My question is…
What reasons do you have for evening avoiding sin? Is it harder for you to resist sin, since certain sins do not deprive one of Holy Communion like they do in the Catholic Church?
It amazes me that primary objection to once-saved-always-saved is that it takes away the stick, as if a true believer could only desire not to sin if he or she were motivated primarily by fear. Of course, fear is no longer the primary motivator for the one who loves Jesus (cf 1 John 4:18). One thing that prevents Christians from sinning is the shear desire not to. The motivation is intrinsic (love for Christ) rather than extrinsic (fear of loosing salvation).
Of course there are warnings given to believers that hold loss of salvation out as a real, and just hypothetical possibility (Hebrews 6 comes to mind). It doesn’t follow, however, that a believer WILL lose his/her salvation. To give an analogy, in heaven no one sins. (I take it that everyone here would agree with that.) But is this because no one CAN sin or because no one WILL sin? It seems to me that if we are free, then we can choose to sin, even if we’re in heaven. If that’s the case, and if there is no sin in heaven, then it must mean that we WILL not sin. From this I would infer that we will always choose good rather than evil once we see Him face to face.
My own view is that the warning passages are the very means by which God ensures that his elect will not fall away. As warnings, they are efficacious in accomplishing what God intended them to accomplish. For the elect, they will be heeded. For the reprobate they will be ignored.
What this implies is that no one this side of eternity can know absolutely who the elect are. So rather than conclude that we can loose our salvation (not much of a “salvation” if can be lost now, is it?), I’d rather conclude that we can’t be sure of the identity of the elect. If we see an apparent “believer” sinning egregiously, we would probably be just as justified in assuming that, based on the “fruit,” we see, that this person may not be the right kind of “tree.” IOW, rather than conclude that this person was saved and then lost his/her salvation, it seems to me that we can conclude that they were probably never a believer in the first place.