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Z_Ninja
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I don’t ask my siblings about their married sex life. I am concerned with my own. As for my wife and I, I know for sure that I do not purchase any condoms, nor is my wife on any contraceptives. I will say we are a mixed-faith marriage so she is not against the use of contraception. I have, however, expressed my feelings on the matter. I can pretty much know that one of my brothers and his wife either use NFP or do not use any form of child planning and leave it up to God, as I will say they are much more religious than I can say (sadly) for myself.And how sure are you that all eight of you are not using any form of artificial contraception? The most casual glance around Sunday Mass will find few if any double figure families, and I doubt very much this is down the the widespread use of NFP.
This is more than I really need to justify to you. After all this is an internet forum and we do not know each other on any personal level. That being said, you also place plenty of assumptions on many families just because they do not have 10 or more children. The fact of the matter is, if any one is using any form of artificial contraception, that is between them and God. Do you know personally know the families that have less than 10 children and conducted a poll to see if they use artificial contraception? I know society has placed a lot of acceptance on the use of such, even plenty of Catholics who may or may not know any better (possibly poorly catechized) and are okay with using artificial contraception.
I will admit, I knew better, but gave into and used artificial contraception. I think I have since grown wiser. But that remains to be seen. I am still a sinner.