OK, we need a little educating 'round here folks…
*]He prefers ad orientum celebration, but faces the people.
There are 2 valid forms of the Latin Rite - Novus Ordo and the Tridentine. Tidentine uses the ‘ad orientum’. Both are legal and acceptable. Just because he prefers it when he celebrates Mass in no way communicates that EVERY priest must celebrate ‘ad orientum’. It DOES show, however, that he prefers the solemnity and reverence of the Tridentine. In fact, you’ll notice that at Wash DC, he had a crucifix on the altar POINTED TOWARD HIM - a clear sign that he is offering the Mass a sacrificial priest, and not as just a ‘celebration with the community’ - a VERTICAL emphasis over the HORIZONTAL.
*]He disliked applause, but gave no indication of that at the DC mass, and entered wholeheartedly in the tributes paid to him.
He is a kind and gracious host in a foriegn land, I think we all know that there is a love between the sheep and it’s shepherd. An exception? Yes. And rightfully so. The applause was meant as a way to show our love and respect for our earthly shepherd. It took the place of 50,000 people trying to hug him. I can rejoice in that.
His objection was applauding to bring focus to human activity, rather than the glory of and to God.
It reminds me of when I took over as organist for a parish that was used to a contemporary format for liturgical music. When I’d get done with the recessional, the parish would turn around to the choir loft and applaud. Very quickly, I learned to go almost directly into a postlude to prevent that from happening, and in fact the priest later thanked me for musically discouraging that display. It used to be that people would kneel and pray St. Michaels prayer and other prayers after Mass…but no more - it’s time to SOCIALIZE!
*]He said he did not like communion in the hand, yet at every papal mass, one does not see any evidence that he would withhold it from a communicant whose hand is extended.
Again, both forms are correct and acceptable, but this Pope realizes that there was indeed a loss of reverence and awe and receiving the Eucharist in this manner. He prefers to recognize the legitimacy of the ‘old’ way of treating the Body of Christ.
This in NO WAY communicates that everyone must receive communion in this way.
These arguments do not reflect mightily in support of your viewpoint.
I have found that for those who prefer the latest contemporary style and method of worship. Nothing less than a papal decree issued from the Chair of Peter stating that “Let There Be Peace On Earth” will no longer be allowed at the Mass" will they accept any argument against their preference.
All I can do is to make sure that I am participating in our liturgy, reading the church documents, and influencing the appropriate direction of the liturgical music, and most of all - praising God and giving Him all the glory.
The rest is up to the Holy Spirit!