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members.iinet.net.au/~mmjournl/MaryMartha/MINISTRY%20AND%20ORDINATION%20/Restoration% The early church always had female deacons (not deaconesses) and over 40 of them went on to be saints. Historical documents by eminent professors at Oxford, Yale, Harvard and Cambridge has proved that the early church writings were so heavily edited to discriminate against women that the names of the apostles was edited and that two of those apostles were in fact women. To say that the church can not ordain women when history says different is a non starter . During the second world war the Vatican ordained two female priests in Eastern Poland and one is still living today. Pope Pius then asked if they would lay aside their ordination for the sake of the church both did and returned to the lay state. Women have a natural affinity for the priesthood I myself attended Anglican and Old Catholic services where the priest was female and it was a wonderful experience of Grace . It will be the Holy Father guided by the Holy Spirit that will make the final decision on both married men and female priests and I hope please GOD to see it in my lifetime So lets not see the messengers gender issues but the Preaching of the Good News as the most important fact for this centaury. Lets drop the Brand Names see all our co-workers as faith enablers and crack on. Islam is just around the corner and they take no hostages Fr Anthony20of%20Diaconate.html
You are mistaken. They were deaconesses not deacons. They served in no liturgical function as a deacon does.

This is something that modern society has played with. Removing the gender specifics from job/function titles. So instead of mailman we have mailperson, so instead of deaconess we have female deacon only they were not a deacon as a man is a deacon.

They served a specific function within the Church. That of assisting priests with the baptism of women as they were baptized by full immersion and fulling the role of service to the laity that uncloistered sisters fill today. When deaconesses were in use there was no such thing as an uncloistered woman religious.
 
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Dear Veronica,

This is a question that has attracted quite some interest in recent times.
One of the things that Vatican II did was to instruct the Church to restore the ministry of deacons. In the early history of the Church, deacons had shared with priests and bishops the responsibility of providing care for Christians and together they were known as the Major Orders. Over time, the deacons became less important and became little more than a temporary phase (of six to twelve months) that men went through in the path of becoming a priest. Nowadays, however, it is quite common to see again permanent deacons men who will spend their whole ordained life as a deacon.

At present, the Church, as a question of discipline, admits only men to Major Orders (ie deacon, priest and bishop). The Church teaches that this is not a matter of faith but rather of the discipline of the sacraments. There has always been some evidence that during the early church there were women deacons. Some ways of translating the ancient Greek of the Bible would suggest there were women deacons even in biblical times but probably the honest answer is that it simply is not clear. There is much stronger historical evidence, however we have texts of ordination ceremonies of female deacons and references to them in ancient letters.

Last year. the International Theological Commission of the Vatican was asked to consider the question of female deacons. ***The Commission accepted that there were women deacons/***COLOR] until the sixth century but then died out with deacons generally as their role was taken over by the priests. The Commission left it an open question whether theologically it is possible for there to be women deacons today.

The short answer, then, is that there are no Women Deacons in the Church as Church discipline limits the reception of the Sacrament of Holy Orders to men. The reason is largely historical even though it is likely that there have been women deacons in the past, when the role of deacons disappeared it became just a temporary step to becoming a priest and that has only ever been a male role in the Church.
 
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Dear Veronica,

This is a question that has attracted quite some interest in recent times.
One of the things that Vatican II did was to instruct the Church to restore the ministry of deacons. In the early history of the Church, deacons had shared with priests and bishops the responsibility of providing care for Christians and together they were known as the Major Orders. Over time, the deacons became less important and became little more than a temporary phase (of six to twelve months) that men went through in the path of becoming a priest. Nowadays, however, it is quite common to see again permanent deacons men who will spend their whole ordained life as a deacon.

At present, the Church, as a question of discipline, admits only men to Major Orders (ie deacon, priest and bishop). The Church teaches that this is not a matter of faith but rather of the discipline of the sacraments. There has always been some evidence that during the early church there were women deacons. Some ways of translating the ancient Greek of the Bible would suggest there were women deacons even in biblical times but probably the honest answer is that it simply is not clear. There is much stronger historical evidence, however we have texts of ordination ceremonies of female deacons and references to them in ancient letters.

Last year. the International Theological Commission of the Vatican was asked to consider the question of female deacons. ***The Commission accepted that there were women deacons/***COLOR] until the sixth century but then died out with deacons generally as their role was taken over by the priests. The Commission left it an open question whether theologically it is possible for there to be women deacons today.

The short answer, then, is that there are no Women Deacons in the Church as Church discipline limits the reception of the Sacrament of Holy Orders to men. The reason is largely historical even though it is likely that there have been women deacons in the past, when the role of deacons disappeared it became just a temporary step to becoming a priest and that has only ever been a male role in the Church.
**THEY WERE NOT ORDAINED!!!
**Respectfully, Fr. Anthony, you need to read a lot more than a report. All you’ve done so far is reveal that you do not understand Church teaching. Deaconesses sure existed, but not allowed to be ordained. When some tried to ordain them it was met early on with condemnation and accusations. This was a major point of my coming back home to the Catholic Church. If this goes in the direction you want I would do one of 2 things, join the SSPX or Eastern Orthodox Church because this would be evidence to me that somethings not orthodox. Read the ancient church fathers AND JPII’s document already pointed out to you. HUGE difference.

