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Hi everyone,

I am 18 years old, a senior in Catholic HS, I have been Catholic all my life and have grown up in the faith. I consider myself pretty devout. I love God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, The Sacraments, the Church, Mary, all that good stuff with a very open heart ready to love even more! I attend a religion class with a teacher, and I listen to and read a lot of things from Traditional Catholics who do not agree with some of the changes after Vatican II. I agree with them for the most part, I do think that Mass should be the most sanctified, respectful place, and a lot of times in today’s Church it isn’t. It’s just, I have been taught a certian way and I grew up practicing my faith a certian way, and now I’m discovering the Traditional beliefs, and I kind of feel like maybe my education was wrong? I also know that the Holy Father and the Magesterium are guided by the Holy Spirit and anything they come out with about the faith is legit. I know a lot of the things are from individual dioceses, not from the Vatican. I’m just confused. I tend to be scrupulus, and if I hear one person saying that things should be done this way but it’s acceptable to do it the other way too, I feel like I’m not being reverent or even sinning if I don’t do that. I feel overwhelmed. It confuses me, I don’t know what to do.

Can anyone help me?

Thanks!

Jeanne
 
Probably best to get a good spiritual director who can help sort out your thoughts. I’m not Roman Catholic, but I know what it is like when there are many beliefs coming at you from many directions. A spiritual director, or spiritual father, will help put your many views in perspective for your own spiritual life.
 
I agree with the above. Some good spiritual direction is in order…

That said, I don’t think your confusion is particularly uncommon for a person of your age. You are on that threshold of life where you are stepping out from the clear, somewhat sheltered and orderly world of your youth and into the complex and often conflicting world of the adult. Naturally all of this new stimulus is confusing.

Talk to a councilor, or your pastor and see if they can help you or refer you to someone who can.

Peace
James
 
Triple agree on a spiritual mentor…You need someone who you can trust/confide in to give balance(scrupulous) and guidance in your spiritual life…Take it to prayer and talk to your pastor…I am 60 year old man and my mentor( that I run/discuss things ) is a few years younger and an elder in my church…Our faith is not meant for us to be a lone ranger…
 
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