That’s a great example of eisegesis. I would think that if we were doing a study on what the Qur’an has to say about death, the responsible thing would be to go to what the Qur’an actually has to say. From what I understand, Native American belief systems were full of shirk, not the least of which was Shamanism. Yes, Natives did believe that their ancestors were present in some sort of way, that’s why they venerated the dead. To parallel that to anything the Qur’an has to say is laughable.
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No, when it says ‘him’, it means ‘him’ (Jesus). How you could take surah 4:157 and parallel that to tribal belief systems that didn’t exist until centuries later, belief systems wherein all sorts of spirit worship and spirit channeling was practiced, which is what Shamanism is…well, that’s anyone’s guess.
What’s more, surah 3:55 echoes the statement-- that Jesus never died: “Behold! Allah said: "O Jesus! I will take thee and raise thee to Myself and clear thee (of the falsehoods) of those who blaspheme; I will make those who follow thee superior to those who reject faith, to the Day of Resurrection: Then shall ye all return unto me, and I will judge between you of the matters wherein ye dispute”.
Once again, these concepts are totally foreign to the Qur’an and 1400 years of Islamic tradition. Moreover, you’re actually committing shirk, associating partners with Allah, by saying that dead people can see us or are with us in any way. Only Allah is Al-Basir, the All-Seeing. As the Qur’an says, in surah 10:61- “In whatever business thou mayest be, and whatever portion thou mayest be reciting from the Qur’an, and whatever deed ye (mankind) may be doing, We are witnesses thereof when ye are deeply engrossed therein. Nor is hidden from thy Lord (so much as) the weight of an atom on the earth or in heaven. And not the least and not the greatest of these things but are recorded in a clear record.”
Allah azza wa jal is unique–completely different than His Creation “…and there is none like unto Him” (surah 112:4).
By associating an attribute that only belongs to Allah to a human, that is shirk. So if you were being consistent, you would therefore have to say that all muslims, including the prophet himself [peace be upon him], associated partners with Allah and thereby committed the unforgiveable sin [surah 4:48]. I know that you won’t say that, though.