Would it be wrong to ask a priest to resign for the sake of the Church…especially if he teaches seminarians?**

**Please stop acting like you’re speaking from authority. To do so requires you to submit to the Teachings of the Church, not be a cowboy priest. Women baptized the women, that’s basically it. Never in the history of the Church were there ordained deaconesses. HUGE difference. Talk about ripping a sacrament apart. Let me guess, you probably think its okay to use Kool-Aid and graham crackers for the Eucharist.
 
You are mistaken. They were deaconesses not deacons. They served in no liturgical function as a deacon does.

This is something that modern society has played with. Removing the gender specifics from job/function titles. So instead of mailman we have mailperson, so instead of deaconess we have female deacon only they were not a deacon as a man is a deacon.

They served a specific function within the Church. That of assisting priests with the baptism of women as they were baptized by full immersion and fulling the role of service to the laity that uncloistered sisters fill today. When deaconesses were in use there was no such thing as an uncloistered woman religious.
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Dear Veronica,

This is a question that has attracted quite some interest in recent times.
One of the things that Vatican II did was to instruct the Church to restore the ministry of deacons. In the early history of the Church, deacons had shared with priests and bishops the responsibility of providing care for Christians and together they were known as the Major Orders. Over time, the deacons became less important and became little more than a temporary phase (of six to twelve months) that men went through in the path of becoming a priest. Nowadays, however, it is quite common to see again permanent deacons men who will spend their whole ordained life as a deacon.

At present, the Church, as a question of discipline, admits only men to Major Orders (ie deacon, priest and bishop). The Church teaches that this is not a matter of faith but rather of the discipline of the sacraments. There has always been some evidence that during the early church there were women deacons. Some ways of translating the ancient Greek of the Bible would suggest there were women deacons even in biblical times but probably the honest answer is that it simply is not clear. There is much stronger historical evidence, however we have texts of ordination ceremonies of female deacons and references to them in ancient letters.

Last year. the International Theological Commission of the Vatican was asked to consider the question of female deacons. The Commission accepted that there were women deacons until the sixth century but then died out with deacons generally as their role was taken over by the priests. The Commission left it an open question whether theologically it is possible for there to be women deacons today.

The short answer, then, is that there are no Women Deacons in the Church as Church discipline limits the reception of the Sacrament of Holy Orders to men. The reason is largely historical even though it is likely that there have been women deacons in the past, when the role of deacons disappeared it became just a temporary step to becoming a priest and that has only ever been a male role in the Church.
Again, as I said, this is the practice of modern society of removing gender specifics from job/role titles.

A deacon is a man who is ordained and has a liturgical function as well as a service function. A deaconess is a woman who is not ordained the way a deacon is and had no liturgical function but had a service function.

Deaconesses also died out early in the history of the Church. We must ask ourselves why the office of deaconess died out. Then we must ask ourselves if something has changed that requires that this, long dead office, should be revived.

I would answer that it died out as others, uncloistered sisters, rose to fill most of the service roles and the form of baptism changed enough that a woman is not necessary to help protect the modesty of the women being baptized. Because of that I would answer that nothing has changed that requires that this dead office of deaconess be revived.

Seems most who want it back wish to distort history and use it as a back door to have priestesses in the Church.

On another note. As a religious and future member of the clergy (God willing) I believe that we, religious and clergy, as the visible face of the Church must speak what the Church actually Teaches in public. We can have our own opinions but we must not share those publicly in place of what the Church Teaches. We can share that privately with those who know us as long as we make it known that those are our opinions when they differ from Church Teaching.

We do a disservice to Christ when we do otherwise.
 
As long as I enjoy the confidence of my superiors and my students and Cardinal Grochloeweski I shall stay where I am. Perhaps you when you get round to doing your research you too will discover the evidence that the early church had its female deacons whether you as an individual like to accept this fact or not and as regards me being a cowboy priest well all I need to get is “the gear.” 40 years as a priest and 22 as a missionary has though me that ignorance is bliss for a lot of people and why should I change that fact. Fr Anthony
 
As long as I enjoy the confidence of my superiors and my students and Cardinal Grochloeweski I shall stay where I am. Perhaps you when you get round to doing your research you too will discover the evidence that the early church had its female deacons whether you as an individual like to accept this fact or not and as regards me being a cowboy priest well all I need to get is “the gear.” 40 years as a priest and 22 as a missionary has though me that ignorance is bliss for a lot of people and why should I change that fact. Fr Anthony
I have done enough research to know that a deaconess was not a deacon no matter what modern “scholars” wish it was so.

