Just food for thought, how many of you have known first hand, or are immigrants from other countries and cultures, who assimilated into the new environment while keeping their native customs and culture too?
5 Examples in my own life are my American born father who lived in France in the early 1950’s, stationed with the Air Force. He did everything he could to embrace the French culture, learned the language fluently, both Parisian and the local dialect; experienced and respected the nuances of the local food and culture, befriended local french people, but still celebrated being an American through his life. yes, he is Catholic and so were most of the local people.
My French mother, who when my parents moved to the US, took as her first priority to become fluent in English, learn the local customs, food, American styles.
My childhood friend, Eva’s family was from Canada. They had a full life in the US, active in the community, spoke English, while retaining their Quebecois culture and language at home.
Also, I recall longtime dear friends and neighbors, whose children went through school with my children, from Taiwan. They also spoke fluent english, participated in community life, while being proud of their chinese language and customs.
Lastly, I worked with a company for 3 years, with two young people from Sudan who came to the US as refugees. They had learned English fluently, worked responsibly, dressed like most mainstream Americans dress, assimilated into American culture, yet not only didn’t forget but also shared their native culture.
What is it that binds a society together- language, food, music, dress, education, community spirit?** It seems that the French have received immigrants, then dropped the ball in helping them get established and survive both culturally and economically.**