One last test before I give her a ring?

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Congratulations on your engagement! 😃
JamesG said:
With that said I am very traditional and if there are some nasty feminists who want to call me a caveman then so be it. They are most likely very upset and are hell bent deconstructing Gods plan for men and woman anyway. They should know that I am very happy to be a caveman just like adam and so is my cavewoman who is just like Eve. Now I’m not saying that we are jumping around the bushes with fig leaves or clubing each other on the head, but … if it’s after marriage and in private then that realy isn’t anyone elses business. 😉

anyway…
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Just FYI… IMO, those plastic whiffle-ball bats make some fun sounds when you bop each other on the heads… 😉 😃
 
Em_in_FL said:
Congratulations on your engagement! 😃

Just FYI… IMO, those plastic whiffle-ball bats make some fun sounds when you bop each other on the heads… 😉 😃
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and they can sting like the dickens too if you get bopped in other places.

Ravyn
 
Ravyn_Guiliani said:
uhhhh…after 10 years of a very difficult marriage, and even tho I love my husband dearly, I have to be honest and say that if I knew then what the next 10 years would be like because of his family I do not think I would have married him. As unfair as that sounds, his family has nearly killed me healthwise with their hatefulness and constant drama and I will never get those years back. things have finally turned around for my husband with his attitude toward them and me, but it may be too late. I hope the next 10 years are better ones, but I don’t know now if I have 10 years left. Just remember if you have any doubts at all–if you feel hesitant and need to ‘test’ things out–you are not just marrying the woman, you are marrying the family too. If there are problems now, they will only get worse if they are not dealt with promptly. Love is wonderful, but truly it takes more than love to make it work.
Ravyn
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I will completely second that! My guy is amazing and good in every way I can see. But there’s more to the package, lol.
 
Hi,

I am a guy, and could only get through page one of the posts…
Anyway, I think from what I have read up to this point, I would suggest that you spend some serious time in front of The Blessed Sacrement, preferrably in Adoration.

Reflect on what has been said here, your motives, and God’s will for your marrage. ALSO, take some QUIET time and sit back and LISTEN to Him…

May God Bless you and your decision,
Bob
 
Ravyn_Guiliani said:
uhhhh…after 10 years of a very difficult marriage, and even tho I love my husband dearly, I have to be honest and say that if I knew then what the next 10 years would be like because of his family I do not think I would have married him. As unfair as that sounds, his family has nearly killed me healthwise with their hatefulness and constant drama and I will never get those years back. things have finally turned around for my husband with his attitude toward them and me, but it may be too late. I hope the next 10 years are better ones, but I don’t know now if I have 10 years left. Just remember if you have any doubts at all–if you feel hesitant and need to ‘test’ things out–you are not just marrying the woman, you are marrying the family too. If there are problems now, they will only get worse if they are not dealt with promptly. Love is wonderful, but truly it takes more than love to make it work.
Ravyn
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I sympathise. 25 Years, and it seems to never end. It really effects the children too. My wife has left the Church and is a Non-Denom. now. She is very angry at the Church, and my return to it. Even when I am a few minutes early to Mass(I am however habitually late) I get nasty comments.

I will pray for you, and please pray for me.

God Bless,
Bob
 

what part of the bible or catholic document are you quoting? sorry but I can’t think of any. Is this shakespeare person or Kenneth Branaugh a Saint?​

Nothing subtle here, I’m just referring to the classic Shakespeare play “Much Ado About Nothing.”
 
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