This also illustrates an issue here at CAF. Any one can claim to be anything because over all this is an anonymous forum. CAF does nothing to confirm who a user claims to be.
 
As long as I enjoy the confidence of my superiors and my students and Cardinal Grochloeweski I shall stay where I am. Perhaps you when you get round to doing your research you too will discover the evidence that the early church had its female deacons whether you as an individual like to accept this fact or not and as regards me being a cowboy priest well all I need to get is “the gear.” 40 years as a priest and 22 as a missionary has though me that ignorance is bliss for a lot of people and why should I change that fact. Fr Anthony
Zenon Cardinal Grocholewski is an excellent canon lawyer. With all due respects, Father, I doubt that the Cardinal would appreciate it if a priest who runs one of his seminaries makes public statements that are in conflict with the Holy See. As clerics and religious we certainly have a right to our opinions about the past and the present. We have a right to wish for some things to be different in the future. But as obedient men, we have a responsibility to the laity, not to confuse them with our own thinking on matters to which the Holy See has responded. We have an obligation to be faithful and to represent what the Church teaches about herself today.

I would ask you to refrain from making statements that are in conflict with current Church teachings and disciplines. Those are best left for the classroom I too teach theology and have many opinions. However, I do not share every one of those opinions with the laity on CAF. Why not? Because they are my opinions, not the teaching of the Church. I have an obligation, as a theologian and teacher to teach from the Church’s heart, not my head.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Dear Rev Brother J. You are quite right of course and i consider myself well and truly told off . You have not judged me and i respect you for that .H E Zenon Cardinal Grocholewski is indeed a great Cardinal and we have met many times.😛 He is aware of my Irish banter but i guess he can see the priest that i strive to be and the human person i am. I only run a dept in the seminary but I must be careful especially when their is conclaves or is it converts around. Kind Regards Fr Anthony
 
As long as I enjoy the confidence of my superiors and my students and Cardinal Grochloeweski I shall stay where I am. Perhaps you when you get round to doing your research you too will discover the evidence that the early church had its female deacons whether you as an individual like to accept this fact or not and as regards me being a cowboy priest well all I need to get is “the gear.” 40 years as a priest and 22 as a missionary has though me that ignorance is bliss for a lot of people and why should I change that fact. Fr Anthony
I’ve studies scripture for 33 years now and have also engaged in reading as much of the available ancient church fathers as anyone and will continue this formation as seek the diaconate as well. I have a vested interest in this in that I want to make sure I know the historical facts without the inccrrect conjectures that seem to ooze from your generation of clerics. I’ve heard time and time again from seminarians, deacons and priests that your’s, unfortunately, is the “Lost Generation”. The Church failed you and my generatation miserably and we are paying the price for it now with all of the worldly concepts corrupted by sin. I was a serious fundamentalist bible thumper for most of my adult life and childhood life. I was baptized at St. Cecilea’s in San Antonio, while my father was stationed at Kelly AFB. Mom hated Catholics and the Catholic Church for what she believed it was. I didn’t move to live with my Father, gone all the time, until I was12, I had already been properly proselytized enough to begin my Catholic formation in the wrong direction. It took many years of ongoing study to realize the reason for the misdirection. It would seem that you and maybe others here do not know what it’s like to truly own your faith and discover the reason things are the way they are without placing your own “SPIN” as they say on it. If the Church Authority were ever able to prove without a doubt that female deacons, not deaconesses, were in fact validly in existence, I would submit to it. The deaconess issue is really a read herring on this subject of married priests. Further, I apologize if I sound indignant towards you, but in my faith formation we never backed down from heresy no matter who it came from. We would gladly tell a priest he was headed to hell for teaching lies, we went to apartment complexes to save the lost poor pagan Catholics, Baptist, Methodist, or whoever the “Lord led us too”. It took a whole lot of study to come to realize truth from that position in my life. I had to overcome massive barriers, especially why women are allowed up on the altar at all. So I did much research to work through it. I’m convinced that your generation of liberal minded folks that bought into false or wrong theology are the reason for the condition of the Church today in the Western World. Culpability may not be high, but I personally believe you folks knew better and bought into it out of pure selfishness. I don’t have enough time or space to elaborate on the matter but please listen to Br. JR, OSF about keeping your opinions on this matter to yourself so that you do not cause further scandal on those that are confused. I know I’m not and for you to continue in this direction reveals to me that you need to start over from the beginning and to look into what and who taught you theology. Look into the core problem of what you learned and why it just can’t be so. I think you need to be reminded that theology that contradicts Church teaching is not correct theology at all. It must be in line with the teachings of the Church or it is simply heresy, plain and simple.

