading for the door when the private confessions started.
I think so too,I think that’s why the thread was titled, “Notice to priests reading this forum.”
There was nothing uncharitable about the way the post was written. I took it as a serious plea not in the least bit uncharitable.And yet you did, so it would have been better to say it in the most charitable way you could.
Good documentation.Can 964 §2.
The conference of bishops is to establish norms regarding the confessional; **it is to take care, however, that there are always confessionals with a fixed grate between the penitent and the confessor ** in an open place so that the faithful who wish to can use them freely.
Complementary Norm for the US:Complementary Norm: The National Conference of Catholic Bishops, in accord with the prescriptions of canon 964§2, hereby decrees the following norms governing the place for sacramental confessions:
Provision must be made in each church or oratory for a sufficient number of places for sacramental confessions which are clearly visible, truly accessible, and which provide a fixed grille between the penitent and the confessor. Provision should also be made for penitents who wish to confess face-to-face, with due regard for the Authentic Interpretation of canon 964§2 by the Pontifical Council for the Interpretation of Legislative Texts, 7 July 1998 (AAS 90 [1998] 711).
BTW, the New Commentary on the Code of Canon Law, published by the Canon Law Society of America says (p 1150):The purpose of this norm is of course to afford the penitent anonymity if he or she desires and to make certain that there is no suspicion of impropriety in the confessor-penitent relationship.
Yep!“Nobody ever comes” because you keep telling them that God loves them no matter what but you never tell them that they need to repent for their sins and confess them. When someone dies you always say they are in heaven as though it’s a given that everyone gets there regardless of how they live their life. No mention that their soul needs to be prayed for. That’s what accounts for 21 people (in a parish of 1500) showing up for the penitential service last week (the only confessions in Lent this year) and 98% heading for the door when the private confessions started.
Because the Funeral is for those left behind, the person who has died has already stood before God’s judgement seat. The funeral allows those left behind to grieve and renew their faith in the Lord!Yep!
(P.S.: If we’re so sure the deceased is in heaven – however much we may hope he is – why do we bother with a funeral Mass in the first place?)