Orthodox Unchanged?

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Just a small point. NFP is about knowing when you are fertile and using that knowledge to either attain pregnancy or avoid it. Artificial contraception is ONLY about preventing. In reality there is a huge difference. It is the same difference as murder is to killing someone in self defense. It is the intent of what is done.
Certainly NFP can be used to that mean, but the contraceptive aspect of NFP is no different than artificial methods, because it shares the same purpose and intent.

Murder and self-defense have completely different intents (in the former, one wishes harm to the other, while the latter aims a self-preservation), so the analogy does not fit.
 
The idea of “specifically” excluded is your own invention. My conclusion is based on the time-line: when did St Gregory write these words? when was a church remarriage after divorce permitted in the EOC?
The Church has always permitted divorce on certain grounds, so it follows that remarriage would be condoned in light of the fact that the first was dissolved.

You assert that St. Gregory is not speaking of divorced marriages, and I asked you substantiate that claim. He makes no mention to the nature of the second marriage, only that the second one is condoned.
 
Icons are very strictly scripted, because they are meant to be a depiction of Orthodox teaching. Whoever created this one put in a number of items - not just the Pope but Martin Luther and others - that are not in the script. This is not something that is looked upon indulgently, it is a bit like changing Scripture slightly to advance one’s own theological views.

Are you sure it was this precise icon? This is a version of one that is a real icon, but without the additions? Mind you it wouldn’t surprise me, but if the fellow had this on his wall it certainly tells something personal about his views rather than what the OC teaches.
It is an Orthodox icon (I actually own one myself). While it certainly isn’t “politically correct”, the practice of depicting those opposed to Orthodoxy is not unheard of. For example, go look at the icons of the Ecumenical Councils. They very often depict Arius, Nestorius, Dioscorus, Eutyches, etc. in a rather unsavory light.
 
You appeal to logic does not change actual facts.
Then correct my understanding. You begin with the assumption that St. Gregory excluded divorced persons from the possibility of remarriage, yet you provide no patristic evidence to back this claim. In other words, you are reading modern Roman Catholic moral theology into the writings of the fathers without grounds for it.
 
No, I don’t think you have set up the problem correctly. What you have is a couple who for some good reason is not able to accept the possibility of bearing children; but they are also unable to manage abstinence because of their own weakness. Maybe it will lead to serious marital discord, or other forms of sexual sin, or whatever.

So the Orthodox couple may be given permission to use some other type of birth control while of course they also try to grow more spiritually able to do better. They are of course fasting and so on, probably also from sex at times, to try and achieve this.

The Catholic couple, OTOH, are forbidden to use artificial methods, but allowed to use NFP which includes abstinence but is somewhat less effective at preventing pregnancy. Use of NFP is at their own discretion. They will probably use ABC in any case however and there is a good chance their priest will not mind.
I see this differently. To my mind, the great difference is that the Orthodox couple receive permission from their priest (spiritual director) to use a technical method (condom, non-abortive birth control drug, surgical sterilization such as vasectomy) in order to frustrate the consequences of sex while having sex with each other, but the Catholic couple never receive such permission from their Catholic priest. The Catholic couple are free to abstain (fast from sexual activity), but that’s it. They are not free to have sex while simultaneously frustrating the normal physiological consequences of sex through such methods as barriers, condoms, birth control drugs, or surgical sterilization of the spouses, because they never received permission from the Catholic Church to do so.

Now regarding the suggestion that “They [Catholics] will probably use ABC in any case however and there is a good chance their priest will not mind.”, this might be true for disobedient Catholics and disobedient priests who, sadly, are bound to hell and eternal damnation, just as there have been Catholic priests who sexually molested boys, and baptized Catholics who committed robbery, murder, abortion, and other grievous sins. The Catholic Church teaching the correct path to salvation is not a guarantee that all Catholics will listen and follow obediently, and occasionally we might even encounter some shepherds who are wolves in sheep’s clothing. That doesn’t take away from the essential role of the Catholic Church: point out the correct road to salvation, for such folks who want to listen and obey. Similarly, we had Judas the traitor among the 12 Apostles, but that didn’t negate the role of the primitive Church set up by Jesus Christ to serve as the Ark of Salvation, not for everyone, but again, for those willing to listen and obey.
 
Then correct my understanding. You begin with the assumption that St. Gregory excluded divorced persons from the possibility of remarriage, yet you provide no patristic evidence to back this claim. In other words, you are reading modern Roman Catholic moral theology into the writings of the fathers without grounds for it.
I have pointed out your misunderstanding. now do your own homework. The issue here has not a blessed thing to do with Roman Catholic moral theology. Rather it is your lack of knowledge of history of actual Orthodox practice - however you might like to proof-text the fathers. You assume far too much about me, and reflect far too little on your own thinking.
 