BTW: I’m not upset, just trying to convey a message to someone that I believe to be educated, even if it is twisted on some levels. Personally, I would love to see a married priesthood return to the fold so to speak. Not just in the eastern Church rites. We married folk could use some priests that have to engage in true day to day living. There’s a saying in the Army that goes like this, but modified, “Life’s a _____ and then you die”. Life is truly difficult when family has to depend on parents that have to live in the world to provide for needy, hungry, sometimes stinky, crying, etc. children. It give us a really good idea in some way how God must view us. Love is the Will. We must Will to love in spite of all the difficulty life brings out way. In some ways the Vocation of Marriage is much higher than the Ordination. We can lose our jobs that provide for the family. Priests, though poorly paid, have 3 hots and a cot as we say in the military. You have all that you need and then some. I’ll continue to pray for you and hope you pray for me and my domestic church. Please pray for my vocation to the diaconate as well. I will continue to study over the next 5 to 7 years in order to reach the point where I can be ordained. So I have a long way to go. Just don’t get upset if people call you out and disagree with you on your opinions.

PAX. Gotta clean the house before the other half of my vocation hits me over the head for even bothering with this thread. 😃 We’re starting “Why Catholic?” tomorrow night in our home.
 
Like i said Brother J. Converts are the difficult ones. Like boiled eggs you should leave them a little longer in the pan before the become mellow!!! Now i am off to Rome for a month and when i come back i hope you are all suitably converted. Fr Anthony
 
…I want to make sure I know the historical facts without the inccrrect conjectures that seem to ooze from your generation of clerics. I’ve heard time and time again from seminarians, deacons and priests that your’s, unfortunately, is the “Lost Generation”. The Church failed you and my generatation miserably and we are paying the price for it now…
I think that this was uncalled for and I had thought you were above this sort of thing. If you become a deacon with an attitude like that the church will be all the worse for it.

You “paint with a very broad brush” and put this prejudice down in public on the shoulders of one man to bear. His graciousness in the face of your insults is astonishing and shows what restraint a man serving a largely ungrateful and self-serving public for so many years can cultivate.

You owe a priest, actually a whole generation of faithful servants of God who daily stood in the flame for you, and kept the church alive… a heartfelt apology.

God help you.

Michael
 
Miaachel,
Being above or below is never my intention. Being forthcoming is. I’re only repeating what I’ve been told as someone else’ method of communicating a message. You put far too much emphasis on the statement “lost generation”. It means that they were led astray by many in the Church, not that the Church is repsonsible for their failture to see the light, so to speak. Don’t place so much emphasis on hyperbola or whatever you wish to call it. Everyone and I do mean everyone makes their points from time to time by using this method of speak to convey the message. Stooping, I’m not condemning the man, and calling me a convert is merely his use of hyperbola. I’m technically NOT a convert anymore than Fr. Anthony or Pope Benedict, for that matter. Why? Because we are ALL converts. It’s like saying I’m saved, I’m being saved and I hope to be saved. Something like that. Placing so much emphasis on a written, and frankly overly valued forum, is just not correct thinking. This kind of forum is strongly against my Bishop’s recommendation. So I’m already stepping over line and against his adviced by just reading this site. It’s NOT the place I go or orthodoxy. I go to the Vatican and USCCB websites for what I need to know.

Further, the idea of “Lost Generation” is not apparently as widespread as I believed it to be. It’s like when we say the Novus Ordo is now the Ordo and the TML is now the extraordinary mass. Or maybe even better or more similar is using terms like “Me Generation” or “X Generation”. And something I can relate to more is “Protestant”. That is even a broader paint brush stroke, using your own terms. You upset because I spoke frankly and seem to be calling him “Lost”. That’s not what I am saying or doing. Don’t place meaning where meaning is not meant or conveyed. And as you said yourself you thought this was beneath me. I thought that conveying a heterodox non-existent tradition by hoping for women priest was what you should have stood up against. Sometimes I do wish we’d go back to the early church methods of dealing with this kind of heresy. But I’m talking about the use of words. If we did live in those times, men like me my already be priests and working on trying to keep the Church going straight. But if you heard the way I actually speak to people,most of the time I am as gentle as a lamb and other days I scare people, not because I’m being mean, but tired and cranky.

