Are you on track to come into the Church this Easter? Assuming that you have been / are still in RCIA and will be confirmed this Easter, I would simply tell my parents that you have been taking the time to consider this. Prior to RCIA, you became curious and wanted to learn more. You then pursued this by asking questions and possibly speaking with a priest. Then you joined an RCIA class in order to learn more about the Church and her dogma. Certainly, all this instruction and time is longer than it takes for someone to enter your parents church. Anyway, be respectful and just tell them that you love them and value their opinions but that you have given this a great deal of time and that you have made your decision.
If you feel you are not prepared to receive your Sacraments at Easter I would wait til next Easter to sort out any issues… But if it’s just your parents concern I would pray about it and talk to a priest as well as explain to them how you feel.
Pray about it and talk to your priest. God bless you, I will be praying for you. If you need any advice or support just send me a message.
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It sounds to me as if your parents aren’t necessarily discouraging you from converting to Catholicism, but rather encouraging you to “truly discern” your journey into the Church. I think this is wise advice and will help you as you grow into your faith. The Church also wishes you to discern your journey, which is why it takes time to go through the RCIA. Taking time to discern does not mean you are not moving toward your ultimate goal. There are many things you can do to enhance your faith, and one of them is to trust your parent’s love and concern for you. They do not wish you to be unhappy or unfulfilled, do they? It is good that you spoke with your priest. It is also good for you to speak with your parents and allow them to participate in your journey. Ask them to share their own faith life and journey with you. Perhaps you can introduce them to your priest and RCIA coordinator. Invite them to attend mass with you. Allow them to share the joy of your conversion. Perhaps, together, you and your parents can grown closer to the Lord and his Church.
I don’t see how the Church would impede your love of Christ. I know exactly how you feel right now. Several people in my life shunned my decision including my own grandparents who feel like Catholics aren’t saved (erroneously) and (just as erroneous) that we worship Mary. I understand where your parents are coming from and I believe they feel they have your best interests at heart, but I believe you are old enough to make the decision. If you can understand the Creed, the Sacraments, Authority both divine and on earth and why they are necessary, and why Jesus gave Peter the keys to heaven then you are old enough to join our family and we will all welcome you with open arms. If you do not feel like you can make the commitment now, I understand and hope that one day you will come to flock. If you feel that you are ready than by all means, we want you here. If you know why you are doing it and your reasons are pure, then God will take you by the hand and walk with you the rest of the way.
God Bless you and let your mind be at ease!My mother said the same thing to me last week, and I’m 42!