If you don’t mind me asking, where in the world did you hear the Orthodox approve of surgical sterilization for those wishing to avoid conception?
There was a lady from California on this forum, attending the Greek EOC. She posted the story of her friend, who was a mother of 8 children, and has been warned by doctors that her next pregnancy could cost her her life. The spiritual director of the couple gave his blessing to the husband in this case to obtain surgical sterilization (vasectomy).

At the same time, I knew someone who was a Russian Orthodox attending ROCOR (before ROCOR re-established communion with the Moscow Patriarchate), and ROCOR forbade artificial birth control (pills, condoms). I guess ROCOR would have also forbidden surgical sterilization, if someone asked for that. I have no idea what’s going on now with the reunited ROCOR-MP, who permits/forbids what.

As usual with the various EO Churches, there could be heterogeneity in their discipline as regards artificial birth control and surgical sterilization. I did some research on ABC, and it seems that the majority of EOC allow ABC. ROCOR’s ban on ABC looks like an exception to what the various EOC generally allow. I haven’t done such research on surgical sterilization. I’m open to learning more about who forbids it and who permits it among the EO Churches.
Abstinence is not Roman Catholic teaching.
As I have demonstrated above, NFP is contraceptive in nature, which makes it no different than artificial contraception in both means and purpose.
I guess we will just have to agree to disagree on this subject. 🙂
They recommend abstinence, but they also recommended not getting married and having sex in the first place. Do you understand the concept of oikonomia and its relation to the individual?
I don’t think it makes sense to compare the permission to marry for those who can’t abstain, with the permission to use ABC for those married people who can’t abstain and also don’t want to have children. Marriage is not a sin (see St. Paul in the New Testament and writings by many ECF), whereas ABC and castration (the closest thing to modern surgical methods of sterilization) are invariably condemned by the ECF as grave sins on a par with murder, sins that will damn the souls of the unrepentant to hell.
 
Certainly NFP can be used to that mean, but the contraceptive aspect of NFP is no different than artificial methods, because it shares the same purpose and intent.

Murder and self-defense have completely different intents (in the former, one wishes harm to the other, while the latter aims a self-preservation), so the analogy does not fit.
I disagree. It is not a contraceptive. There is nothing wrong with not having sex. Paul even said it was a good thing. The only wrong intent is never to have children. It is different because the intent is to still be open to life not the case with true contraception.
 
THE SECOND MARRIAGE FOR WIDOWS
Although the Coptic Church does not prefer it, it does not prohibit remarriage. In the Selective Council it is mentioned: “But the second marriage is different from the first. It has certain order of laws, without the blessing of the Matrimony, but rather, a prayer of forgiveness.” Our teacher St. Paul says: “But I say to the unmarried and to the widows. It is good for them if they remain even as I am (unmarried), but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion” (1 Corinthians 7:8-9).
St Ambrose said: “We do not prohibit second marriage, but we do not advise it.”
St Jerome said: “The first Adam married once but the second Adam (Christ) never married.”
The Church forbids the person who remarries, and any children he bears from his second marriage, to join the Priesthood.
St. Gregory the Theologian said: “The first marriage is a law, the second marriage is forgiveness, the third transgression and the fourth is clearly adultery.”
St. Jerome also mentions, “Even the pigeons and doves don’t take another partner if their companions pass away. Remarriage is even rejected by the birds.”
From: copticchurch.net/topics/thecopticchurch/sacraments/6_matrimony.html
Coptic Orthodox Church

What St Gregory was saying refered to widows not divorcees.
 
But the Orthodox do accept that Mary was assumed bodily into Heaven upon her death.
Of course they do.

So much of the Orthodox-Catholic controversy comes down to a failure to understand what each other are trying to accomplish, and a ready willingness to believe the worst rather than give the benefit of the doubt.

I think that the real reason for the dogma of the immaculate conception was not a desire to enshrine Duns Scotus at the expense of the Fathers, or buttress papal supremacy in a dramatic way, as to respond forcefully to those in the west that were not only denying the Blessed Virgin’s sinlessness, but her very existence. Western “scholars” have claimed that the Blessed virgin was a harlot, that she did not say the Magnificat, that she is a fabrication.

The Orthodox occassionally forget that in the west, we have got to deal with barbarians.😃

The pressing concerns of war and domination acted as a check on that kind of heresy in the east.

Sometimes I think that instead of trying to identify where Orthodox and Catholics disagree, it would be more fruitful exploring what we can do for each other.
 
As I have demonstrated above, NFP is contraceptive in nature, which makes it no different than artificial contraception in both means and purpose.
Interestingly, this position is advanced by some “ultra Traditionalist” Catholics. Their conclusion, however, is different: abstinence only for controlling number of children.