About a week ago my wife was having one of her moments. She asked me to call my frien form the seminary, a priest. So I did, talked a bit and asked is he minded talking to my wife after telling him what was happening, mainly to give her someone to lean on besides me. She was wigging out over something that converts recently did to us, our childrene mainly. I loved the distancing act by useing “converts’ as if it were a dirty word, by the way. This is an underhanded way of saying “you don’t know anything”. I’d like him to say that to Scott Hahn” or some other very orthodox convert that could make him feel 2 inches high for even trying that number. And then skipping off to Rome like a prodigal spoiled child bent on showing off. A lot of priest frankly are spoiled and need to be reeled in to reality. That’s why I firmly believe we need more married priests. They’re men, not little gods or SAINTS, they’re flawed men with weaknesses the same as ours. Further, I lived among seminarians and was privy to living among and seing the inside of the life of priests and monks. What I discovered there deeply disturbed me and I’m just not going to go into it for now - especially on this website. It hurst to recall what I remember growing up, NOTE: not the language used by a convert. I saw what many in the laity refused to admit openly was a deeply rooted problem. I’m not sure what the solution is, but I do have hopes that a married clergy would help build better bridges. Deacons are basically super altar servers. …I’m just wasting time now. Have to get ready for work. But please leave knowing that I am not out to get anyone or any generation of people. And as far as becoming a deacon, that yet remains to unfold. If I have kinks that need to be worked out, then God will help me work them out. The same is true for the generation of Catholics I’m speaking about. I know far too many Catholic priests that left the priesthood because of scandal. This isn’t new to the Church. But we do need to be on watch for it and when one of them openly says heretical things that are not in line with Church teaching then they must be corrected, just like they correct us. In a few recent situations, when I was trying to understand things a priest would publically embarrass me to correct me. He did it repeatedly as if for some reason he disliked me so much that he felt compelled to handle it this way. I was trying, I assume in charity, to not confuse the long time Catholics of the generation I referred to with someone else’ words as “Lost Gneration”. These folks should know a 100 times more than me and seem to know about as much as my 14 year old son, sometimes my 8 year old. What really gets me is that some of them are highly educated and have professional jobs. Think about these things a few weeks and then come back to this tread and speak your peace. You’re welcome to PM me for clarification. I’d be happy to attempt to clarify anything thing I say. Sometimes my words deceive me and I have to revamp them. I’m a technical idiot - engineer. So math is my first language. I think I should have been an ESL student growing up. Oh, in case you don’t know English as a Second Language - ESL. I always make fun of myself too and joke around because I’m facinated by how serious we take outselves and don’t realize the silly ways we still say things that someone just one day accepted as meaning what we really meant to say. I guess I need to learn that skill better, which is the real reason I’m typing her…trying to convey my thoughts better than what I’m doing. Tone, mood, etc. difficult for me to convey sometimes. Other days I believe it’s peoples lack of good reading skills putting all of this noise in perspective. No. CAF is not an orthodox forum I’m afraid to admit, but it does provide an outlet for many of us who’d otherwise never ask or say a thing about what’s on our minds.
 
Miaachel,
Being above or below is never my intention. Being forthcoming is. I’re only repeating what I’ve been told as someone else’ method of communicating a message. You put far too much emphasis on the statement “lost generation”. It means that they were led astray by many in the Church, not that the Church is repsonsible for their failture to see the light, so to speak. Don’t place so much emphasis on hyperbola or whatever you wish to call it. Everyone and I do mean everyone makes their points from time to time by using this method of speak to convey the message. Stooping, I’m not condemning the man, and calling me a convert is merely his use of hyperbola. I’m technically NOT a convert anymore than Fr. Anthony or Pope Benedict, for that matter. Why? Because we are ALL converts. It’s like saying I’m saved, I’m being saved and I hope to be saved. Something like that. Placing so much emphasis on a written, and frankly overly valued forum, is just not correct thinking. This kind of forum is strongly against my Bishop’s recommendation. So I’m already stepping over line and against his adviced by just reading this site. It’s NOT the place I go or orthodoxy. I go to the Vatican and USCCB websites for what I need to know.

Further, the idea of “Lost Generation” is not apparently as widespread as I believed it to be. It’s like when we say the Novus Ordo is now the Ordo and the TML is now the extraordinary mass. Or maybe even better or more similar is using terms like “Me Generation” or “X Generation”. And something I can relate to more is “Protestant”. That is even a broader paint brush stroke, using your own terms. You upset because I spoke frankly and seem to be calling him “Lost”. That’s not what I am saying or doing. Don’t place meaning where meaning is not meant or conveyed. And as you said yourself you thought this was beneath me. I thought that conveying a heterodox non-existent tradition by hoping for women priest was what you should have stood up against. Sometimes I do wish we’d go back to the early church methods of dealing with this kind of heresy. But I’m talking about the use of words. If we did live in those times, men like me my already be priests and working on trying to keep the Church going straight. But if you heard the way I actually speak to people,most of the time I am as gentle as a lamb and other days I scare people, not because I’m being mean, but tired and cranky.

