I am not either Orthodox or Catholic but I want to join one of them. I have been reading a lot about them and am not sure what one to join.To be honest I think I am leaning more towards Catholicism. Can someone tell me the differences between the two and why the Catholic way is right? Much appreciated
Reading is a great start. I hope that within your reading you have included a few titles:
THE TRUTH: What Every Roman Catholic Should Know About the Orthodox Church by Clark Carlton (also recommended by the same author: THE LIFE, THE FAITH and THE WAY)
TWO PATHS: Papal Monarchy - Collegial Tradition by Michael Whelton
POPES AND PATRIARCHS: An Orthodox Perspective on Roman Catholic Claims also by Michael Whelton
My hope for you is that you not only read, but also begin attending both Roman Catholic Masses and Eastern Catholic Divine Liturgies as well as Vespers, Orthros (Matins) & Divine Liturgy Services in the Orthodox Church - you can locate a nearby Orthodox parish at:
scoba.us/directory.html.
In the Catholic Church you will find that depending on the parish you attend the Worship Service may be completely different: some only speak in Latin, others in English, some in Spanish, some only in Korean - but not only is the Language itself different, but Liturgy itself is different - Roman Catholic includes at least two different ways, Byzantine Catholic another, Melkite Greek Catholic another, Coptic Catholic another, etc. - the worship and beliefs differ, even in the Creed.
In the Orthodox Church you will find that regardless of which parish you attend,
the Worship Service, the Creed, the beliefs and teachings are all the same. You will find some use to a larger or lesser extend of the original language from which that Church came into the United States from: Greek Orthodox, you’ll hear some Greek, Russian Orthodox, you’ll hear some Russian, in the OCA (Orthodox Church of America) you pretty much only hear English. At my Greek Orthodox Church we have mostly Greek membership, but also African Amercian, East Indians, and plenty of us American Mutts (Scottish, German, Irish, Italin, etc.).
With prayer and study and experience of the Worship Services, your Heart which is the throne of the Most Holy Trinity will lead you to the True Faith. Ask your local Orthodox Priest to recommend you to a Spiritual Father who can direct you in your prayer life (you can also ask your local Catholic Priest to direct you to a Spiritual Director, but in most cases that is simply unavailable to the Catholic Laity). It is also recommended that you take a trip to a Monastery of both Faiths as well. I don’t know of a Catholic on to refer you to, but I would recommend St. Anthony’s in AZ - it will only take time and money to get there as the stay itself is free of cost for up to 10 days.
stanthonysmonastery.org/index.php
A few websites you’ll want for reference:
www.goarch.org
ORTHODOX PATRIARCHATES - AUTOCEPHALOUS AND OTHER CHURCHES
Ecumenical Patriarchate
www.patriarchate.org
Patriarchate of Alexandria
www.greekorthodox-alexandria.org
Patriarchate of Antioch
www.antiochpat.org
Patriarchate of Jerusalem
www.jerusalem-patriarchate.info
Patriarchate of Moscow
www.mospat.ru
Patriarchate of Serbia
www.spc.yu
Patriarchate of Romania
www.patriarhia.ro
Patriarchate of Bulgaria
bulch.tripod.com/boc/
Patriarchate of Georgia
www.patriarchate.ge/
Church of Cyprus
www.churchofcyprus.org.cy
Church of Greece
www.ecclesia.gr
Church of Albania
www.orthodoxalbania.org
Church of Poland
www.orthodox.pl
Church of Czech - Slovakia
www.pravoslav.gts.cz
Church of Finland
www.ort.fi
Church of Estonia
www.orthodoxa.org
CATHOLIC PATRIARCHATES
Roman Catholic
www.vatican.va
Melkite Greek Catholic
pgc-lb.org/english/index.shtml
Ukrainian Catholic ?
Byzantine Catholic ?
Maronite Catholic
bkerkelb.org/
Alexandrian Catholic
Ge’ez Catholic
Malankar Catholic
Syrian Catholic
Chaldean Catholic
I don’t know the names of the rest of the Catholic Churches in union with the Pope of Rome. I am sorry, I could not find all of their websites.
Should you opt to become Catholic rather than Orthodox, you will need to investigate the Catholic Churches 12 different “Particular Churches” to determine which one has the teachings, beliefs, doctrine, Liturgy, etc. that you agree and feel the most comfortable with. Next you will need to reconcile within yourself how is it that these Particular Churches all in union with Rome have so many different Liturgies, teachings and beliefs and you will have to decide for youself why it is alright to be in full communion with these other Particular Churches you decided not to join. (A difficulty you will not have, should you opt to become an Orthodox Christian).