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Yes, a person may have reduced culpability through ignorance or whatever for having gotten a civil divorce and then remarried, BUT
after they learn of the Church’s teaching that every act of sexual intercourse is in fact an act of adultery (since they would be having sex with someone to whom they are not married in the eyes of God and of the Church) - in other words, once they have a properly-formed conscience, which is what the “discernment” and “accompaniment” should be all about - then any act of sexual intercourse from that point on would be a mortal sin, excluding them from Communion without prior sacramental confession. In other words, they have to live as “brother and sister” from that point until death does them part.
Is nobody else seeing this?
That is the perennial teaching of the Church and the explicit, very clear, concise, and inflexible teaching of Saint John Paul II in Familiaris Consortio #84, the Catechism of the Catholic Church #1650, and of Jesus Christ, The Lord, in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9, Mark 10:11-12, and Luke 16:18. Was Our Lord “throwing stones at people” when He gave this teaching? No, He was restoring marriage to the place it had before the Fall, that is, He was giving the Divine Plan for marriage and the family from all eternity, and raising it to the level of a Sacrament. He was giving us the Truth that sets us free, not “lifeless rules” that bind us. He was telling us that marriage is a total gift of self of the husband to the wife and of the wife to the husband, including the fact that marriage can be broken by no earthly power except death. And not only was He telling us about the true nature of marriage as a total gift of self, He was, of course, also requiring it for all who would enter into a sacramental marriage in Him. This is the teaching that St. Thomas More and St. John Fisher lost their heads for at the order of an adulterous King for upholding, along with thousands of the other English Martyrs. To go against Christ’s teaching is to go against the Law of God in a serious manner, which goes by another name: mortal sin.
In footnote #329, living as “brother and sister” in case of divorce and remarriage is described as “a possibility” and something “the Church offers them.” It is neither of those things. It is a requirement if the two people are to remain living together, as is explicitly (as opposed to ambiguously and vaguely) taught by Saint John Paul II and the Catechism in the places given above.
I ran across this wonderful quote yesterday in a piece by Carl E. Olson, quoting a book by Dorothy Sayers:
“Surely it is not the business of the Church to adapt Christ to men, but to adapt men to Christ.”
That says it all.
We need to pray for our Pope. Every day. I do, but to my shame, not every day. But I did today.![]()
I italicized the parts in each post which cause me concern.Was Jesus not showing an example here on how we should approach this?
If my understanding of the document is correct, Pope Francis hasn’t changed any doctrines. The Church teaches that *if you do not obtain an annulment, the first marriage is not dissolved. *Therefore, if someone marries another and their other marriage hasn’t been annulled, that person is committing adultery. Would Jesus share Himself (communion) with a sinner (in this case an adulterer)?
DCana, The couple is *objectively *in mortal sin, but may not subjectively be in mortal sin.
Stylteramaldo, you misunderstand what an annulment does. The marriage is not dissolved by the annulment–a decree of nullity announces that a sacramental marriage never took place.
The ministers of marriage are the two who are getting married. The priest is not the minister of this sacrament. The Church requires that he witness and bless the marriage.
This is why previously existing marriages are only blessed by the priest, as in the case of one or both members of the couple converting.
Thus, as long as there is no decree of nullity, the first marriage is *presumed *to be valid, and it appears that the remarried couple are in a state of mortal sin.
However, if the first marriage was invalid, then it was invalid all along–the problem existed at the time of the marriage.
In which case, the “second” marriage is presumed to exist and only be in need of blessing. It is not done or re-done; it is only blessed.
This opens up pastoral aid short of the sacraments.