About a week ago my wife was having one of her moments. She asked me to call my frien form the seminary, a priest. So I did, talked a bit and asked is he minded talking to my wife after telling him what was happening, mainly to give her someone to lean on besides me. She was wigging out over something that converts recently did to us, our childrene mainly. I loved the distancing act by useing “converts’ as if it were a dirty word, by the way. This is an underhanded way of saying “you don’t know anything”. I’d like him to say that to Scott Hahn” or some other very orthodox convert that could make him feel 2 inches high for even trying that number. And then skipping off to Rome like a prodigal spoiled child bent on showing off. A lot of priest frankly are spoiled and need to be reeled in to reality. That’s why I firmly believe we need more married priests. They’re men, not little gods or SAINTS, they’re flawed men with weaknesses the same as ours. Further, I lived among seminarians and was privy to living among and seing the inside of the life of priests and monks. What I discovered there deeply disturbed me and I’m just not going to go into it for now - especially on this website. It hurst to recall what I remember growing up, NOTE: not the language used by a convert. I saw what many in the laity refused to admit openly was a deeply rooted problem. I’m not sure what the solution is, but I do have hopes that a married clergy would help build better bridges. Deacons are basically super altar servers. …I’m just wasting time now. Have to get ready for work. But please leave knowing that I am not out to get anyone or any generation of people. And as far as becoming a deacon, that yet remains to unfold. If I have kinks that need to be worked out, then God will help me work them out. The same is true for the generation of Catholics I’m speaking about. I know far too many Catholic priests that left the priesthood because of scandal. This isn’t new to the Church. But we do need to be on watch for it and when one of them openly says heretical things that are not in line with Church teaching then they must be corrected, just like they correct us. In a few recent situations, when I was trying to understand things a priest would publically embarrass me to correct me. He did it repeatedly as if for some reason he disliked me so much that he felt compelled to handle it this way. I was trying, I assume in charity, to not confuse the long time Catholics of the generation I referred to with someone else’ words as “Lost Gneration”. These folks should know a 100 times more than me and seem to know about as much as my 14 year old son, sometimes my 8 year old. What really gets me is that some of them are highly educated and have professional jobs. Think about these things a few weeks and then come back to this tread and speak your peace. You’re welcome to PM me for clarification. I’d be happy to attempt to clarify anything thing I say. Sometimes my words deceive me and I have to revamp them. I’m a technical idiot - engineer. So math is my first language. I think I should have been an ESL student growing up. Oh, in case you don’t know English as a Second Language - ESL. I always make fun of myself too and joke around because I’m facinated by how serious we take outselves and don’t realize the silly ways we still say things that someone just one day accepted as meaning what we really meant to say. I guess I need to learn that skill better, which is the real reason I’m typing her…trying to convey my thoughts better than what I’m doing. Tone, mood, etc. difficult for me to convey sometimes. Other days I believe it’s peoples lack of good reading skills putting all of this noise in perspective. No. CAF is not an orthodox forum I’m afraid to admit, but it does provide an outlet for many of us who’d otherwise never ask or say a thing about what’s on our minds.
If I may interject here. Father had already responded to my comments and had accepted that he needed to be careful with sharing his own thoughts and ideas, since he is a priest and a theologian. It would have been best to leave it at that and not post another “correction” after he had already accepted one. This is where everything went down the tubes.

When a person accepts a correction, we don’t come back with more corrections. That just raises the issue all over again, when it has been settled.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Now that we have all thoroughly ventured down that rabbit hole…

In the most recent Our Sunday Visitor, one of the columnists had at it about the celibate priesthood.

The thought that struck me (actually, there were several…) was that if you want to emphasize the importance of something, you can make it mandatory. That emphasizes it for those to whom it applies.

However, if you truly want to make something to be important, it has to be important on its “own two legs”; that is, it has to have enough solidity, basis, value or whatever you may choose to insert that people can give it that importance by observation.

If celibacy has value (and I feel that it has high sign value), then it should be able to stand up on its own. It does so among professed religious - brothers, monks, nuns, sisters, etc. None of them have the issue of priesthood intruding upon their choice; they make the choice to live a celibate life irrespective of priesthood (and obviously for women, that never comes into consideration).

I suspect that over-riding the whole issue of celibacy in the Roman rite priesthood is a fear, back somewhere, that if celibacy were not mandatory, few or none would be celibate. I say that in part because the theology seems to be in part a reverse; a question in search of a theological justification, rather than the reverse; and to back that I would point out that our Eastern rite brethern don’t even seem to come into the calculation (or theological explanation, if you will); the theological explanation either makes married Eastern rite priests a poor second best, or ignores their existence entirely.

And given that there seem to be groups with a different agenda (among them, those that propose women’s ordination), it may be that is all Rome hears. Sadly, one can find oneself lumped together with them when one is simply questioning why it is perfectly fine for Eastern rite married men to be ordained, and Protestant married men to be ordained, but not Roman rite Catholic men to be.

And given that any spouse would have to also agree to the ordination, I don’t suspect there would be a rush; not all women seek to be the “pastor’s wife”. That in itself would be limiting.
 
I’m posting on a separate block, because I don’t want to delete what OTJM wrote, just to make room for my comments.

I don’t have a horse in this race, because I belong to a religious order. Even if married men could become priests, they cannot become religious and I’m a religious. I think I can speak about this without having an agenda of my own.

Celibacy has always been a prized posession of the Church, both in the east and the west. Let’s not assume that every Eastern Catholic or Orthodox is married. Many are not. And they are not religious. They are secular priests who live celibate lives. They do not belong to any religious order. Even the Eastern Churches and the Eastern Fathers have praised the value of celibacy for the sake of the Kingdom. Celibacy dates back to the time of the apostles. We know for a fact that Paul, John the Baptist and John the Evangelist were celibate. Pual and John the Evangelist were not religious. John the Baptist was a hermit, probably a member of the group that later evolved into the Carmelites. But we’re not sure. But he lived a consecrated life. That’s my point.

