Hi, Della – thank you for your time and trouble!
There is an entire issue behind this; aside from “venial sins” and “mortal sins”, the issue is the essence
of salvation. Can we all agree that “salvation is a union between two people” — Creator (Jesus!), and creature (you me and everyone!)?
In John8 (24) Jesus speaks of the idea of “dying-in-our-sins”. To me this reflects Luke13:3, “unless you repent you will perish”.
Salvation is not a matter of “not-doing-sins”; nor are we condemned by any sins. Salvation is being united with Jesus, a true indwelt fellowship of love. John says (1:5:12) “He who has Jesus has eternal life”.
We read in 1Jn3:10, “In Jesus there is no sin” — so
if Jesus and the Spirit indwell the believer, is there any room for “practicing” or “unforgiven” sins?
Now, this conflicts what I was told in a Catholic Bible Study I once attended – I objected to the idea of
"doing penance to pay for sins". The leader said, “That’s not the point of penance at all; the purpose is to create a
contrite heart that leads to repentance”. That answered my objection.
Contrarily, the definition above that I found on the internet really does seem to convey that “penance
pays for sins in some measure”.
As such, that conflicts Scripture, especially verses like Rom11:6
(“if it be by works then grace is no longer grace”), Eph2:8, and Rom8:3 (“what weak flesh could not do, God did–sending His Son …as an offering for sin”).
You said that “Purgatory is in Heaven” — so a person goes to HEAVEN and still gets PUNISHED THERE?
Heb10:12 says “He offered one sacrifice for sins for all time” — how many sins, and for whom? It had to be “all sins, for all who receive His grace”.
So here is where my understanding may diverge from yours – I perceive that ALL or ANY sin
is “mortal”, if unforgiven! And to qualify that, “repentance” is a walk, we walk in a SPIRIT of repentance, so that if we stumble and sin but die before we get the chance to confess and be forgiven, there is still the “intent of our hearts” to not walk in sin but to abide in Him. We would have repented if that boulder hadn’t fallen on us at exactly the wrong time!
Is our difference that you perceive someone as able to stand
in between “being with Jesus” and “being against Jesus”, and I see it as an “all-or-nothing proposition”?