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Jennifer123
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What is responsible about forcing women to have sterilizations? What is responsible about not telling women the truth about contraception and abortive procedures? What is responsible about placing things of a material nature over the dignity and value of human life?And of course (fair warning: if you get offended easily, you’d better stop reading right here), it’s absurd to suggest personal responsibility, to the effect that maybe whatever you beleive is out there has a plan for Earth, but that it doesn’t mean you can chalk everything up to the will of God and just ignore it and do nothing. To me, that’s the last resort of the lazy and uncaring. I make the personal choice not to divulge personal details of what I beleive. But if God put us here, it wasn’t just to sit around and wait for Him to intervene. What would be the point of that?
No, we’re here, no matter what you beleive, with a responsibility to take care of the world. We can’t rely on God or any other leader for absolutely everything. By denying that these things are problems, by saying that every child is planned and sacred (note to certain people: nowhere in here am I advocating abortion) and that we should not encourage people to adopt or have fewer children, or rather an amount of children they can support, and point to God as a reason, is irresponsible. We, right now, have a responsibility to this world. If God was going to handle everything, he, she or it would not have given us free will.
The Church isn’t asking women (and men for that matter) to just fill their wombs every nine months with little Christian soldiers.
But having more than 1.7 (forget 2.5) children is not irresponsible. It is certainly a sacrifice on many levels, but we seem to live in a time when sacrifice is confused with inconvenience.
God gave us free will not so that we could fix our own problems. There is no human being or other diety on this Earth that can fix the smallest of our own individual problems, let alone those that plague humanity as a whole. Free will is a gift that allows us to choose Him without reservation or compulsion. It also allows us to reject Him. It is that rejection that allows evil to exist. Reconcilliation to Him will change the world. We will always have problems, that is the nature of our existance. But only God gives us the ability that doesn’t exist in ourselves, a *supernatural *ability, through grace, to change ourselves and each other.