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SecretGarden
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Dear friends,
This is the final section. Please note that I am coming in peace. I took a few days to write and draft these points. Many people made various comments to my original post and to save time, I wanted to comment on them as something general without attacking anyone’s point of view. If anything thinks I have been harsh please accept my apology. Since this is a public forum, we have the right to be honest and share our ideas in a civil God following manner. Below are my last two points.
Peace,
SG
Did you really not know that the Catholic Church no way, no how supports ordination of women before you entered the Church, or did you stay quiet about it so you could become Catholic?
That is an attack on my character because you do not know my story. The fact that I support women ordination should not be attacked. My opinions should at least be respected because I am not alone with this idea. I admit I am new, plus I grew up with two amazing women ministers so my point of view is more broad than those who grew up inside the church. I am allowed to have my opinions. That is my right! For the record, my spiritual directors were aware of my struggles, it was through deep intense discerning that I became Catholic and no one has the right to question it’s authenticy.
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There are many obvious differences between the sexes. To assume that these differences might not as a rule make men better priests is without warrant. The denominations that have allowed women pastors have not experienced great growth as a result of this supposedly liberating decision. In fact they are all in decline.**
Provide me with examples. I ask because its been my experience that gender does not dictate if a church is growing or dying. There are some Catholic and Pentecostal churches (in Quebec Pentecostal women senior pastors are scarce ) congregations go both ways: some are growing while others are dying. There are other churches who have women ministers which are maintaining and/or whose congregation is also growing. Other factors dictate whether a church is growing include whether or not the church has a welcoming attitude, good location, open to the holy spirit, approachable minister, caring community, programs that encourage church involvement and a strong prayerful structure. I’m sorry gender doesn’t determine a church’s success. If it did, the churches who had only male ministers would be growing and the women’s churches would be dying and closing its doors.
This is the final section. Please note that I am coming in peace. I took a few days to write and draft these points. Many people made various comments to my original post and to save time, I wanted to comment on them as something general without attacking anyone’s point of view. If anything thinks I have been harsh please accept my apology. Since this is a public forum, we have the right to be honest and share our ideas in a civil God following manner. Below are my last two points.
Peace,
SG
Did you really not know that the Catholic Church no way, no how supports ordination of women before you entered the Church, or did you stay quiet about it so you could become Catholic?
That is an attack on my character because you do not know my story. The fact that I support women ordination should not be attacked. My opinions should at least be respected because I am not alone with this idea. I admit I am new, plus I grew up with two amazing women ministers so my point of view is more broad than those who grew up inside the church. I am allowed to have my opinions. That is my right! For the record, my spiritual directors were aware of my struggles, it was through deep intense discerning that I became Catholic and no one has the right to question it’s authenticy.
**
There are many obvious differences between the sexes. To assume that these differences might not as a rule make men better priests is without warrant. The denominations that have allowed women pastors have not experienced great growth as a result of this supposedly liberating decision. In fact they are all in decline.**
Provide me with examples. I ask because its been my experience that gender does not dictate if a church is growing or dying. There are some Catholic and Pentecostal churches (in Quebec Pentecostal women senior pastors are scarce ) congregations go both ways: some are growing while others are dying. There are other churches who have women ministers which are maintaining and/or whose congregation is also growing. Other factors dictate whether a church is growing include whether or not the church has a welcoming attitude, good location, open to the holy spirit, approachable minister, caring community, programs that encourage church involvement and a strong prayerful structure. I’m sorry gender doesn’t determine a church’s success. If it did, the churches who had only male ministers would be growing and the women’s churches would be dying and closing its doors.