Paul did push celibacy in the early Church. John doesn’t mention it. But Paul also pushes marriage for those who can’t contain themselves as celibate men or women. The discipline of celibacy, as we can see from John the Baptist and is followers, predates Jesus Christ. Celibacy was handed down to us by our Jewish forefathers. It has always been part of salvation history. We see Mary and Joseph living within a celibate marriage. If we’re looking for the importance to celibacy, it lies in the Judeo-Christian tradition. It was always highly preferred as a sign of complete surrender to the work of God. In religious orders it takes on a new character. Not only is it a sign of a surrender to the work of God, but as Paul speaks, it is a consecration of one’s life, regardless of what work one does. There is the difference in celibacy between a secular man or woman and celibacy in a religious man or woman. The religious person’s life is consecrated to Christ. Therefore, he or she espouses Christ. So that celibacy is really the absence of a human spouse, because the human spouse is replaced by the Divine spouse, for both male and female relgious: brothers and sisters. Priests who belong to religious communities that make a vow of chastity are really religious brothers who happen to be ordained. Women religious cannot be ordained for obvious reasons.

As to secular priests, the Church in the west took its cue from the ancient tradtion. By the time that celibacy is fully integrated into the law of the Church for secular men who want to be priests, it was already in practice by many secular men. What the western Church did was to make a discipline out of what was already in practice. She made this discipline applicable to all members of the western secular clergy. Remember, she was only speaking to seculars, not to religious. They already had solemn vows of chastity.

In other words, the Church took an existing tradition that had been handed down to us from Judaism, through Mary, through Christ, and throug the apostles and made it law. The Church believed that this was a way to achieve salvation, not for the community, but for the priest and bishop. The reason that it became a discipline in the Roman Church was as a means to help priests secure their salvation just as those who came before them had done.

This does not cast any shadows on the married priests in the Eastern Churches, because the Eastern Churches also promote celibacy as a means to achieve salvation. The difference is that they do not mandate it. One can raise the question, should the Western Churches continue to mandate it? But it is important to know where it came from and what the Church’s goal was before one begins to throw stones.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
I’m posting on a separate block, because I don’t want to delete what OTJM wrote, just to make room for my comments.

I don’t have a horse in this race, because I belong to a religious order. Even if married men could become priests, they cannot become religious and I’m a religious. I think I can speak about this without having an agenda of my own.

Celibacy has always been a prized posession of the Church, both in the east and the west. Let’s not assume that every Eastern Catholic or Orthodox is married. Many are not. And they are not religious. They are secular priests who live celibate lives. They do not belong to any religious order. Even the Eastern Churches and the Eastern Fathers have praised the value of celibacy for the sake of the Kingdom. Celibacy dates back to the time of the apostles. We know for a fact that Paul, John the Baptist and John the Evangelist were celibate. Pual and John the Evangelist were not religious. John the Baptist was a hermit, probably a member of the group that later evolved into the Carmelites. But we’re not sure. But he lived a consecrated life. That’s my point.

Paul did push celibacy in the early Church. John doesn’t mention it. But Paul also pushes marriage for those who can’t contain themselves as celibate men or women. The discipline of celibacy, as we can see from John the Baptist and is followers, predates Jesus Christ. Celibacy was handed down to us by our Jewish forefathers. It has always been part of salvation history. We see Mary and Joseph living within a celibate marriage. If we’re looking for the importance to celibacy, it lies in the Judeo-Christian tradition. It was always highly preferred as a sign of complete surrender to the work of God. In religious orders it takes on a new character. Not only is it a sign of a surrender to the work of God, but as Paul speaks, it is a consecration of one’s life, regardless of what work one does. There is the difference in celibacy between a secular man or woman and celibacy in a religious man or woman. The religious person’s life is consecrated to Christ. Therefore, he or she espouses Christ. So that celibacy is really the absence of a human spouse, because the human spouse is replaced by the Divine spouse, for both male and female relgious: brothers and sisters. Priests who belong to religious communities that make a vow of chastity are really religious brothers who happen to be ordained. Women religious cannot be ordained for obvious reasons.

As to secular priests, the Church in the west took its cue from the ancient tradtion. By the time that celibacy is fully integrated into the law of the Church for secular men who want to be priests, it was already in practice by many secular men. What the western Church did was to make a discipline out of what was already in practice. She made this discipline applicable to all members of the western secular clergy. Remember, she was only speaking to seculars, not to religious. They already had solemn vows of chastity.

In other words, the Church took an existing tradition that had been handed down to us from Judaism, through Mary, through Christ, and throug the apostles and made it law. The Church believed that this was a way to achieve salvation, not for the community, but for the priest and bishop. The reason that it became a discipline in the Roman Church was as a means to help priests secure their salvation just as those who came before them had done.

