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As I have said before, given the regularity with which people move (and divorce is often a significant motivator), it is far more likely that someone who does not have other notoriety - for example, a person well known widely in a community, such as a mayor, or someone else with a public image - could walk into a parish and no one - and I mean no one - would have the faintest clue as to their marital history. Yes, a public figure who divorced and remarried would be a source of scandal; but Bob a plumber or Sally a sales rep would not be known to anyone.Ora, I do not disagree.
Love of God is the greatest and most important Commandment. How one worships God (gives to God his due) and sees God’s reflection in EVERY human (treating the least as Christ Himself) is what is necessary for salvation.
I also do not see the practice of traditions as the end all be all….that is giving to tradition the honor that belongs to God alone.
The concern I am trying to raise is the concern that Pope John Paul II addressed in Familiaris Consortio……that scandal of the faithful -leading them into error and confusion will result when traditions (such as Communion for D&R) are changed.
Therefore, no scandal.
Therefore, John Paul’ words need to be examined in somewhat greater detain than a mere surface reading.
Obviously someone in a smaller parish who goes through a divorce and remarries may be known to others in the parish as having gone through a divorce; but how do they know that Bob got a decree of nullity, and Sally didn’t? It doesn’t get published in the bulletin; so how? Someone nosy enough to anoint themselves as liturgical/moral police and go investigate? And if they do not find the correct information (since decrees of nullity are not broadcast) are we going to have the liturgical/moral police spreading rumors?
Scenario: A couple shows up for Mass; no one recognizes them and they say they belong to another parish: who is it that is going to inquire whether they have been married more than once, and if so, did they get a decree of nullity? If they are living as brother and sister, and go to a different parish to go to Mass and Communion, what scandal is there in that? You don’t even know if this is their first marriage or not.