In the “what would Reagan do?” vein, what sort of a response would one get, could he or she jump in a time machine and ask St. Nicholas or St. Basil about it?

My guess: the holy men and women of the Church’s past would lose patience with modern people’s sexual expectations muy pronto. “You’re asking my permission to do what once, or more, times a week?!?” They would lay a penance so heavy most of us would be wearing sackcloth for years.

Truth told, Orthodox and Catholics alike are struggling with sexual expression. So many real avenues of expression have been foreclosed by modern life, many people focus on sex as a result.
 
I have pointed out your misunderstanding. now do your own homework. The issue here has not a blessed thing to do with Roman Catholic moral theology. Rather it is your lack of knowledge of history of actual Orthodox practice - however you might like to proof-text the fathers. You assume far too much about me, and reflect far too little on your own thinking.
Homework for what? You have provided no evidence for your claims, only assumptions. Early Church history is riddled with numerous emperors remarrying following divorce. In fact, St. Basil permitted it in the case of adultery.
 

I think that the real reason for the dogma of the immaculate conception was not a desire to enshrine Duns Scotus at the expense of the Fathers, or buttress papal supremacy in a dramatic way, as to respond forcefully to those in the west that were not only denying the Blessed Virgin’s sinlessness, but her very existence. Western “scholars” have claimed that the Blessed virgin was a harlot, that she did not say the Magnificat, that she is a fabrication.
Interesting.

Do you have any references to illustrate this?
The Orthodox occassionally forget that in the west, we have got to deal with barbarians.😃

The pressing concerns of war and domination acted as a check on that kind of heresy in the east.
I think there were more than enough barbarians to go around.
 
There was a lady from California on this forum, attending the Greek EOC. She posted the story of her friend, who was a mother of 8 children, and has been warned by doctors that her next pregnancy could cost her her life. The spiritual director of the couple gave his blessing to the husband in this case to obtain surgical sterilization (vasectomy).

At the same time, I knew someone who was a Russian Orthodox attending ROCOR (before ROCOR re-established communion with the Moscow Patriarchate), and ROCOR forbade artificial birth control (pills, condoms). I guess ROCOR would have also forbidden surgical sterilization, if someone asked for that. I have no idea what’s going on now with the reunited ROCOR-MP, who permits/forbids what.

As usual with the various EO Churches, there could be heterogeneity in their discipline as regards artificial birth control and surgical sterilization. I did some research on ABC, and it seems that the majority of EOC allow ABC. ROCOR’s ban on ABC looks like an exception to what the various EOC generally allow. I haven’t done such research on surgical sterilization. I’m open to learning more about who forbids it and who permits it among the EO Churches.
Passing off the words of a priest as Orthodox teaching is pretty disingenuous. Where I to do likewise with the Roman Catholic Church, I could say with confidence that your church teaches the existence of limbo, the absolute damnation of all not communion with Rome, etc.

Before you ascribe something to Orthodoxy, consult councils and synods (not here say).
I don’t think it makes sense to compare the permission to marry for those who can’t abstain, with the permission to use ABC for those married people who can’t abstain and also don’t want to have children. Marriage is not a sin (see St. Paul in the New Testament and writings by many ECF), whereas ABC and castration (the closest thing to modern surgical methods of sterilization) are invariably condemned by the ECF as grave sins on a par with murder, sins that will damn the souls of the unrepentant to hell.
When the Fathers equated contraception with murder, it was always in reference to “potions” (i.e. abortifacients). Condoms (and the like) are really not comparable.
 
The only wrong intent is never to have children.
And Orthodoxy teaches this exact point. Contraception may not be used for entirely selfish reasons (i.e. the complete exclusion of children).
 
That is from a monophysite website, not an Orthodox one (regardless of their usage of the word). On the subject of the fathers though, St. Basil :

Spouses abandoned without reason are excused, and this pardon means they will be accepted to communion if they remarry”.
What is the Catholic response to this? Was St. Basil wrong?
 
It is an Orthodox icon (I actually own one myself). While it certainly isn’t “politically correct”, the practice of depicting those opposed to Orthodoxy is not unheard of. For example, go look at the icons of the Ecumenical Councils. They very often depict Arius, Nestorius, Dioscorus, Eutyches, etc. in a rather unsavory light.
You realize that it include the Ecumenical Patriarch among the heretics?

It isn’t considered an appropriate icon from what several people have told me. Here is a thread on monachos which mentions it specifically.
 
What is the Catholic response to this? Was St. Basil wrong?
I am not sure what Rome’s response to it is, but it seems to be an accepted teaching within the Melkite Catholic Church, or at least by Archbishop Joseph Raya (who uses it in his book, Crowning: The Christian Marriage). Perhaps some of our Melkite Catholic posters could shed some light on the matter.
 
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