This does not cast any shadows on the married priests in the Eastern Churches, because the Eastern Churches also promote celibacy as a means to achieve salvation. The difference is that they do not mandate it. One can raise the question, should the Western Churches continue to mandate it? But it is important to know where it came from and what the Church’s goal was before one begins to throw stones.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
I am aware of the background, and for those who are not familiar with it, you did a good job of laying it out.

It also helps to remember that some of Paul’s writings are of an eschatological bent; later he seemed to realize that paruosia was not necessarily next week or next month.

Again, I am not anti-celibacy in any way. And of course I am only speaking of diocesan priests. Nor do I suggest that the Eastern rites are over-run by married priests. And likewise, I would not expect the Roman rite to be over-run.

Part of the editorial I mentioned had to do with the fact that during ordination to the transitional deaconate, the candidate is asked if he freely accepts celibacy. I almost spewed my coffee over the paper; of course he does. I sincerely doubt many candidates in the last several hundred years have had a gun held to their head over the issue!

And there is a vast difference between freely accepting (as in, no coercion) celibacy and accepting celibacy as a mandated condition to being ordained. The latter may be willingly accepted, as in, one makes an act of the will to accept it (which is probably more “wilfully” than willingly), but there has been not a few priests who, for all appearances did not have the gift.

Now we can spiral into all sorts of arguments that they had the gift but didn’t accept it. That borders on something similar to deus ex machina, farther than I want to go on issues of free will and the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
 
I am aware of the background, and for those who are not familiar with it, you did a good job of laying it out.

It also helps to remember that some of Paul’s writings are of an eschatological bent; later he seemed to realize that paruosia was not necessarily next week or next month.

Again, I am not anti-celibacy in any way. And of course I am only speaking of diocesan priests. Nor do I suggest that the Eastern rites are over-run by married priests. And likewise, I would not expect the Roman rite to be over-run.

Part of the editorial I mentioned had to do with the fact that during ordination to the transitional deaconate, the candidate is asked if he freely accepts celibacy. I almost spewed my coffee over the paper; of course he does. I sincerely doubt many candidates in the last several hundred years have had a gun held to their head over the issue!

And there is a vast difference between freely accepting (as in, no coercion) celibacy and accepting celibacy as a mandated condition to being ordained. The latter may be willingly accepted, as in, one makes an act of the will to accept it (which is probably more “wilfully” than willingly), but there has been not a few priests who, for all appearances did not have the gift.

Now we can spiral into all sorts of arguments that they had the gift but didn’t accept it. That borders on something similar to deus ex machina, farther than I want to go on issues of free will and the guidance of the Holy Spirit.
Actually, I was not addressing you. I did not want to piggy back on your post, because it was very good and I would have had to cut it so I could get my 2 cents in.

There was one funny point that you made about your coffee. The reason that the question is asked at the ordiantion of a secular deacon is that canon law requires that the candidate make a public statement to the Church that he accepts celibacy and promises to live by it.

When we make solemn vows, at the end of our formation period, we have to write a letter, with no computer, in our own writing, saying that we are freely choosing to make solemn vows for the sole reason of the salvation of our souls. If the letter says that we are joining the community to serve or to save souls or some other good deed, we are rejected and not allowed to make solemn vows. The only acceptable reason for making solemn vows if for the salvation of your soul. This is done, because the candidate for vows must declare before the universal Church the primacy of his soul and his salvation and declare that only in religious life can he save his soul. Other people can save their souls in other forms of life, but the religious in solemn vows, can only save his soul in this particular state and he or she must say so before the Church. These are ancient customs based on very ancient teachings and practices.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
Public Apology. Sorry if I went down the “rabbit hole”.:rotfl:I guess I should have read before writing. If you gave me an opportunity to argue about the sky being blue are purple I’d probably jump on the green side. And I do believe I got bent over something like my father would. He was very Traditional Catholic. I have tendencies to be so myself. So anything out of the norm gets me bent. My wife would abandon this faith if these kinds of things happened, so part of me is trying to hold this world together for her. She loves the celibate priesthood which is very new to her. She argues against my thoughts and feeling about a married priesthood, which I am not largely for but would like to see more - but maybe for the wrong reasons. I prefer celibate religious like our pastor. To me a priest that doesn’t make a real sacrifice is not making much of a sacrifice. I knew priests that were very wealthy.
 
More than half of the priests in the Latin Rite Church are not religious. They are secular men. They do not make vows of chastity, poverty or obedience. Only religioius make this vows. Secular priests, also known as diocesan priests, make a promise of obedience to their bishop, but they have no rule that they follow or a community to whom they are accountable, as is the case with religious. They also do not make a vow of celibacy. They make a promise of celibacy. This means that they promise not to marry, but they do not commit to a new religious family that replaces their biological family, as is the case with religious. Finally, they make no vow of poverty. They may own property, inherit money, make money on the market, own anything they can afford, unlike religious who may not make money, inherit money and may not own anything.

Fraternally,

Br. JR, OSF 🙂
 
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